| By Thea Jarvis
Why is she coming to Atlanta?
That was a question asked often when the visit of Mother Teresa was
announced. But her arrival was an eagerly awaited blessing to a faithful band
of volunteers and professionals who are welcomed regularly by the Missionaries
of Charity at the Gift of Grace House on St. Charles Avenue.
Carol Braun first met the Missionaries of Charity when she and her husband
John renovated the property for the orders Atlanta foundation in 1993.
The site included a 14-room home formerly used as a day care center and a
garage with an upstairs apartment.
The work was slow going because of the extensive remodeling and the
sisters unhurried pace. They believe things happen when
theyre supposed to happen, said Mrs. Braun, a St. Anns
parishioner. You have to go with Gods flow. We had to make (the
property) safe and livable, but according to their standards.
The sisters simple lifestyle meant that standards for
their living quarters were pared down. Although the large guest house for
homeless women with AIDS and their children was outfitted with standard
amenities like air conditioning and appliances, the Missionaries themselves
require no such luxuries.
They are very conservative in their needs, Mrs. Bran said,
carefully limiting their use of water, electricity and creature comforts. The
sisters have only two changes of clothing, one to wear and one to
wash. Their saris are cleaned by hand each day and hung out to dry.
A five-gallon bucket filled from a tap is used for daily bathing and indoor
heating temperatures are low in winter, Mrs. Braun said. Cots and handsewn
mattresses are provided for sleeping.
During their first summer of remodeling, the Missionaries used a sunny
second-floor bedroom in the larger house as a chapel. There, Mrs. Braun and
friends from St. Anns often took part in the sisters afternoon holy
hour.
It was so hot up there, Mrs. Braun remembered with good
humor. We were like drowned rats, literally dripping with
perspiration.
The sisters, comfortable in their cotton habits and unruffled by the heat,
ran a small fan for the benefit of their guests. They aimed it at
us, said Mrs. Braun, keeping well out of the path of the fans
cooling breezes.
Though some find such self-denial old-fashioned or foolish, said Mrs. Braun,
she is frankly drawn to the spiritual values underlying the Missionaries
way of life. Detachment from worldly things is the basis of their spirituality
and a springboard for ministry with the poorest of the poor, she said.
They are so joyful all the time, and get so much pleasure out
of the least little thing. If you turn everything over to God, there are no
more cares or worries, just total trust and joy.
Despite their simple lifestyle, the sisters are well-educated and
well-traveled, Mrs. Braun said. A lengthy formation period, with hands-on
assignments that can span the globe, allows the Missionaries a clear picture of
the life they have chosen.
The Missionaries focus on a strong community life that includes daily Mass
and specific prayer times, yet maintain an active outreach to the world around
them. Their current ministry here not only involved hospitality to the
homeless, but also touches Atlantas Vietnamese community, Hispanic
missions and countless parishes whose members share in the sisters work.
Like Mrs. Braun, visitors to the sisters daily holy hours easily fall
into the peaceful rhythm of traditional prayer and gentle hymns, the rosary and
adoration of the Blessed Sacrament that reflect the Missionaries inner
life.
It was a real gift for me to have worked so closely with the
Missionaries, Mrs. Braun said. I feel privileged to know them.
Dr. Sharne Sheehey, a family practice physician working at the Grady
Infectious Disease Clinic, knew the acute need for the dedicated care the
sisters offer. Many of her patients were indigent and homeless women with AIDS.
Dr. Sheehey said the Gift of Grace House really helps us and allows
the indigent to die in a dignified setting. Before, she said, one of the
terrible problems faced by the people with AIDS and their health
care providers was the scarcity of such facilities. It fulfills a major
need...both physical and spiritual.
The hospice on St. Charles Avenue in Midtown becomes a safe
haven for women who come there to die, said Dr. Sheehey, adding that the
youngest patient admitted was 19. Often the women are poor or have been shunned
by their family. In the peaceful environment the sisters provide, they become
more open and peaceful, almost as if they heave a sigh of relief at the
loving attention.
Its a beautiful place and the sisters keep it
spotlessly clean, she said, although a lot of people still
dont know it exists.
Father Jim Hurley, M.S., parochial vicar at St. Anns, was one of a
number of local priests who celebrated Mass with the sisters when they arrived
in Atlanta two years ago. Using St. Anthonys old convent as their base,
the sisters happily welcomed Father Hurley and others who generously made daily
Mass available to them.
The love of the Eucharist and love of Mary is the core of their
spirituality, Father Hurley said, citing Mother Teresas belief that
she could never see Christ in those she served if she didnt meet him in
the Eucharist each morning.
Theres a spirit of joy there, Father Hurley said
of the Atlanta foundation. Theyre angels of charity.
Father Hurley said he enjoyed surprising the sisters with milkshakes and
sundaes, items they would not consider buying for themselves.
They never ask for anything, she said, but live a dedicated life
of poverty. When he arrived with ice cream, they were in seventh
heaven, like children given a special treat.
The Missionaries possess unusual gifts of grace and confidence, qualities of
added importance when working with people who are fearful, ill and often
helpless, Father Hurley said. They know this is the Lords work.
They do what nobody else does.
Father John Fallon, one of the Missionaries local chaplains, said the
sisters identify themselves with the poverty of Christ, living the
radical demands of the Gospel.
Besides providing ministerial assistance to many of their non-Catholic
patients, the sisters offer spiritual nourishment that sometimes leads to
conversion, Father Fallon said.
Many (AIDS patients) who have been admitted to the House of
Grace have asked to be received into the Catholic Church before they die,
he said. It is an incredible ministry that they do.
The sisters treat each patient as if they were caring for Christ himself,
(staying) with the patients right up to the moment of death, said
Father Fallon. Their smiles, faith, and unconditional love help the dying
understand that they are destined for heaven and will soon be in Gods
presence.
When the Missionaries founder came to New York in 1984, she was driven
around town by Father Rick Figliozzi, now pastor of Our Holy Redeemer Church in
Freeport, N.Y.
At the time, Father Figliozzi was working with the Missionary Fathers of
Charity, the sisters fraternal order. His assignment gave him the
opportunity to talk at length with Mother Teresa.
Its what really has guided my priesthood, he said
of their time together. Because Mother Teresa so strongly reflects
Christ, (she) inspires other people to do the same.
Father Figliozzi has met with Mother Teresa several times since her New York
visit and continues to be motivated by her thought and example.
She has a special gift from God, a tremendous sense of the
presence of Christ, he said, reaching out to Christ in the
distressing disguise of the poor.
She believes what you cant do, I can do, and what I
cant do, you can do, but we are all called to do something beautiful for
God.
The orders autonomy, its singular lack of reliance on outside funding
or grants, make the Missionaries focused and efficient, he feels.
They never get involved in answering (critics) or defending
themselves, but are simply set on doing their work. Their freedom from
competitiveness and negativity dissipates any tension that bogs down so
many good works, he said.
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