| By Susan Stevenot Sullivan, Staff Writer
ATLANTA The skeletal steel superstructure of the 1996 Summer Olympic
Stadium stretches into the sky a javelins throw from the flower beds of
Our Lady of Perpetual Help Home in downtown Atlanta.
Clouds of dust from the Olympian construction site drift toward the medical
facility over the regal limbs of the largest black oak in Georgia, a living
bridge between heaven and earth.
The smell of exhaust and the roar of heavy equipment stop at the brick walls
of the home. Inside, a dedicated staff led by Hawthorne Dominicans works around
the clock preparing residents for immortality that will never be found on the
sports page, transcending medals and record books.
In these peaceful, needlework-bedecked corridors, nine sisters devote their
lives to the comfort of more than 30 terminally-ill cancer
guest-patients who can no longer afford their own care.
Patients are on a waiting list to live their last weeks here in a joyful
atmosphere, augmented by lush plants, flowered sheets and chirping canaries. A
flexible visitation policy includes young children and, if feasible, weekend
trips away to stay with family members.
These patients have used all treatment options (such as
chemotherapy or radiation treatments) or chosen not to pursue further
options, said Sister Mary Christopher, OP, director of nursing and
assistant administrator of the home. There are exceptions but the men
usually stay here less than a month before death. The women average a
three-month stay.
Sister Christopher brings more than 28 years as a registered nurse and 39
years as a nun to her ministry. She has had cancer herself and both her mother
and sister died of the disease.
Im familiar with all the perspectives, she
smiles. Patient, family member and care-giver.
Our goal is to comfort though we cant cure, said Sister
Christopher.
The staff includes registered nurses, licensed practical nurses, nurse
assistants and a full-time pharmacist. But the medical atmosphere is strikingly
low-tech. Tube feedings are continued if the patient arrives with
one. Intravenous therapy, heart monitors, respirators and radiology are not
available. Pain medication is administered through injection, orally, or with a
patch.
Pain relief begins with medication, but the effects of fear, anxiety and
loneliness receive spiritual care.
The chapel is designed for wheelchair or bed access on both floors. Father
Joseph Drohan, a diocesan priest in residence, visits every patient every day,
and holds a daily non-denominational prayer service as well as Mass.
Spiritual care is also expressed with the loving attention of gentle hands
and willing ear.
We listen to them, said Sister Christopher. We
let them set the pace. We arent afraid to talk to them about death and
dying in the spirit of faith and hope. We know theres something better
waiting for us.
We dont see physical cures, she added, but
we see a great deal of inner healing. I think the patients can be amazingly
brave and courageous if they get the emotional support they need.
Patients are encouraged to enjoy the simple comforts they desire: music,
television, games, cologne, their own casual clothing, even cigarettes smoked
with supervision on one of the back porches.
Sister Christopher said a doctor once called the home a huge obstetrical
ward where patients are born to eternal life.
The evidence is in the silent smiles of bedridden patients. Others follow a
visitor with their eyes or lift a finger in greeting. The ambulatory patients,
some able to roll their own wheelchairs, joke with the staff and volunteers, or
snore peacefully in front of the television in one of the parlors.
Howard Smith, a former truck driver and resident for eight months enjoys all
the recreational outlets offered by Irene Wiggins, the activities director,
with the help of volunteers.
This particular afternoon, he and other patients complete several sets of
tabletop bowling. Afterwards, a glass of milk in hand, Smith, and fellow bowler
and Braves fan, Robert Andrews, roll along the sparkling hardwood floors to the
front entrance. Outside they soak up the autumn sun and glimpse some of the
construction commotion.
Residents represent various ages, races, denominations and family
backgrounds. In addition to their disease, they share a blessed relief from
financial concerns. Not one is charged for their care.
According to the wishes of the orders foundress, care is given free of
charge and donations from family members are not accepted; neither is insurance
money, Medicaid or Medicare.
Donations are accepted from the community. Since 1939, the year the Atlanta
home was founded, community support and the dedication of the sisters and
volunteers has made free care for thousands of terminally-ill patients a
reality.
One of the most well-known fundraisers is the annual champagne luncheon held
by the auxiliary of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Home. Thousands attended the
38th luncheon on Oct. 28, with the proceeds going to the homes medical
supply fund. The auxiliary also organizes volunteers who do everything from
answer phones to feed patients at the home.
Sister Mary Regis, OP, the homes superior, said that community support
comes from Atlantas stellar corporations and foundations as well as from
individuals of modest means, from an annual golf tournament to monthly bridge
clubs, none of whom want publicity, she said.
We always rely on the providence of God, Sister Regis
said, and weve never been in want.
Glowing purple chrysanthemums from tables at the recent champagne luncheon
now decorate the home, a visible reminder of the effect of the auxiliarys
efforts.
Though everyone is busy, there is a lack of bustle, an absence of urgency.
Intercom announcements are rare; the Angelus prayer at noon being an exception.
The emphasis is on people, not technology.
There are no private rooms. Residents are cared for in wards with two to
four patients. This increases the opportunities for social encounters, Sister
Christopher said. It also provides the nursing staff with informal
opportunities to observe patient needs and gives newer patients a reassuring
view of the care they can expect in their final days.
Primary nursing the same nurses care for the same patients is
used, so care-givers are familiar with their patients physically and
spiritually. No nurse has more than four patients.
In the face of constant dying, it would be understandable for the staff to
hold back from emotional involvement with patients.
Some patients you never forget, Sister Christopher
said, describing a young mother of four with cancer of the spine, a patient of
more than 20 years ago. I still cry when I think about her, she
said, tears spilling down her cheeks. She was so brave.
Family members are included in the care offered at the home. Often, Sister
Christopher said, the staff is giving physical care to the patient and
emotional care to the family. Volunteers staff the Caring
Connection which follows up with grieving families after the
patients death.
Often the family members are being strong for each
other, Sister Christopher said. They feel more free to open up to a
volunteer.
The efforts of all of these giving people form an invisible cradle of love
and care for each patient. It is this monumental mid-wifery that one senses in
the corridors and wards, achievements measured by a smile, not a stopwatch.
Sister Marian, OP, nurse, bookkeeper and supervisor of central supply, who
is famous for the Atlanta Braves shrine which covers one wall of
her ward, was captured by this sense in her earliest days with the order.
When I visited the motherhouse when I was thinking of
entering, she said. Everyone was laughing! It really stuck with me.
I didnt hear that in other nursing homes.
My work is not depressing, but it is demanding, said Sister
Christopher. By the end of the day youre ready to kick off your
shoes and put your feet up.
Without the perspective of eternal life we couldnt do this
work, she said.
Within reach of her desk, a metal shelf holds the files of three
guest-patients who have died since the doctors last visit.
This hall of fame bears a simple message.
A ceramic cross attached to the shelf with a magnet reads: REJOICE, He
is risen as He said.
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