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What I Have Seen and Heard - Archbishop Gregory's Weekly Column

Print Issue: September 16, 1999

Grateful Spirit Sustains Widow Relearning Skills

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BY PRISCILLA GREEAR

Staff Writer

FOREST PARK--Using her hearing and sense of touch to replace her lost vision, Georgia Nunnally listens to the grease sizzling against her iron skillet and feels the bread’s texture against her spatula as she cooks one of her favorite sandwiches, a grilled cheese.

When cooking a pot of beans, Nunnally, who became blind after a stroke nine years ago, relies on an adapted watch to track her cooking time and tests beans for doneness with her stirring spoon.

“Listen, listen, listen to your pots. Listen to the contents in your pots. Suddenly your ears become your eyes when cooking,” she said. “With cooking a pot of beans--stir beans. Remember your time and stir your beans and you get the feel of how things feel when they get cooked.”

Red liquid plastic dots called “hi marks” convey the heat levels on her stove’s temperature dial as well as on the thermostat.

Cooking is just one of the rehabilitation skills that Nunnally, 71, has learned through the Community Adult Services Program for the visually impaired or blind. Offered since 1974 through the Center for the Visually Impaired, the program provides comprehensive rehabilitation services in a home, senior center or hospital. From 1997-98, it served 336 shut-ins. Services include mobility training, personal care, food preparation and nutrition, clothing care, communication skills, household budget and money management skills and home maintenance instruction.

Nunnally appears both careful and cheerful as she moves about her home in Forest Park where she has lived for 30 years. A widow whose two daughters live out of state, she now resides alone more independently through the rehabilitative program. After being on a waiting list for several months, she completed the program in May after rehabilitation teacher and orientation and mobility specialist Scott Crawford taught her up to twice weekly for a year. She was originally referred to the center’s low-vision clinic by her doctor nine years ago and began receiving training through the Georgia Department of Human Resources as her vision began to deteriorate. The program’s social worker of 21 years, Nell Robinson, has worked with her as needed since 1997 to determine her needs, giving her referrals for services such as medical transportation, programs at the low-vision clinic and counseling as problems arise.

Nunnally talked about her training sessions at home. “When they come, they stay one and a half to two hours. If they don’t get through with it, they stay until they get through with it--that particular little thing that they’re showing you,” Nunnally said. “There is not a set time for no one particular person--one person might complete (the training) faster than somebody else.”

Sitting at her kitchen table for an interview July 8, Nunnally said she always tries to eat well-balanced meals, adding that yesterday she cooked a pot roast with carrots, potatoes and a tossed salad. She has been taught by CVI to always do things the same way and keep things in the same places, remembering the feel and location of things. She always stores food in the same containers and, when preparing meals, always places her vegetables on the sides of her plate, the bread up top and the meat on the bottom.

“Anything you do, you need to do it the same way each time. By doing it the same way each time you get better doing it,” she said, with a friendly Southern drawl. “If you want to keep up with your things you put them in one place and you leave them in one place.”

With short, curly gray hair and an all-American smile, Nunnally said the most important things the program has given her are motivation and confidence to meet the challenges of daily life. When she presents staff members with a problem, she is confident of her ability to overcome it.

“They reassure you that you can do this, that and the other. With impaired vision, there is no right way to do something. There is one more way to do things. The way you do it may not work for Mrs. Jones or Mrs. Smith, but it works for you.”

She said that before she received training, household activities required every ounce of strength she had. “I was really struggling very much. So (Crawford) just came in and made life easier and more simplified and showed me that I could do it,” she said. “I can’t begin to tell you how much patience they have.”

She is most grateful to CVI for its programs and skilled staff. “I don’t know what I would be. I don’t know how I could handle everything that I handle without the training.”

She has learned how to walk with a white cane and hold onto a sighted guide when leaving the house. And when, for instance, she is missing her cane, she can go down steps by feeling them with the balls of her feet. To go into her backyard and hang pillows on her clothesline on sunny, windy days, she finds her direction by walking out to a building behind her house, taking three steps backwards and then going right, and then identifying the clothesline with her cane.

She can write checks and, in making grocery lists for her shopping companion, has learned to write an item and then fold the paper so that she won’t write one over another.

When clothes shopping with a companion, Nunnally also sees through her hands. After requesting to choose from certain clothing items, “my looking at the garment is my feel of it. I can feel if I don’t like this or I like this. Your hands become your eyes,” she said.

To coordinate outfits after shopping, she immediately picks out safety pins and buttons and puts the same number, sizes and arrangement of them on the corner of a shirt and pants or the skirt of an outfit. She identifies dresses by feeling the belt, neckline, sleeves or waistline. After doing laundry she lays clothes on her bed and identifies matching items by their markings, hanging them together in her closet.

As she was unable to learn the more common Braille communication system due to lack of tactile sensitivity, she said her biggest challenge was to learn the Fishburne Alphabet, a personal communication system using four basic symbols. Embossing symbols on tape, she labels food cans, writes phone numbers and other items through that system.

While it initially took her three months to knit one square after losing her vision, Nunnally, a Catholic, enjoys doing things at home like crocheting afghans for the sick, having given away nearly 100 to a nursing home once and some 5,000 in the past 10 years. She proudly revealed a stack in a bedroom, saying that she is working on a bundle for cancer patients at Atlanta’s Our Lady of Perpetual Help Home.

When the mood strikes, she also makes poodle ornaments of crochet thread, black and white angels with wings of tulle and red, white and green potholders. All become gifts to give away at Christmastime and other occasions.

“I do it for the fun there is in it,” she said. “Isn’t that better than taking a nerve pill?”

With a home filled with religious images including “The Last Supper,” Mary, a plaque with “My Kitchen Prayer,” and her patron saint, St. Therese of Lisieux, Nunnally’s greatest instructor is the Lord.

“With the faith that I have in my God, he teaches you to handle things and it’s left up to you to handle it. We all have shortcomings, but we don’t dwell on those shortcomings. We dwell on the things that we can change and make better,” she said in her matter-of-fact way.

Lacking transportation to attend Mass, she added that she worships weekly by faithfully listening to the 5 a.m. Sunday televised Mass.

Nunnally said she wishes she could see and every day is still a challenge. “Everything takes patience. You must have patience,” she said.

Yet a challenge is a good thing. “I’ve always been a believer, but maybe (blindness) is to make me stronger. Maybe it is for Mrs. Smith to see me and how I survive. Maybe it’s to make a stronger believer out of her. It’s just one of those mysterious things.”

She is grateful that something worse didn’t happen to her. “People that can see, we take it for granted, you know, and if you can’t see, you don’t take anything for granted,” she said. “I’ve always been a thankful person but I think I’m more thankful now. I have a lot of people to say to me, ‘Oh, I’m so sorry. I feel so sorry for you.’ I say, ‘Don’t you feel sorry for me. You have compassion.’ There is a difference.”

COPING AT HOME -- Scott Crawford, rehabilitation teacher for the Community Adult Services department of the Center for the Visually Impaired, watches as Georgia Nunnally uses raised marks to identify controls on her automatic dishwasher. Nunnally says the year of home-based training he provided helps her cope with everyday life.
Photos by Michael Alexander


CELEBRATING INDEPENDENCE -- Nell Robinson, social worker, Community Adult Services, right, and Scott Crawford, center, present Georgia Nunnally with a certificate of achievement for successfully completing CVI training. Nunnally, who lost her vision nine years ago, has learned to live more independently through the program.