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By Gretchen Keiser
When she told her family she wanted to join an
order of nuns nursing incurable cancer patients, there was a "big hullabaloo."
"People thought it (cancer) was contagious -- a
great many people did," Sister M. Loretta Purcell, OP, recalls. "My people just
didn't think I could do it. I was never strong."
Her widowed father said, "It's alright. You'll be
back in two weeks."
"He missed me, but I couldn't wait any longer,"
said Sister Loretta, who had delayed her wishes to enter religious life because
she was a companion to her father. "Two weeks," she remembers his prediction
with amusement now. "Two weeks, plus 50 years."
September 19 Sister Loretta celebrates the
50th anniversary of the first vows she made in 1938 to the Hawthorne
Dominican Sisters, who brought her one year later to Georgia to help found Our
Lady of Perpetual Help Free Cancer Home. A Mass celebrated by Archbishop Eugene
A. Marino, SSJ, will be followed by a dinner in her honor.
"I wanted to be a sister from the time I was in
grammar school" in Flushing, New York "until I was about 21. Then I must have
shelved it and not thought about it again." For the 1930s, hers was a late
vocation, and that fact, plus her small stature and her nervousness makes her
wonder now that the order accepted her as a postulant in Hawthorne, NY.
She suspects that it was the influence of one of
the order's foundresses, Alice Huber, who was known as Mother Rose in religious
life. Miss Huber had joined with Rose Hawthorne, the daughter of author
Nathaniel Hawthorne, to start the order in the 1890's. After her first contact
with a novice mistress, Sister Loretta had an interview with Mother Rose, who
accepted her.
A convert to Catholicism, Rose Hawthorne had taken
upon herself the plight of the destitute dying of cancer in New York's
tenements in the 1890s when cancer was thought to be contagious, treatment was
primitive, and sufferers, with terrible lesions and open wounds, were shunned
and feared. She moved into one of New York's worst neighborhoods and began
taking in incurable patients and nursing them herself. She was eventually
joined by Miss Huber, who was a young portrait painter, and other women. They
were received into the Third Order of St. Dominic in 1899.
To the young woman who met her in the 1930s, Alice
Huber was at first contact, "the most wonderful person I've ever met."
"From the time I first saw her I have never
changed my mind," Sister Loretta said. "What a wonderful, wonderful person."
When a group of sisters was selected to travel to
Georgia to open the new home, Sister Loretta wondered because she was not among
those chosen. But "Mother Rose sent for me," she recalls. "'I'm taking you
South. But I want you to see your father before you go.'"
Sister Loretta came a few months later on the
train, with the order's co-foundress and another sister as her traveling
companions. The other young nuns wondered that she might be frightened at the
prospect of having such an auspicious traveling companion, but Sister Loretta
says, "Scared nothing. She'll have a ball, she'll enjoy it -- which I did."
Arriving in Georgia, the habited nuns were an
unfamiliar spectacle to many of their patients. "People were afraid of nuns.
They appreciated very much the work. It took them a little time to realize that
was all we wanted" and that they would not be forcibly converted while they
were dying.
Lack of knowledge and limited treatment for cancer
gave the sisters many patients to care for, many of them country people who did
not recognize the nature of their illness until they were seriously ill, Sister
Loretta said.
Then as now the sisters did all the nursing of the
patients themselves at no charge. They have always taken in the destitute who
have been diagnosed as having incurable cancer with no medical treatment. In
these days, destitute means those who have no means to afford the cost of a
nursing home in such a circumstance. Nine sisters care for about 40 patients
and there is a long waiting list of those who would like to enter the home.
Sometimes the unexpected happens and the very sick
keep living. Mary Ann, a young girl who came to the Cancer Home as a toddler,
was expected to live six months, Sister Loretta says, and she lived until she
was almost 13 years old. Her story was told in a book written by the sisters,
with an introduction by the Catholic writer Flannery O'Connor. Sister Loretta,
who was the nurse particularly caring for Mary Ann, said she was a powerful
influence on her caretakers. Tutors who came to teach her lessons at the Cancer
Home ended up joining religious life, the nun said. "Mary Ann kept losing her
tutors, about five anyway, if not more, who became religious, about four to our
order."
Sister Loretta has acquired a bit of notoriety
herself, after commenting in a newspaper article that she was a Georgia
football fan and didn't care about Notre Dame "at all." Coach Vince Dooley
visited the Cancer Home afterwards and gave her a black Bulldogs hooded
sweatshirt and a "How 'Bout Them Dogs" tote bag. She was invited to be a
special guest at a Georgia game, but she prefers to watch the games on
television and is a dedicated football and baseball fan.
After several decades of nursing the sick, Sister
Loretta was bookkeeper for the home and worked in the home's pharmacy. Now she
visits patients, sets up tables and does the dishes and assists in less
strenuous ways. "Now I have an avocation. I'm taking piano lessons," from a
teacher who comes to the home, she says. "I'm not very good, but nobody has to
listen to me."
Despite her family's concerns years ago, she has
been strong enough for the work, crediting God's grace and the order's physical
and spiritual training. "I think if God gives you a vocation, He gives you all
you yourself need to handle it with His help," she says.
She is feisty about the religious habit she has
worn for 50 years, a badge of honor that she would not part with under any
circumstances.
"I am proud of the habit -- very proud -- and I am
very proud that I have been accepted into this community," she says. "I have
never lost those two feelings. I really think God has been very, very good to
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