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By Priscilla Greear, Staff Writer
COMAYAGUA, HONDURASTeens on a Jubilee mission trip to
Honduras June 29-July 8 saw the crying mestizo face of poverty and contributed
to a Kansas-born priests mission there to dry those tears and educate
youth spiritually and academically.
(Missionaries) come here, they reach out and they really get
their hands dirty doing something productive. They meet the face of
poverty, said Father Emil Cook, OFM Conv., who founded a Catholic school
system in Honduras.
Matthew Robaszkiewicz, director of the archdiocesan Office of
Youth Ministry, led 21 teens from four churches and nine adults involved in
youth ministry, including spiritual director Father Mike Sloboda, MM, of
Florida, on the second annual trip to Flores, Comayagua. Their mission was to
serve the nonprofit Asociación de Pueblos Franciscanos de Muchachos, or
APUFRAM, to which they donated about $4,500 along with collected goods.
Father Cook left the United States in 1970 to begin the ministry
that has grown to include eight schools, including boarding facilities for
orphans and others, trade schools and university housing servicing over 1,000
students.
APUFRAM was established in 1986 by the schools first
university graduates to carry on Father Cooks work while Mission
Honduras, a Catholic nonprofit organization open to all denominations, is the
U.S. support arm.
These schools are essential in the Spanish-speaking nation on the
knee of Central America where, according to APUFRAM, 90 percent of children
quit school after the sixth grade and 80 percent of homes lack running water
and even more lack electricity. Its goal is to provide Catholic education to
free youth from the prison of poverty and beggar mentality and to become
self-sufficient.
The missionaries work out of simple white buildings at the
Guadalupe Center for Girls, an orphanage and school in El Conejo with 52 girls
ages 5-12 who learn a trade, like sewing or cooking, and perform chores.
Director Belkis Ventura, a psychologist, also offers therapy as many arrive
with behavioral problems, are unmotivated or homesick. She said that as they
have trouble initially sticking to schedules and are impulsive, she helps them
learn to control their emotions and become motivated.
Guadalupe also has a home for abandoned women and their children
which provides them with food, medical supplies, education and clothing,
helping them develop skills and become better mothers while increasing their
self-esteem.
One girl, whose demeanor has changed since being away from her
mother who beat her and had sex in front of her, was Keidy, a loud,
rambunctious girl with short black hair and bright eyes. Initially hitting
classmates and spewing vulgarities, she is slowly beginning to change her
speech and does well in school.
For missionary Daved Brosche, who plans to study photography in
college, Keidy and other Latino children made the trip picture-perfect. He took
many pictures of the children such as one of Keidy wrestling playfully with a
teen and another of a shy girl who always ran away from him but on his birthday
gave him a note. Its a big part of what made me want to come back
this yearjust something special about these kidstheyre always
giving you their full, undivided attention.
Missionaries rose by 5 a.m. to a cock-crowing chorus and the sound
of girls handwashing their clothes, reciting the rosary by a Guadalupe statue
and preparing for school. For their work projects, some sorted donated goods in
the bodega warehouse later to be sold at a discount store there.
Beyond a chicken slaughterhouse, some dug a long ditch to create a stone wall
to separate the facility from the highway. Other workers joined with long-term
Atlanta volunteers from St. Jude the Apostle Church, Atlanta, and Cincinnati
filling a foundation for a larger volunteer house.
Meanwhile, first-graders up the hill packed into a small class
eagerly shouting numbers after the teacher and sixth-graders tackled division
of fractions, practiced filling out job applications and listened to their
teacher talk about job discrimination.
Bringing their textbook Spanish to life, teens spent free
afternoons with the children, many barefoot, doing things like playing
Duck, duck, Ganso, painting toenails and singing
Shout to the Lord in Spanish. In Honduras winter,
participants experienced moderate heat and humidity in a hunting zone for
hungry mosquitoes.
For second-time missionary Stephen Clayton, an 18-year-old from
St. Lawrence Church, Lawrenceville, the most rewarding aspect of the trip was
giving hands-on help to a God-centered organization. They embrace God and
his teachings so much that after you (students) do get out in the real world
you dont have a selfish attitude. They give back to the community. Like
Father Emil was saying, if you educate one person you help 15 more.
For Ashley Scardasis, a parishioner at St. James Church,
McDonough, her first mission and Third World trip opened the eyes of her heart.
She recalled how the children lit up at their Fourth of July fireworks show.
She recalled having her young amigas kiss her on the cheek, and
write her notes. It made me feel like I touched somebody and somebody
touched me and made an impact on my life, she said.
Nourishing their spirit, they had daily devotions and regularly
attended Mass in Guadalupes chapel with pale blue walls and wooden
benches. On Saturday the group worshipped alongside youth at a Spanish Mass
celebrated by Father Cook at the main Mission Honduras office, in nearby
Flores. The site, where over 425 children live or attend school, has the
Maximilian Kolbe High School, Internado de San Francisco Home for Boys, Santa
Ana Home for Girls, plus a furniture and metal workshop, volunteer house and a
future medical clinic stocked with donated medicines, which team members
organized. The plain cement block exterior of the grounds buildings,
constructed by male students and volunteers, were brightened by colorful wooden
crosses, a garden with a mural youth had painted depicting biblical stories and
a tree-shaded walkway with neatly dressed boys reading. The team spent another
afternoon playing soccer with boys from the San Antonio de Padua Center for
Boys Orphanage and School in La Villa, home to approximately 50 boys.
The children, who lack the toys showered upon American youth,
reminded Brosche that money cant buy love. I was impressed how
theyre always so happy and how they could find joy out of the simplest
things.
Robaszkiewicz said that the trip taught teens to tap into their
spirituality. Some of the kids had made comments that its a lot
easier to get in touch with your own spirituality and find God when there
arent so many distractions, so many people. (They said,) I have no
trouble seeing Christ down there in the people.
The most important aspects of the trip were just being there and
spending time with the children, experiencing another culture and completing
the work, he said. And the trip was affirming. Any time you reach out to
anyone, whether in the missions or here, its going to be an experience of
affirmation and acknowledgement. By opening to a different way of life, not
only to a different language but to a different culture, it gives the teenagers
a more global perspective because its so easy to get so focused on our
own lifestyle and way of doing things. Recognizing the importance of the
global church, he said, we also have a responsibility to our brothers and
sisters regardless of who we are because we share the same faith.
A new seed has been planted for teens that will grow in unique
ways for each of them. The biggest challenge is how to carry this
experience in daily life and what difference is it going to make and how am I
going to change what Im doing to be in solidarity with this
experience? he said.
Robaszkiewicz said that Central America is a missionary as well as
geographical hot spot and that APUFRAM is very accommodating to volunteers,
including many groups from Atlanta.
For youth ministers the idea is that this is a training trip
to give them a first-hand experience, to give them the process of planning it
so that they can go back and do it in their own parishes.
Jane Peterman, youth minister at St. James who experienced her
first mission trip along with her teens, said it was fertile training ground to
lead her own trip there. I just have more of a global sense. Ive
never been outside the U.S., at least not that far ... It just changed my whole
outlook. Im a better steward of what I have, she said.
She said the trip increased her understanding of Georgias
growing Hispanic presence, adding later that all St. James teens gave the
trip five stars, even with the unfamiliar poverty they experienced. They
got a bigger picture of the world. What touched them the most was visiting with
the children and being part of their lives ... (They got) a better sense of
what Christ calls them to and every single one of them wants to go back,
she said.
As she heads back to high school, Scardasis, 16, said she too has
a better image of the worlds economic spectrum and, as she just lost her
car, before complaining recalls how in Honduras many dont have cars.
Entering Spanish III and with a best friend from Peru, her Spanish is sharper
and so are her goals. I want to be so fluent. I did before, but its
something I really want to do now because thats the way you can
communicate with everybody else, because there are so many Spanish-speaking
people in Atlanta, she said. ... I think it really helped me just
to get out and try to meet people, not judging people (before) you get to know
them.
Peterman said all the teens were blessed to meet Father Cook. She
was impressed by the schools loving, family environment, commitment to
educate every student and highly structured schedules. To talk to
somebody like Father Emil who is making a vision or a dream come true is a
really great learning experience. He is a man who is a great role model.
Cullen LaClair, a St. Lawrence member on his first mission trip,
counted his own blessings. Seeing people down there and how happy they
were with how little they had, it showed us the things that we take for
granted, that we dont need all that stuff, that all we really need in our
lives to be happy is God, said LaClair, 18.
Having dropped out of his parish youth ministry, he said the trip
revived an interest in the faith community. I realized how much our
church youth group comes together as a family and I want to be a part of that
and I definitely want to stay involved in service and spirituality.
For Clayton, who helped start an outreach program at his parish
after last years mission, the trip stirred his evangelical spirit.
(The) experience makes you realize how well you have it and makes you
want to make everybody else have it, to try to brighten up their day.
Whether returning to Honduras or helping a poor immigrant in their
own backyard, these young missionaries stretched their spirits to more clearly
see poverty and, beyond that, to better reach God and neighbors in need.
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