| By Thea Jarvis
Father James Caffery, MS, pastor of St. Matthews Church in Fairburn,
along with six of his parishioners, was among the first in the archdiocese to
participate in parish team training.
The philosophy and methodology it offered enhanced the way the parish family
was already responding to the pervasive problem of substance abuse.
The church had been galvanized by the death of a 22-year-old parishioner who
had died in a single car accident after ingesting alcohol. The young woman had
begun drinking at the age of 13, her parents told Father Caffery following the
accident. Despite their efforts to stop the progress of her alcoholism, their
daughter continued to drink. Her disease had baffled and frustrated the
womans parents, who asked Father Caffery to speak openly about it during
her funeral.
What followed could only be described as the hand of God, Father Caffery
said. After the funeral, the priest decided that secrecy, confusion and
misinformation about addiction to alcohol, drugs, food or
life-endangering behavior was something that could be addressed in a
parish setting. He approached parishioners he knew to be involved in Alcoholics
Anonymous and Alanon, a fellowship of families and friends of alcoholics, and
asked if they would share information with the parish at large.
Lets not make this a private organization, he had
told his friends. It was something that needed to be talked about.
Eventually, he and six others broke anonymity and spoke to the parish. They
made themselves available individually and as a group to anyone with an
addiction problem and became a reference point for parish education on
dependency disease.
When Prevention Services team training was introduced, Father Caffery
said, We got right into that, sending the core of parishioners
already in place.
At St. Matthews, the CHART team is the SMART team: St. Matthews
Addiction Referral Team. Every third Thursday, the team offers an educational
program on dependency and addiction. The sessions are open to all, and because
presentations are informational, there is no stigma attached to attendance.
I May Have a Little Drinking Problem is the latest in the
series, Father Caffery said. Other talks involve 12 Step thinking and more
clinical approaches to dependency.
The SMART team has tapped into Anchor Hospital, a treatment center on nearby
Old National Highway, which makes its resources available to the parish and
whose counselors sometimes address the group.
Addiction is a disease, a primary disease like sugar diabetes,
said Father Caffery. If you let it go, its going to kill you.
St. Matthews SMART meetings offer an alternative to the isolation
often experienced by those affected by addiction.
They feel like they have someone to walk the journey
with, Father Caffery said. Its something to be talked about
in a Christian setting.
The 360-member parish has had up to 22 people attend the SMART gatherings,
Father Caffery said, and he has noticed at least one newcomer at every meeting.
He is careful to note that SMART is not AA or Alanon, but an information and
referral outreach.
You cant drag people in but you can let them know youre
here, he said.
Remembering the young woman whose tragic death launched the parish on its
ministry of recovery and prevention, Father Caffery said her tragedy has given
life and hope to others.
The greatest gift she has given us, greater than the donation of
her organs for the bodily health of others, is that we can talk about her
disease, he said.
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