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By Suzanne Haugh, Staff Writer
ATLANTAPeering out through her thick-lensed glasses, Sister
Angela Abood, CSJ, speaks freely of her calling to become a Sister of St.
Joseph of Carondelet as a seventh-grader in Valdosta.
Nothing stopped her from entering the novitiate in 1951 when she
turned 22, even her parents reluctance to see her board the train to St.
Louis, Mo., to begin her formation as a nun. She has journeyed mainly in the
company of children throughout her ministry, with stops along the way at St.
Anthonys School, Atlanta, where she organized a day-care center, and at
the Village of St. Joseph, now closed, where she worked with troubled youth.
I left part of my heart there when it closed, she
says, adding, I left part of my heart at St. Anthonys too.
This year Sister Abood, now retired, marks her 50th year of
ministry as a sister. For this MARTA-savvy Georgia peach there is little that
slows her down from seeing to the needs of others, even though she is legally
blind.
Shes out on the mean streets of Atlanta all the
time, says Athens native Sister Loretta Costa, CSJ, who was 13 when she
first met Sister Abood, then 8, while visiting her grandmother in Valdosta.
Shes got friends among the street people. Shell be by
Underground Atlanta or going to the Shrine (of the Immaculate Conception) and
theyll all know her name, Sister Angela.
Sister Patricia Clune, CSJ, principal at Queen of Angels School,
Roswell, can also testify to the street smarts of Sister Abood. She was
downtown on jury duty around noon one day. I looked across the street and
theres Sister Angela. She keeps MARTA in business, whether its the
bus or train. She was coming down to the Shrine for noon Mass. She loves the
city and gets in a couple of times a week.
Sister Clune admires her fellow St. Joseph of Carondelet sister
and says she is a remarkable woman with a wonderful sense of humor and a kind
heart. I think she lives the Gospel values on a daily basis. She lives
the Beatitudes in my estimation.
Sister Aboods failing eyesight has not in the least bit
slowed her down, even when faced with the challenge of managing active
preschoolers. Both nuns taught at St. Anthonys, living with eight other
sisters, and Sister Clune can still picture Sister Mother Hen
coming out of the child-care center onto the playground followed by her
little pipsqueaks.
She taught everything, in a sense, from memory because
of her poor eyesight, Sister Clune recalls. She knew the skills the kids
needed to learn and taught them.
Sister Abood has drawn from her own public school experience and
education under the Sisters of St. Joseph. Born into a family of Lebanese
immigrants who had settled in Valdosta, Sister Abood remembers celebrating home
Masses along with her two brothers and younger sister in her early days because
there was no Catholic church or school in the area. Being the child of
immigrants and being Catholic in a city of mainly Baptists left her feeling
not too accepted, recalls the nun who now feels accepted
beautifully at a senior living complex, where she resides, run by the
Baptist Church in Decatur.
The Sisters of St. Joseph opened a school in Valdosta in the
forties where Sister Abood completed grades 6-8. The example of the sisters had
a great influence on her and cemented her desire to join the order one day. Not
until the age of 22, after working as a hostess in her uncles restaurant
and in a theater, did she leave to pursue her vocation despite her
parents pleas to stay.
It was just like death, she recalls of her
parents attitude toward her calling and their perception of the rigid,
hard life many sisters endured then. It was very difficult. Lebanese are
very close people and they dont let go.
Years later, after completing her novitiate and professing final
vows in 1953, her parents accepted her life as a nun. I never gave them
trouble, she said.
Sister Aboods first year ministering brought her back to the
South working at St. Josephs Home for Boys in Washington, Ga.
I thought I was going to go nuts in Washington, she
confides. I was so isolated and on duty 24 hours a day working with
disturbed children.
She remembers the challenge of having to have a group of boys
dressed in their Sunday best for 7 a.m. Mass every morning and then having them
changed before going to breakfast.
It was hard for me. I left the quiet of the novitiate, the
silence, to go into all the noise of 100 boys in the dining room, but I worked
through it.
After a year, Sister Abood joined Sister Costa in Milledgeville at
Sacred Heart School, a three-room schoolhouse. Her time there was
delightful, she says, but the low enrollment eventually forced the
school to close and Sister Abood was sent to Augusta for a new assignment
teaching religion and managing a kitchen that serviced 25 nuns.
I was pooped those days trying to keep all of that
goingand in a habit, she admits. Still, she calls those happy
days, but often hot ones.
In August when it was 101 degrees I would tell people that
if there was a mission in Alaska, Im going. She speaks of how
sisters looked for white cards to come in the mail to inform them
of changes in their ministry or location.
They didnt always come each year so you had no
idea, she says. Sure enough, her wish for a colder climate was granted.
After four years in Augusta, she traveled to Negaunne, Mich., where she taught
at St. Pauls School. I love cold weather, she says.
But with her father very ill, she returned to Valdosta and started
in a position at her alma mater, St. John the Evangelist School, teaching first
and second grades. Everything seemed so big when I left, but it was so
little when I came back, she recalls, thinking back to her graduating
class of four students.
In 1972, Sister Abood moved to Atlanta and has never left. In her
30 years in the city working primarily with children she has served at St. Paul
of the Cross School, St. Anthonys School, the Village of St. Joseph and
at the Department of Catholic Education.
I love children, working with children, she says and
recalls ministering to troubled youth at the Village in the 1970s and again in
the late 1980s. She remembers the drugs and abusiveness some endured and how
she tried to be an uplifting presence for them.
Some kids really suffer, she acknowledges. I
felt for the kids very much.
Sister Costa was alongside Sister Abood ministering at the
Village. She is a faith-filled lady, she had to be, and she imparted that
to the kids, Sister Costa says, adding that the kids love for the
sister was evident. I can still see her with her guitar and with the
kids, playing.
The two nuns are residents of Clairmont Oaks in Decatur, which was
the site of a jubilee Mass in honor of Sister Abood, celebrated by Father John
Adamski, pastor of Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Atlanta.
Sister Angela has always been a very outgoing, vivacious and
generous person doing what she can to help others, he said in a phone
interview following the event. Father Adamski was instrumental in Sister
Aboods current interest in and service to those with HIV/AIDS.
At the Mass, Sister Abood says she thanked God for her 50 years of
ministry and her parents for the gift of life. She also recognized the support
of the sisters that keep me going, and the love and care and dedication
they show . . . There were hard years, you cant live with 10 women and
not have had hard times, but its all worth itthe peace and sense of
love and care.
The event has prompted reflection on her life and her presence in
others lives. It made me realize that Ive given something to
them. Its a very good feeling that in some way I made God present to
other people, especially kids.
While still a faithful patron visible along MARTA bus and train
routes, her spirit resembles more of someone thrilled with riding a roller
coaster.
Be ready for everything in Religious life, she says,
if you give your life to God.
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