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By Rita McInerney
Most of the deacons ordained in the archdiocese of Atlanta since
the late 1970s are serving in parish ministries, assisting at marriages,
baptisms, funerals. They bring the Eucharist to the sick, keep parish
properties maintained, teach religious education, work with youth, among a
broad spectrum of assignments.
A good number, almost 20 of the 97 deacons making up the permanent
diaconate here, are working fulltime, either in their own parishes or in
chancery offices at the archdiocesan level.
For each deacon, the primary need is to maintain a balance between
family life, work life and the diaconate, according to Deacon Dick Narey, lay
ministry diaconate director and permanent deacon since 1978.
He regards a strong prayer life as necessary to follow the
diaconate call. You cant make it without it. His won commitment, he
said, is contingent on his prayer life. You have to ask God if you are on
the right track. It happened to me. I prayed for six months (about taking on a
fulltime assignment at the Cathedral of Christ the King) before realizing this
is where I belong.
Candidates are well screened during their three years of study and
formation for the diaconate. They are interviewed several times, evaluated by
their pastors, evaluated on classroom performance and tested by the
psychologist on the permanent diaconate board, Dr. Sam Anzalone.
Both during their preparation and after ordination, the men are
cautioned not to confuse counseling with spiritual direction, Deacon Narey
said. They are reminded that they are not qualified for such counseling and are
instructed in how to recognize situations where people may be in need of
professional help and as tactfully as possible steer them in the right
direction.
Deacons serving on the board meet informally with Archbishop
Eugene A. Marino, SSJ, about every two months, Deacon Narey said. He
gives us guidance and direction. Im really encouraged by his attitude.
Hes been a real friend of the diaconate.
Following are brief profiles on the remaining ten deacons ordained
by Archbishop Marino at the Cathedral of Christ the King on June 24. Twelve
were profiled in the July 6 issue of The Georgia Bulletin.
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DANIEL BRADACH, 61 and first deacon from St. Paul the
Apostle in Cleveland, hopes to evangelize a little bit among
retirees in north Georgia. Since he and his wife, Carol, have been living near
Sautee he has found there are many fallen away Catholics in the
Helen area. He will try and get my feet on the ground and see where the
Lord leads me. If I can get one back it would be great.
One of his first liturgical experiences was a memorable event. He
was deacon at the 25th anniversary Mass at St. Pauls on July 5
with Archbishop Eugene A. Marino, SSJ, as celebrant. Father Frank Ruff, head of
the Glenmary order, was concelebrant.
He is looking forward to visiting the sick of the parish in
hospitals and nursing homes. Glenmary Father Ed Gorny, pastor at St.
Pauls and St. Francis of Assisi in Blairsville, admitted that having a
deacon is a new experience. Were trying to integrate him into the
ministry of the parish. There might come a Sunday, the priest
acknowledged, when the weather would prevent him from making the trip over the
mountains from Blairsville and Deacon Bradach would be called upon to celebrate
a Communion service for parishioners.
Before relocating to the mountains 15 months ago, the Bradachs
were members of St. Andrews in Roswell for five years. And before they
helped start St. Thomas Aquinas in Alpharetta they were active at St.
Judes in Sandy Springs. They were involved in adult education at the
newer parishes.
Deacon Bradach, a native of Illinois, was a member of the class of
1950 at Georgia Tech and a lineman on the football team. He operates a firm
that installs small steel storage equipment. The Bradachs have five children
from 34 to 20 and four granddaughters.
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WILLIAM KEEN, 50, describes himself as cautiously
excited about the role of permanent deacon he was ordained for on June
24. He views his task as assisting Father Paul Reynolds, pastor at St.
Andrews in Roswell, in any way he can. That includes visiting the sick
and assisting at baptism and funerals.
He expects to be giving homilies at Sunday Masses every five weeks
and will serve as chaplain to the fledgling parish Cursillo. He
also is hopeful of being able to provide spiritual guidance to parishioners who
might seek him out.
Deacon Keen and his wife, Babs, are the parents of six children 28
to six. They have two grandchildren. The new deacon said he received continuing
support from his wife and children during his three years of study for the
permanent diaconate.
During the five years the Keens have been parishioners at St.
Andrews, he helped establish the St. Martin de Porres ministry which
ministers to street people and also assists Habitat for Humanity, served on the
finance committee, and as Eucharistic minister and lector.
Both Keens were raised in northern Kentucky and have been in the
Atlanta area six years. A financial planner, Deacon Keen said work is a family
affair, with his wife, son, daughter, and their spouses all part of the firm.
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EDMUND LaHOUSE, 59, credits several people with influencing
his decision to become a deacon, something he wanted to do for years, he
admitted. He was impressed by what the deacons (there are now five) were doing
in his parish, St. Thomas Aquinas in Alpharetta. A Cursillista, he grouped with
two of them, Bill Keeling and Don Nadeau, and was open to the suggestion that
he look into the permanent diaconate.
For priestly influence there was his uncle, Monsignor Robert
Callahan. The two have been close since his boyhood years in Connecticut. Just
last fall he spent a week in his rectory at San Diego, an experience he
cherishes. And Father Dan OConnor, formerly pastor at St. Thomas Aquinas,
was probably as influential as anyone, he said.
He has talked with his pastor, Father James Fennessy about his
duties and expects to continue ministering to the elderly, sick and shut-in of
the parish in hospitals and nursing homes. His wife Mary coordinates the
Eucharistic ministers who visit the sick. She has been scheduling lectors for
the past 10 years.
Deacon LaHouse served as building committee chairman for the new
Community Life building at St. Thomas Aquinas, was on the parish council for
two terms and served as president of the parish St. Vincent de Paul. About his
feelings now, he seems to be getting more enthusiastic every day.
In the years ahead, he sees the church in Atlanta undergoing many changes and
expects more roles will be filled by deacons.
He and Mary are the parents of four children, 37 to 26, and have
four grandchildren. He is general manager of the southeast branch of the Aetna
Life and Casualty Co. They have been in Atlanta almost 11 years.
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WILLIAM LAKIN, 57, has been interested in the permanent
diaconate since its restoration in 1967. As a Marine he had helped chaplains
complete required paper work and set up for liturgies among other tasks. The
retired Marine said his involvement could be described as being a big
brother in the good sense of the term.
Deacon Lakin and his wife, Joan, have seven children, from 35 to
24, and 11 grandchildren. They have been members of St. Josephs parish in
Athens for nine years. He was born in Jersey City, N.J., and she is a native of
Boston. Lakin believes that, if he had not married he would have become a
priest a funny thing to say with seven children, he added.
Joan and William Lakin are Eucharistic ministers and lectors in
the parish. Both have been active in religious education, at times starting
programs on Marine bases where Lakin was stationed. Joan Lakin teaches the
first grade religious education class at St. Josephs.
As deacon Lakin is involved in ministry to the elderly which
includes visiting shut-ins, convalescent homes and hospitals. He also trains
others for this ministry.
One part of the parishs involvement with the elderly is a
group of approximately 25 senior citizens called Young At Hearts who attend
Mass and lunch together each First Friday. Others from the Athens community,
including members of the Council on Aging, join them for this get-together.
For Deacon Lakin, ordination to the permanent diaconate is
the greatest gift that Ive received. It gives me greater
opportunity to serve everyone.
In the few weeks since his ordination he has baptized an infant
and assisted at a funeral. He hopes in the future, parishioners will see
in me one they can seek out for spiritual direction. The avenues of
communications are open, he said.
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JAMES D. OBRIEN, 46, acknowledges that he
couldnt have become a deacon without the support of Janet, his wife.
Shes part of the team effort. She received her certificate
for attending the two-year lay ministry program and was the only woman to
attend all classes during the final year of formation, he said.
The OBriens are 10-years members of St. John Neumann parish
in Lilburn. He served as chairman of the CCD program for three years, as
lector, extraordinary minister, and has been active with the parish SVDP.
He said his duties with the parish are being developed. He sees a
need to bring together the various groups in the large parish for the sake of
community and envisions the six deacons being catalysts. For example he would
like to see the singles join for a communion service with the senior members.
Theyre all part of the same community and should be coming together
to show we are all under the Lords guidance. He is keenly
interested in helping new parishioners experience a sense of community.
His interest in the diaconate began when he heard Deacon Ray Shaw
give a homily on vocations. He struggled for six months with a feeling of
unworthiness but doubt made his decision to begin the program. Now he is
confident the Lord will use him well. My gift from the Lord has been my
mouth, he admitted.
The OBriens have five children from 24 to 10 and one
grandchild. He is regional manager for an engineering company that makes those
flashing blue lights for police cars. The family has been in Atlanta since
1969. He is a native of Chicago.
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DAVID RAUTH is one of three permanent deacons to be
ordained from St. Catherine of Siena in Kennesaw. The 61-year-old father of
eight has been a parishioner there for seven years. Prior to that he and his
wife Joyce belonged to St. John Vianney parish in Lithia Springs for 13 years.
A convert to Catholicism, Rauth is a native of Jackson, Mich. He
met his wife, who is from Fort Myers, Fla., when he was in the Navy. After they
married, he decided to reenter the armed services and joined the Air Force.
When the permanent diaconate was restored in 1967 an Air Force chaplain
suggested to him that he become a deacon. In 1985 his present pastor, Father
Leo Herbert, repeated the suggestion. Rauth and six others from the parish
ministry; three completed the studies, becoming the first deacons from the
fast-growing Cobb County parish of 1,400.
Deacon Rauth has been active as a lector, usher, Eucharistic
minister, as well as serving on the building and finance committees. He looks
forward now to more involvement as a deacon, visiting parishioners in the
hospital, assisting with baptisms, marriages and funerals, and acting as
chaplain for parish groups.
Of his ordination he commented, I felt I had accomplished
something and now Im ready to go on with something else in the area of
service as a deacon.
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ROBERT SMITH, 51, had an opportunity in 1984 to enter the
lay ministry program leading to the permanent diaconate. He didnt because
his two sons were still in grade school and he didnt want to take time
away from them. When they entered high school he was of another mind. After
talking again with Father John Ozarowski, then pastor at St. Andrews in
Roswell, he felt he had something to offer in the service of the Lord,
particularly in one-priest parish, and began his study.
Throughout his three years of preparation leading up to his
ordination June 24, his two sons, along with his wife, Lenora, were
extremely supportive. The boys, he added, were his greatest critics
in a constructive way.
During the familys six years at St. Andrews, he has
worked with the altar boys, in adult education, Liturgy, and as general
parish go-fer, he said.
Deacon Smith, a manager for AT&T, has been in Atlanta for six
years. He is originally from Portsmouth, Va., and is a product of Catholic
education through college.
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WAYNE D. SMITH, 47 this month, has his work cut out for him
at Sacred Heart Church. He is the first deacon ordained for the downtown
Atlanta parish where the Smiths have been members about six years.
Father Daniel OConnor, pastor, said Deacon Smith will be
baptizing and witnessing marriages, working with both parents and couples to
prepare them for these sacraments. He will also be helping with the youth
group, a natural for him with three offspring between 20 and 17. Visiting the
sick at the two large hospitals in the parish area, Crawford Long and Georgia
Baptist, will be his ministry.
Other than that, were not going to try and over-work
him, Father OConnor remarked.
Deacon Smith enrolled in the lay ministry program at the
suggestion of one of the parish priests. He was not knocked off a
horse, but rather led gradually on his faith journey, he admitted. It
wasnt until the third year that he decided to go on and prepare for the
permanent diaconate.
He has found the parish supportive and was warmed by their
generous response to his first homily the day after the June 24 ordination.
Both he and his wife, Patricia, have been active in the religious education
program at Sacred Heart.
Deacon smith is an engineer with PBT, a rapid transit construction
firm which built the MARTA system. The family has been in Atlanta 20 years. He
and his wife are natives of Pittsburgh, Pa.
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THOMAS D. SILVESTRI, 45, started thinking about prison
ministry during his final year of preparation for the permanent diaconate. He
saw this as an area where there was a definite need because of an absence of
Catholic chaplains in the state prison system.
The week after his ordination June 24, he contracted with the
state to minister to prisoners at Jackson State Prison one day a week for the
next 12 months. He began his chaplaincy after two-day orientation, on July 3
and 10. The prison is about 80 miles from his home in Tucker.
His journey to the diaconate began during the Renew program at
Holy Cross, the parish of Thomas and Janice Sue Silvestri for the nine years
they have been in Atlanta. While participating in a small group session he was
encouraged to think about the lay ministry program by Deacon Dick Narey.
Interested, Deacon Silvestri entered the program without being
sure just how far he would go with it. But the Spirit works in strange,
mysterious ways, he admitted. He found the program to be a challenge, to
be enlightening. Deciding it was one answer to the definite need for service in
the Church, he continued on and completed the final year leading to ordination.
In the parish, he said, he will be available for baptisms and
other rites performed by deacons.
The new deacon, a data processing consultant, and his wife have a
son, two, and a daughter, four. He is from Chicago, she from South Bend, Ind.
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JAMES STEWART had a long period of discernment
before becoming a deacon June 24. It extended through an assignment in
Guatemala which prevented his ordination with the large class of 1987.
Deacon Stewart, 56 this month, was assigned from Guatemala City by
the Centers for Disease Control in Atlanta. A biologist, he taught at a small
private college and did malaria control work at a CDC center in the city. For
those two years the Stewarts worshipped most of the time at a Maryknoll retreat
house also attended by people from the American Embassy.
Earlier, in the 1970s, friends had planted the seed
for the diaconate while the Stewarts were on CDC assignment in Colorado. The
priest there, Father Tom McCormick, has a strong diaconate program that kindled
his interest, the new deacon recalled.
He will be serving as assistant spiritual director for the
Cursillo led by Sister Margaret McAnoy, IHM, in the archdiocese. In that
ministry, he will plan Leaders School programs and team formation for the
mens weekends and lead Communion and prayer services for Cursillistas. He
also expects to be working with Al Gallagher, an associate director of the
diaconate program, in administration and teaching.
Deacon Stewart admitted to being nervous during the ordination
Liturgy until I got down on the floor during the litany of the saints.
Everything seemed to clear up then.
James and Gwen Stewart and their two daughters have been in
Atlanta for more than 20 years and have been parishioners at Holy Cross in
Tucker most of the time. They are natives of Texas.
Paula Day contributed to this article.
Correction
In the July 6 issue of The Georgia Bulletin it was incorrectly
reported that Mrs. Doris Diamon, wife of Deacon Ernest A. Diamon, was a member
of the Church of Christ. Mrs. Diamon is a member of the Church of God. We
regret the error.
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