The Georgia Bulletin

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What I Have Seen and Heard - Archbishop Gregory's Weekly Column

Print Issue: May 27, 1999

Conference Supports Those Choosing Adoptions

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ATLANTA--The Pregnancy, Parenting and Adoption Program of Catholic Social Services, Inc., sponsored its first Birth Parent Conference April 25 at the Holiday Inn at Peachtree Corners. This conference was the first in the Southeast and is planned to be an annual event.

This conference was a response to the open adoption services for birth parents at CSS and placed an emphasis on the role of the birth parent in the adoptive family they help create.

Sixteen birth parents and extended family members participated in this event which recognized that the act of making an adoption plan is a lifelong decision that deserves honor and respect. The event also recognized that birth parents need their loss to be remembered and supported in the years after the placement of a child. In the past, many birth parents were expected to “forget” about the child whom they had placed.

Kate Coopersmith of the Barker Adoption Agency in Maryland, who is a birth mother herself, was the keynote speaker. Her discussion challenged participants to use the experience of placing a child for adoption to define who they were: courageous, strong and adapting individuals. Rosalyn Roesel, a therapist from Savannah, also led a discussion group for extended family members.

One participant noted that “you don’t have to have a large number of people to have a sacred event.”

The event has led to the formation of a monthly Birth Parent Support Group. This group will meet on the third Thursday of each month. For more information about the support group or services for birth parents, please contact Michelle Heekin at the Pregnancy, Parenting and Adoption Program of Catholic Social Services, Inc., at (404) 885-7467.

BIRTH MOTHERS -- (L-r) Kate Coopersmith, a speaker on open adoption services and a birth mother, and birth mothers Gail and Angela take part in a CSS conference April 25.