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ATLANTA-- RUAH, a pilot program on formation in spiritual direction,
teaches participants to search within themselves for divine guidance
and self-knowledge to enable them to understand how God works in
others and help them experience God more deeply.
The two-year, non-archdiocesan program was established in September
1996. RUAH, which means breath of God in Hebrew, is open to all
Christians and currently has nine participants.
The six staff members of the program are Sister Barbara Young, rc,
director; Carol Hamill and Sister Loretta McCarthy, SBS,
co-coordinators of content and format; Sister Susan Arcaro, rc,
coordinator of mentoring and supervision; Jim Powers, accountant and
financial consultant and Dr. Joy Evans, psychologist and consultant
for spiritual companioning. All RUAH staff have served as spiritual
directors and completed formation programs in spiritual direction.
Sister Young said that the program tries to teach students to
integrate spirituality with all areas of life. "(It is) trying to
help them appreciate their spirituality and deep faith beliefs go far
beyond prayer and church --that integration of spirituality and life."
Students, she said, are then taught ways to share this ongoing
awareness of God with others.
The group meets twice monthly on Saturdays at Immaculate Heart of
Mary Church in Atlanta for sessions involving small and large group
sharing and individual reflection time and attends three reflection
weekends each year. Sister Young said that participants are required
to attend a five- to eight-day directed spiritual retreat before the
second year of the course.
The first year of the program focuses on course work where students
explore aspects of spiritual discernment, psychology and contemporary
spirituality related to Catholicism, read four books and other
scripturally based theological materials and write reflective papers.
They study sound spiritual traditions of past great mystics and
spiritual leaders and learn principles of mentoring and supervision
and communication and listening skills.
In the second year of the course students are assigned two persons
to whom they give monthly spiritual direction. They share their
experiences of God and their responses and problems from giving
spiritual direction, using fictitious names for direction recipients,
individually with an assigned supervisor and at the Saturday sessions.
In the course participants also learn to become aware of their various
internal responses to those they direct, and to think how they would
feel in given situations.
"The most important (thing taught) is (developing) their
awareness within themselves... how God continues to lead them as
individuals so that they can realize the truthfulness of that in
helping another person," she said. "It's really the spirit
of God living within people that we want to bring alive."
The director said that RUAH teaches spiritual directors to help
people to discern whether a spirit leading them is from God by helping
them to articulate experiences and examine whether that guiding
spirit, if divine, is bringing an increase in faith, hope and love.
Sister Young said that persons frequently experience problems from
trying to solve the problems of those they are counseling. "They
have a tendency to want to solve the problem. They have a tendency to
want to jump in like on a counseling session. They have to back off.
The spiritual direction is not trying to solve the problems of the
person who's trying to come to them for spiritual direction," she
said.
Spiritual directors, she continued, may have judgmental thoughts
which prevent them from offering assistance. "It's important that
the do not be judgmental because that can influence how they respond
to the directee. They could end us saying something discouraging."
She said that persons seeking spiritual direction don't need to have
a problem but should have a desire for a stronger faith. A director
and client, she said, generally meet once monthly in a quiet,
reflective place and should allow two sessions to determine their
comfort level for working together.
Linda Mitchell, a RUAH student and parishioner working in the OCIA
and Altrea programs at St. Pius X Church, Conyers, said she has gained
self-knowledge and grown spiritually through the program. "RUAH
has been such an intensive spiritual adventure. There are academics
involved in the RUAH program but it's all with a spiritual overlay. It
is a real spiritual journey," she said. "It really brings us
into full awareness of our relationship with God from a personal
perspective, thereby allowing us to better understand and relate to
other people."
"We've really done in-depth introspection to know ourselves.
You've got to know yourself to help other people. RUAH has definitely
done that."
Mitchell also said that studying various spiritual teachings in the
program has broadened her understanding of spirituality and of the
various factors including economic and social background and religious
tradition which influence it.
In giving spiritual direction, she said "One of the people I'm
working with is not Catholic. She's actually a Presbyterian minister.
That's a totally different background than what I'm used to... a whole
different faith tradition. She's wonderful and besides that it's a
real joy."
Mitchell plans to offer spiritual direction working with catechumens
in St. Pius's OCIA program.
Deacon Donald Nadeau of St. Thomas Aquinas Church, Alpharetta, is
also a RUAH student and said the introspection in it helped him gain
self-acceptance. "There's part of us that's within us that we can
avoid -- (that) we spend our life avoiding. Being able to confront God
in those very, very deep places within us without ridicule and without
criticism with other contemporaries on the same journey has been a
very warm experience for me...I'm O.K. just as I am."
He has gained "the ability to help a person discern for
themselves what path their own spirituality will take. It's been a
gift of discernment."
"I've learned to listen peacefully. I'm not anxious. I don't
feel a strong need to respond without hearing and listening," he
said.
Deacon Nadeau plans to give spiritual direction at St. Thomas
Aquinas.
Applicants for RUAH go through a screening process which examines
their knowledge and experience, their plans to utilize the course and
recommendations. While there is no requirement that one have
experience giving spiritual direction, RUAH seeks students of all ages
who feel led by God to the ministry and have a mature faith.
The next program beginning in September this year will meet at
Maisha House of Prayer in Atlanta. Sister Young hopes eventually
students will have more persons to whom they give spiritual direction
and that the program will have more staff members to supervise them.
Tuition is $1995 per year. Course graduates earn a certificate of
completion.
Approaching completion of the pilot program, the director said, "We're
all very pleased with it (RUAH). We planned well. We met together. The
staff worked well together. The program seemed to be a success for
people."
"This program has been a real gift from God. It's so perfectly
designed. Because it is so perfectly designed it's evident that God's
hand is in that," said Mitchell.
For information on RUAH call Sister Young at (706) 654-3460.
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