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By Marie Powers Special To The Bulletin
PEACHTREE CITYWith the U.S. Food and Drug
Administrations recent decision to approve mifepristone, or RU-486,
better known as the abortion pill, the abortion issue is moving
from outpatient clinics to the privacy of physicians offices.
Its more important than ever to have young women, who
represent the majority of those who seek abortions, on the front lines of the
effort to defend life.
Rose DeCaro, 19, has been walking those lines for many years. The
daughter of Mary and Greg DeCaro of Peachtree City, DeCaro is a sophomore at
Franciscan University in Steubenville, Ohio, where she is a double major in
theology and mental health. Since her family moved to Georgia in 1986, she has
grown into a young woman who is an activist for her faith.
At Holy Trinity Parish, DeCaro has been deeply involved in
LifeTeen and the Respect Life committee. In these capacities, DeCaro challenged
fellow parishioners, including teens, to become more actively involved in
efforts to support the dignity of life from conception to natural death. She
has spoken at Masses, handed out roses for life, staffed information booths,
participated in prayer chains and frequently gathered with other parishioners
to pray for an end to abortion and for mercy on those involved in its practice.
DeCaro also served as a volunteer at the Advice and Aid Pregnancy
Center in Hapeville. But God was calling her to do even more.
Last summer, DeCaro joined 25 college students in a three-month
walk across the U.S. as part of the sixth annual Crossroads pilgrimage. The
pro-life walk was founded by former Franciscan University student Steve Sanborn
in response to Pope John Paul IIs call for youth to proclaim the Gospel
of life.
Since pro-life efforts are generally discriminated against
by the media, youth need to take the message of life to the streets by meeting
people one-on-one, face-to-face, DeCaro said. Crossroads aims to do
this.
DeCaro and 13 others began their journey on May 21 in San
Francisco; a second group of 12 students set out on the same date from Los
Angeles. The two groups crossed the Rocky Mountains and Mojave Desert and
visited major cities along their routes before converging in August in
Washington, D.C.
The journey serves both as a prayer of atonement for the holocaust
of abortion and in supplication for its end, and as a witness to the sanctity
of human life by young people. Since all but one of them was born after 1973,
their lives could have been among the millions ended legally by abortion
following the Roe vs. Wade decision.
The mission of Crossroads is to bring Jesus Christ to the
hearts and minds of everyone they meet, with the hope that this will bring
about more active pro-life involvement, DeCaro said. It is three
months of nonstop pro-life evangelization.
According to figures from the United States Catholic Conference,
1.4 million children are aborted each year. In many U.S. cities, more abortions
now are performed each year than deliveries.
We walked our nations roads wearing shirts that said
Pro-Life in big, bold letters, DeCaro said. Their prayer
consisted of daily participation in the Mass, recitation of the Divine Office
and the rosary. The whole walk is based on prayer and sacrifice to
convert hearts to the Gospel of life, which is the Gospel of Jesus
Christ.
The students walked 60 miles a day as a group and 15 miles a day
individually. Along the way, they stopped to speak at Catholic parishes and met
with pro-life groups, youth groups and the local media.
We had a special interest in speaking with the youth because
we know many of them have been subject to the lies of the culture of
death, DeCaro said. They are hungering for the truth.
Another key focus of the Crossroads mission was to counsel
pregnant mothers considering abortion and to pray in peaceful protest outside
abortion clinics. Mothers in need are offered spiritual and financial support
through the organizations Project Michael Fund.
We talked to many, many people along the way at gas
stations, in restaurantsanywhere we went, DeCaro recalled. We
offered sidewalk counseling outside abortion mills a couple of times a week,
helping those who have suffered from abortion and telling them of the mercy of
God. By Gods grace, many hearts were touched.
The northern Crossroads team witnessed that grace firsthand when a
young mother and father in St. Louis chose not to abort their child during the
tenth week of pregnancy. DeCaro, who serves as a core member of Franciscan
Universitys Human Life Concerns committee and coordinates its sidewalk
counseling program, participated in that intervention.
The southern Crossroads team, which stopped in Atlanta in July,
was accompanied by a mobile unit, equipped with a sonogram machine and staffed
by volunteer pro-life physicians and nurses. The team offered expectant mothers
free sonograms, pregnancy tests and counseling. Statistics show that mothers
overwhelmingly choose life after seeing their babies on an ultrasound screen.
In addition to saving the lives of unborn children, DeCaro
emphasizes the need to reach out to women who have chosen abortion and have
suffered emotional, psychological and physical pain in its aftermath.
It is so important that women who have had abortions know
that God loves them and will forgive them, she said. Even though
abortion is a terrible evil, God, in his infinite mercy, is waiting for them to
come back to Him.
Many, many women have been lied to and exploited by the
horrors of abortion, she added. The truth needs to be told that
abortion hurts women and victimizes them in the name of
choice.
Participating in Crossroads gave DeCaro an opportunity to see
the heart of our country and learn that most people are pro-life.
The problem, she said, is that many of them remain silent.
There are many ways to be pro-life, DeCaro pointed
out. Not everyone is called to pray and counsel women outside an abortion
mill. But you can visit an elderly person in a nursing home, write a pro-life
letter to the editor of your local newspaper, volunteer a few hours a week at a
local crisis pregnancy center or join a pro-life group at your school or church
to help educate others in your community.
Not everyone is called to walk across the country, but
everyone should pray about how God is calling them to be of service to the
Gospel of life, DeCaro said. I especially encourage young people to
get involved in the pro-life movement because this is our generation that is
being destroyed.
For information about Crossroads, contact Franciscan University at
(800) 277-9763. For information about pro-life activities, contact your parish
or the Archdiocese of Atlanta Pro-Life Office at (404) 888-7821. |