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Print Issue: March 22, 2001

St. Stephen Parish, In New Church, Builds Family Of Faith

Photos -- Parish

By Erika Anderson

LILBURN—From humble beginnings in a high school cafeteria, St. Stephen the Martyr Church has become a thriving, Christ-centered community that now has a place to call home.

The parish, which has 500 families, is located on the corner of Rockbridge and Wydella roads. A $2.4 million project, the new building includes a church, with seating for 500 people, five classrooms, parish offices, a nursery and a fellowship hall, which adds four additional classrooms with dividers. Architects CDH Partners and contractors JTV worked to design and construct the L-shaped building, which was dedicated by Archbishop John F. Donoghue on Dec. 26, 2000, the feast of St. Stephen.

Originally a mission of St. John Neumann Church in Lilburn, St. Stephen’s was named a parish last May.

Principal concelebrants at the Mass of dedication included Father Patrick Donaghey, pastor, Father James Fennessy, pastor of St. John Neumann, and Father Austin Fogarty, parochial vicar at St. James the Apostle Church in McDonough.

During his homily, the archbishop told the story of St. Stephen, who became the first martyr, stoned in the presence of Saul because of his Christian faith. Each Christian is called to live his faith with the same conviction as Stephen, he said.

“We may never be brought to this test, but I believe that in the depths of our souls, some quiet voice of the Spirit is always there, telling us that it could be so—telling us that each one of us has the makings of the saint, of the martyr—and I also believe, that it is from the immense, even if quiet strength, that this conviction gives us, that we are able to do so much good in the world which surrounds us,” he said. “We know that the Faith of our Church to do good is an undying ember—we know that the power of the Sacraments to refresh our souls and strengthen our lives is inexhaustible—and though we may not be given to what is often called proselytizing, we make no apologies for the open doors of our Church, and the emphatic clarity of our Church’s holy teaching.”

The archbishop then compared the church dedication to St. Stephen’s dedication to his faith, remarking that “the very commitment and vision that led Stephen to his glorious martyrdom, is the same commitment and vision that now leads us to consider the future of our community here at St. Stephen’s as we dedicate our new church, and prepare for our own spiritual future.”

“We may not have to die under the stones of our persecutors, but this does not mean that we cannot take the first martyr’s words as a measure of our own faith,” he said. “For why do we build and dedicate this Church—why do we raise shelters for our children to be educated, and pavilions for our families to meet, to share, and take part as one family, in the joy of the Lord? Because, dear friends, we have raised our eyes in prayer, and we have seen in the sky a vision of the Lord, and the glory of God His Father, and we are so inspired, that nothing negative anyone says makes a jot of difference—we will do everything, even die, to make this vision of our salvation proceed, go forward, and be in place, so that those who need our Church, will find its doors open, and its spaces so convivial, as to draw all its people together as one family of the Lord.”

The archbishop ended his homily with a prayer.

“Our motives and our hopes for this dedication today, and for all our future plans, are grounded in the same Faith of those who died for Christ, like St. Stephen, and those who saw visions of Christ’s Church, like St. John,” he said. “May our own efforts, thus allied to the vision and sacrifices of our fathers in Faith, be sanctified by the Holy Spirit, and all our works fulfill the prayer of the Lord, who said, at His end, but as our beginning: ‘Father . . . I have given them the glory you gave me, that they may be one, as we are one . . . so that your love for me may live in them, and I may live in them.’”

Today, three months after the dedication, parishioners are enjoying their own church, after celebrating many years in a high school.

On Sept. 17, 1995, St. Stephen’s first Mass was celebrated at Parkview High School on Cole Drive by Father Fennessy. Approximately 300 parishioners and guests attended. It was after the first Mass that the name of St. Stephen the Martyr was selected by those present and later approved by the archbishop. Three days later, 15.7 acres were purchased by the archdiocese for the new church.

For the first four months of St. Stephen’s existence, only one Sunday Mass was celebrated each week. In January 1996, a second Mass was added to allow for the needs of the growing community.

Father Donaghey was assigned as a parochial vicar to St. John Neumann in June 1996. He immediately became the priest in residence at St. Stephen.

A building committee for St. Stephen’s had already been established by this time, organized by Father Fennessy, and had begun gathering designs from other churches plus building requirements from the various ministries for a new multipurpose facility.

The parish broke ground for the new church on June 24, 1999. The roof blessing ceremony was held on Palm Sunday 2000, and the first Mass in the new church was celebrated on Aug. 5, 2000.

Parishioners have participated in the design of the new church, which features several pieces from Canadian sculptor Timothy Shmalz and includes a statue of a kneeling Mary in a pro-life memorial garden. Parishioner Mark Palmquist built both the altar and ambo, while parishioner Steve Drzik built the stands for the statues and the base for the baptismal font. John Nelson, who is also a parishioner, built the cross that holds the corpus, which hangs on the teal wall behind the altar.

Father Donaghey, known affectionately to parishioners as “Father Paddy,” said that the parishioners were eager to help. Even now, about 45 parishioners often dedicate their Saturdays to gardening and landscaping around the church.

“This is the spirit of St. Stephen’s,” he said. “The people are very giving of themselves in all aspects, not just financially, but giving of their time and talent.”

Father Donaghey said that with the additional space, the parish has been able to establish an outreach ministry. A meal-mobile was begun, with parishioners delivering meals to Atlanta homeless on Tuesday and Saturday evenings.

“We were just waiting for this place to open up so we could establish that,” he said, “because we really just didn’t have the facilities before.”

In building the church, Father Donaghey said that they wanted “simplicity, but for it to be elegant as well because it is a house of God.”

“Just to walk into the church, there is a spirit of prayer and calmness,” the pastor said. “There’s a tranquility there.”

Jim Curry, who served as co-chair of the building committee along with Steve Dupont, agrees with Father Donaghey.

“The church’s beauty lies in its simplicity, there is no question about that,” he said. “We wanted it to feel like a house.”

Curry, who designs stadiums for a living, said that designing the church was a unique experience.

“I’m an architect by profession, but I have never done anything as personal and as worthwhile as a church,” he said. “It was such a pleasure.”

Curry said he was impressed by the dedication and vision of the committees involved.

“It was very spiritually enriching,” he said, “because the committee as a whole never lost sight of what they were doing and that was building a house of worship.”

He said that the parishioners really feel a sense of ownership with the new church.

“The building itself matches how we feel. It’s very small, and not very tall,” he said. “It fits into the neighborhood perfectly. We did not want to build a big, dominant structure in the neighborhood. I think the building really reflects the spirit of the people.”

Mary Ellen Vaden, a parishioner who decorated the interior of the church, said she was “honored to be asked.”

“I didn’t do it for me; I did it because I have been given a talent and I wanted to give back,” she said. “It really turned out to be a warm and inviting place.”

Vaden, like Curry, was impressed by the parish’s desire to help.

“I have never seen so many people who care so much about a place,” she said. “They were so eager about getting it built and started. They just wanted this church so badly.”

As the parish grows, Father Donaghey hopes that it will continue to serve its three goals of worship, education and fellowship.

“I hope that the people of this parish will grow spiritually closer to the Lord and witness to that every day of their lives,” he said. “We want this church to be a little beacon of light in this little corner of Lilburn, where people feel welcomed, where other people will make them feel a part of this place. What we want to try to develop here is a family.”

HOLY ARTIFACT -- Mark Palmquist assists Archbishop John F. Donoghue in depositing a relic of St. Stephen into the altar. Palmquist, a parishioner and woodworking craftsman, built the altar and ambo.
Photos by Michael Alexander


MAN ON A MISSION -- Father Patrick Donaghey, pastor of St. Stephen the Martyr Church, gives some closing remarks of gratitude to everyone who made the building project a success. Since 1996 Father Donaghey has been serving at St. Stephen the Martyr, the second new church to grow out of St. John Neumann Church, Lilburn. The other is St. Marguerite D’Youville Church, Lawrenceville.