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CONYERSBorn on Holy Saturday and baptized on Easter Sunday,
Father Tom Tarcis (Thomas Tarcisus Skonieczny) died on Easter Monday, April 16,
at the Monastery of the Holy Spirit. He was 84.
Born April 7, 1917 in Calumet City, Ill., just south of Chicago,
he was baptized Thomas Gabriel Skonieczny at St. Andrews Church on Easter
Sunday, April 8. He was confirmed there on May 3, 1933.
Wishing to become a Religious, he corresponded with the Holy Cross
Brothers during his senior year in high school. He was accepted for his
postulancy at Watertown, Wis. After a year, he went for a novitiate year at
Rolling Prairie, Ind., and was given the name Brother Viator. He made temporary
profession on Aug. 16, 1938, and was sent to Notre Dame University in South
Bend, Ind., to study for a teaching degree.
I tried for two years, he would later write, but
toward the end of the second year a discontent seized me and an attraction for
the contemplative life came.
After one year in New Orleans as a teacher at Holy Cross College
(a Brothers of the Holy Cross high school), Brother Viator appealed to his
spiritual director at Notre Dame and Brother Agatho, CSC, his superior, for
help in discernment. Both encouraged him to explore the contemplative vocation.
In a letter to Dom Frederic Dunne, OCSO, abbot of Gethsemani Abbey
in Kentucky, Brother Agatho wrote of the 23-year-old Brother Viator: I
can recommend this young man very highly. He is one of the best men I have in
the house, and has a marked gift of prayer.
Encouraged to visit, Brother Viator did so and entered Gethsemani
Abbey on June 7, 1941, after completing his simple vows with the Brothers of
the Holy Cross.
Given the name Brother Mary Tarcisus by the abbot, he wrote a
brief account of his life. It included the influence of St. Therese of Lisieux.
My conversion came with a devotion to the Little Flower in the fifth
grade and now it is clear that she has had a good deal to do with a better life
on my part since. He was professed on Oct. 6, 1946.
His early training in music at St. Andrews Church was a gift
to Our Lady of the Holy Spirit Abbey. It was because of his talent that he was
sent to the newly founded monastery in Conyers to serve as organist. He arrived
on June 13, 1947, and was ordained a priest on June 29, 1951.
In addition to his musical skills, Father Tom Tarcisus brought a
love for the works of St. Bernard. Between work periods, he would go into the
woods to be with nature and read St. Bernard in Latin. On warm summer days, a
pond would be the place for holy reading and taking in Gods creation that
he loved deeply.
Father Tom, as he was affectionately called, left an enduring mark
during the construction of the present monastery in the late 1950s not only
with his manual labor but also with his devotion to the Way of the Cross. Using
leftover cement he made a seven-foot cross for each station and placed them in
the woods east of the abbey church.
In June 1983, Father Tom was diagnosed with Alzheimers
disease. The degenerative dementia was gradual but rapidly increased in 1996
after a broken hip from a fall confined him to bed. As the disease accelerated,
Father Toms body steadily weakened and eventually left him bedridden. For
five years, his monastic brothers devotedly took care of him around the clock,
praying with him and reading Scripture to him.
Father Tom seemed to offer up his infirmities for the novices.
Frequently a brother visiting with him would hear the question, And how
are the novices?
He is survived by his brother Dominic and his sister Brendana. He
was predeceased by three sisters who joined the Congregation of the Holy Family
of Nazareth: Sister Mary Cordia, Sister Sarah Marie and Sister Amata.
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