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By Suzanne Haugh, Staff Writer
MARIETTASally Putney, a breast cancer survivor, remembers
sitting in the doctors office two weeks after her first chemotherapy
session when a huge clump of her hair fell out.
It was right before Christmas (1999) and I was told that
its better to shave it all off, dont let it fall out.
A parishioner at the Church of the Transfiguration, she quickly
made an appointment with her hairdresser and had already ordered a neat
wig. One of Putneys two daughters photographed her at the salon in
new hairdos, including the G.I. Joe cut, before it was completely
shaved off. We laughed and cried, she recalled.
A lot happened that year. Putney had gone to an internist in June
who gave her a clean bill of health. At her gynecological appointment in
October everything was fine, she said. She was doing her own
monthly self-exams as well.
But a November appointment with a mobile mammography unit at
Transfiguration, scheduled through the parish Health and Wellness Committee,
brought to light a growth in one breast that others had missed.
Probably had it not been for that (mammography), I would be
dead now, she said. I want to be a message-bearer to other people,
especially if you have a history (of breast cancer) in your family, which I
do.
She can think of about three dozen women who have scurried
off to their own churches or doctors offices (for mammograms) after
hearing her story. If I can put the scare in them, I will. Its an
easy exam and I dont understand why more women dont get it.
Sister Celeste Schoppy, IHM, pastoral associate at Transfiguration
Church, is making sure that womenand men, toohave access to
important medical screenings at the church, a place where many go to experience
spiritual healing, but wouldnt necessarily expect medical help.
Creating a sense of total well-being, accounting for all aspects
of the human person, is the goal of the Health and Wellness Committee.
The physical, spiritual, mental, emotional, vocational,
environmental, when each is in harmony and balance, you experience better
health of mind, body and spirit, said Sister Schoppy.
That goal translates into handling lifestyle issues that
parishioners confront every day. This can range from how to combat holiday
stress and how to nurture the caregivers of dependent loved ones to
coordinating a bereavement support group. The church has scheduled
vaccinations, flu shots, mammograms and screenings for prostate cancer on site
and has purchased a defibrillator, which the average person can use should
someone suffer a heart attack on church property. Committee members orchestrate
hospital visits by eucharistic ministers and requests for the sacrament of the
anointing of the sick for those facing surgery or some other medical crisis.
All of this is clothed with the veil of prayer.
I try to emphasize, so much, the belief in how prayer
affects people, even if they dont know theyre being prayed
for, said Sister Schoppy, who added that the committee works in
conjunction with prayer groups and prayer lists. Its certainly part
of the total program.
Sister Schoppy brings to the ministry much work experience and a
firsthand look at how ones spiritual and physical well-being are
intertwined. As a nationally certified hospital chaplain, she has been involved
in hospice and bereavement services and worked as a chaplain in many settings.
She has witnessed how those who have a faith life and are faced with illness or
death deal with these crises much better than those who do not profess a faith.
She described studies that link physical recovery with spirituality.
Before the Health and Wellness Committee officially kicked off its
ministry, Msgr. Pat Bishop, the pastor, put together a slate of speakers who
addressed issues surrounding total well-being to ecumenical gatherings starting
in 1998. He also created a think-tank of healthcare workers and others, Sister
Schoppy said, as he laid a foundation for the ministry. Pivotal to the effort
was finding someone to lead the committee.
With her medical and spiritual training and experience, Sister
Schoppys presence at Transfiguration seems providential. We were
lucky to find Sister Celeste, said Msgr. Bishop, who wanted someone
knowledgeable about health issues and theology for the position of pastoral
associate.
The Health and Wellness Committee is Msgr. Bishops
brainchild and a facet of parish life beginning to take hold nationally.
It came from a personal conviction that were not a
body and soul dichotomy, but total well-being extends to the whole person.
Physical health affects the spiritual and spiritual health affects the
body.
The fusion of body, mind and spirit is nothing new in recent
years, but where its recognized and nurtured is.
I think this concept is emerging (in other churches),
Msgr. Bishop said. It makes so much sense to go in and coordinate an
outreach to those who are ill or are shut-ins. To go in and see if the elderly
are doing okay, if theyre taking their medicine and also to coordinate
special ministers of the Eucharist.
I think parishes, ironically, down here are going back to
what churches used to be in the old daysa center for religious and social
activities, a center of life.
A church community is often the first stop for people moving into
the area.
I dont know of any place where a person can turn to
and belong to immediately, find day care, adult education (and other
ministries), Msgr. Bishop said.
There is an inherent ease in assessing ones physical
condition, in certain areas, at the same locale as addressing ones
spiritual needs. Were not trying to be a hospital or health center,
but to make it easier to take care of yourself all around.
Its much easier to come into the parish center, where
youre familiar, than go to a health center or to an elementary school
(for screenings) where they dont know anything about you.
Thankfully this rang true for parishioner Bob Cantwell. While he
had had a few work-related physicals, when he heard about a screening for
prostate cancer at church he decided to sign up. When he didnt show up
for his appointment, Sister Schoppy called his wife.
My wife said, Sister, you have a better chance of
getting him there than me, Cantwell said, jokingly. Fortunately the
doctor stayed beyond the allotted time to see Cantwell, whose test, it turned
out, indicated that he had prostate cancer. Since his screening in late 1999,
Cantwell has successfully undergone treatment and has shared his story at
Masses to encourage other men to sign up for PSA screenings since his own.
To be truthful, I dont know if I would have done it if
it were not for the church, Cantwell said. The church looks after
people on the outside by gathering food, clothing and cars through groups like
St. Vincent de Paul. I think they also need to think about their own
parishioners.
For parishioners Diane and Jerry Stapleton the opportunity to
serve on the Health and Wellness Committee not only fit well with their work in
health care fields but with their lifestyle and principles.
He recently retired from the Air Force after many years working as
a medic.
It was a very interesting job, he said. I did
everything from delivering two babies to being the only medical personnel for
300 people in a 500-mile radius.
During their time in the military, he and Diane lived in
Greenland, Alaska and other locations within the United States.
I like helping people, Jerry Stapleton said. I
enjoy working with people and seeing things get better by what Im
doing.
He now manages the couples home-based business of holistic,
alternative health products called Nikken Independent Distributors. They are
glad to have found a spiritual home that lets them share their beliefs
concerning holistic health through the Health and Wellness Committee.
Recalling how Transfiguration spoke to us, Diane
Stapleton believes in divine intervention. To come to Atlanta, to
Kennesaw, to Transfiguration, its no coincidence. Its all supposed
to happen.
The couple, who were high school sweethearts, uprooted themselves
from Illinois after a major epiphany in 1999 spawned by a medical
crisis in their own lives.
At the time, we were maxed out, she said. We
needed a change in lifestyle. We knew everything had to change . . . Life is
too dang precious.
With her husbands retirement, she accepted a less stressful
job in Atlanta and the couple changed their eating habits. I try really
hard to have some down time, said Diane Stapleton, whose experience in
the allied health field has convinced her that total well-being is not just a
matter of tending to medical concerns.
A balanced life is the key to wellness of mind, body and
spirit, she said. Ones spirituality, the power of prayer and
a positive attitude play a big part in wellness, adding that the church
plays a big part in life.
And thats where all aspects of ones being can
converge.
Jerry Stapleton talked of the committees current program and
future plans. We try to look at the population of the parish and then
gear what we do towards them, he said.
The committee of about 12 people includes physicians, nurses and
others inside and outside the medical profession who meet once a month.
For Putney, she has enjoyed getting on with life and
has noticed a change in her priorities since her experience with breast cancer.
I try to get out of the office on time to be with my family.
It also makes God more special to you, to know that he never lets you go it
alone.
Her cancer remains close in mind and has affected her spiritual
life. I prayed a lot to get through that with dignity no matter what the
end would bring.
She recalled how the healing prayers of the pastor before any
major medical treatment always calmed her. She also felt the support of the
church community and others in her life.
People care about you, she said, fondly recalling
the telephone calls, cards and comments like, You look
beautiful! even though I was wearing a silly hat.
While she cannot donate her blood during blood drives, she clears
her calendar to donate her time as a volunteer. Now she tries to be there
for other people.
I feel good, emotionally and physically. I dont know
what will happen tomorrow, but I pray to be continually strengthened to handle
it with dignity and get through it. Were put on earth to go to heaven. It
can be a struggle.
But through the efforts of those who make possible attention
to all aspects of holism, especially the spiritual, as the mission
statement for the Health and Wellness Committee reads, lives are touched,
treated and transformed. |