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By Priscilla Greear, Staff Writer
ATLANTA—Reflecting on his mission trip to Calcutta, India,
Craig Hickein recalled the “very peaceful experience” of sitting at a
bedside and praying for a man dying at a hospice run by the Missionaries of
Charity.
He later wrote in his journal about the stranger, Thomas, brought
in from the streets during the summer of 1999.
“I was praying continuously. I was also trying to comfort him
in any way I could, which was little. I would wipe his brow, give him some
water, or just hold his hand and caress his arm ... If I hadn’t been
brought to Calcutta, this man may have died alone. So maybe Thomas is the
reason that I was sent here. Also, I was able to recognize the suffering Christ
in Thomas.”
Hickein said the experience taught him “a lot about life and
death and the brevity of life. I think we’re all really afraid of dying
but sitting with someone, it dispelled those conceptions about death. I
realized it doesn’t have to be as scary as it seemed. It was just kind of
reassuring to sit with someone.”
Stretching the muscles of his soul and relying upon the waters of
the Holy Spirit to replenish him, the college student has spent every summer
since 1994 on marathon mission trips. His prize isn’t a gleaming trophy or
medal, but a quiet sense of victory in Jesus.
He’s taking a breather from missionary work this summer to
work at Global Staffing Service in Atlanta, before returning to school this
fall. Hickein said it was a difficult decision to stay home, but he needs to
save money during his last college summer, as “the cost of travel and loss
of wages while away piles up.”
Spiritual benefits from his summers abroad are evident in his life
at Villanova University, outside Philadelphia, where he majors in theology and
minors in peace and justice. A parishioner at St. Jude the Apostle Church and a
graduate of the parish school and St. Pius X High School, Atlanta, Hickein is
involved in campus ministry at the Catholic university where he helps plan and
facilitate about 12 Augustinian retreats yearly. He attends Mass several times
a week and makes time for daily prayer.
Mission work “brought me to the faith that I have today.
It’s one of the reasons that I am a theology major and study peace and
justice. It’s pretty much dictated who I am as a person,” he said in
a phone interview.
“I think I get the most strength when I spend time with the
poor because their life is so simple. I think we spend too much time getting
caught up in distractions.”
After raising $2,500, the solo traveler headed off last summer to
India where he spent six weeks working with the religious order founded by
Mother Teresa. Living alone, he spent his days at a hospice with about 200 male
patients suffering both terminal and short-term illnesses, some with malaria
and tuberculosis, others with schizophrenia and Down syndrome. He said
Calcutta’s streets are overridden with the dying who have no one to care
for them until the sisters, lacking money and resources, take them in and
simply care for them, enabling them to die with dignity.
“Their mission isn’t to convert people, (but) to heal
people. It’s just to love them,” he said.
Hickein fed patients, hand washed clothes and sheets, cleaned up
after the sick, bathed and massaged them and cleaned bodies for burial.
He said he met Mother Teresa in spirit through the sisters who
were “amazing spiritually and prayerfully ... the most loving people
I’ve ever met in my life.”
One of Mother Teresa’s teachings he adapted was to pray while
working, no matter how boring or mundane the task.
“If it’s not one of the most rewarding things you are
doing, you can always pray it and know you’re doing it for God’s
glory,” he said. “They’d say, ‘I’m going to be
cleaning this mattress. How differently would I clean it if I knew that Jesus
was going to be sleeping here tonight?’ They’d say Jesus is going to
be sleeping here; why should I be slack about it because there is Jesus in
every person.”
A fraternity member who considers himself outgoing, Hickein
savored the summer solitude.
“I ate alone pretty much every day. It turned out to be a
really, really positive experience. I’m incredibly comfortable with being
alone, spending time by myself. I think it’s very therapeutic now,”
he said.
“When I pray now, I pray that I can approach every situation
with love and seek out the divinity in every person, try to love the divinity
in people even if people are rude ... I remember God’s love in them and I
try to find that.”
Hickein’s missionary spirit took flight after ninth grade on
a parish mission trip to the Mustard Seed Communities in Jamaica where he
envisioned himself “hanging out on the beach” with buddies. Instead,
after seeing the poverty, he was brought to tears, realizing all of his
material blessings and how he hadn’t fully used his abilities. It became
“the greatest week of my life up to this point.”
“I think people discover their faith out of gratitude and I
became so conscious of what I was blessed with ... I had always gone to
Catholic school. I had always been Catholic, but I had never really found my
own faith and reason to be faithful.”
With a newfound sense of devotion toward the plight of developing
and Third World countries, the 6-foot-1-inch, lanky blond returned alone to
Kingston, Jamaica, the next summer.
With more time on his hands, he said, “it turned out in the
long run to be a blessing in disguise. I had nothing to fall back on but my
faith. The kids couldn’t understand what I was trying to explain about my
emotions and stuff. I spent a lot of time journaling and praying.”
While there, the city boy recalled one daunting task he was asked
to perform by Father Gregory Ramkissoon, the director: Kill a truckload of
chickens.
“Father Gregory pointed at this truck with 200 live chickens
and said, ‘Your job today is to kill them and pluck them.’ They
handed me a two-foot long machete and told me (to) figure out how to do it. It
was character building.”
Reunited with St. Jude groups, Hickein headed the next three
summers on mission trips to La Paz, Honduras, through the Franciscan APUFRAM
ministry. During one building project, he almost lost a finger helping to lay a
foundation.
“The doctor didn’t have any clue what he was doing. My
finger was split in two ... My finger’s (now) crooked because of it, but
it’s neat. I have a cool story.”
The following summer he decided it was time to tackle a new
challenge by going to Calcutta. He said that part of the mission experience is
to learn how to think and react in unfamiliar situations and he was becoming
very comfortable in Honduras.
“I’m always open to a new challenge and I’d love to
try somewhere else. Being in a different culture for an extended period of time
is a challenge. It’s difficult to assimilate to a different culture and
the food, the language ... but I kind of enjoy it too.”
St. Jude’s former youth leader Jennifer Goodwyn, who has led
trips in which he has participated, witnessed that joy.
“You’re never really sure where he will end up, but you
just know that it will be right. And you know that the Lord will be a part of
it. It’s just really exciting,” she said. “I’ve been a
youth minister for many years. He is the most faith-filled, Christ-centered
young man that has answered the call to serve ... and (he) will do something
with it whether in this country or another. He will live a life of incredible
patience and love and service to others ... He’s made service a part of
his life, not a piece of it. It’s part of who he is.”
She spoke of his poise and confidence that flow from his faith.
Even on his first mission trip, she recalled, he was eager to step up to the
plate and set an example for everyone, adding that “he possesses a level
of silliness and fun in intimidating situations and anybody who can blend those
two comes from a life of prayer.”
“The first step that he takes is he always serves Christ and
he’s so friendly and warm and interesting and real that people are
attracted to that and then people want to learn about it” and find their
own call, she said.
St. Jude’s youth of the year his senior year, Hickein credits
the parish for showing him he could still be a “cool high school kid and
believe in God and pray there. It was acceptable.”
Intent on seeking social justice whether through mission work or a
career, he tossed around a few post-graduation options like pursuing a law
doctorate in human rights, teaching high school religion or spending time
abroad volunteering. At Villanova he has particularly enjoyed studying
liberation theology which combines theology and social justice. He’s
interested in human rights violations, oppressive systems and problems of
poverty, as “if you really want to solve the problem of poverty it’s
not (giving) hand-outs. It’s changing the system so everyone is on a level
playing field.”
But he’s not ready to sell all his possessions. “I think
I’ve been blessed with what I have for a reason. For some reason I have
shelter and education and I don’t think I should give it up. It is a
blessing that was given for a reason.” |
