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By Paula Day
Atlantans have already felt the cold touch of
winter in temperatures that have dipped into the 30s. Atlanta's street people
also have felt that touch and Atlanta's night shelters are preparing for
another four-and-a-half months of providing food and shelter for these
homeless. Opening Nov. 15, St. Anthony's parish-sponsored shelter in southwest
Atlanta is one of the original shelters to minister to Atlanta's needy during
the winter months.
Begun in January 1982, the shelter will be staffed
nightly this winter by volunteers from 32 Catholic parishes, two Catholic
schools and one business. Billie and Don Nye of St. John Neumann parish in
Lilburn coordinate the efforts of these volunteers.
"It gives many people the opportunity to share,"
commented Don Nye. "Very few come away with a negative reaction. They go to
uplift and become uplifted themselves."
St. Anthony's shelter has room for 35 men; the hot
casserole-style meal is enough to feed 40. The shelter offers some special
services in addition to giving food and a night's lodging. One is a barber
service; another is the foot ministry.
Two times a week, St. Anthony parishioner Janice
Willis helps the men shampoo their hair and gives them a full cut or trim. Ms.
Willis' service is characteristic of the way services come to be provided by
the shelter. Don Nye points out, "Somebody comes to the shelter as a volunteer,
sees a need and says to themselves, 'I can do something about that.' That's the
way many of our needs are met."
A special and much needed feature of St. Anthony's
shelter is its foot ministry, again begun after a volunteer realized that she
personally could do something to help.
Foot problems are major problems for street people
because they stand or walk much of the time, often do not have proper fitting
footwear and do not have a change of shoes. Once a week two women from St.
Anthony's give the shelter's guests a hot foot soak. Then they rub down the
sore and calloused feet with alcohol or oil to help ease the discomfort.
Another volunteer, who worked at Fort McPherson,
arranged to have a supply of overcoats given once a year to the shelter.
On a monthly basis a mobile medical unit from
Saint Joseph's Hospital visits the shelter. A doctor and two nurses listen to
medical complaints and dispense medicine. For more serious medical problems
they make referrals to Grady Hospital, a process that can take time and can
become complicated without this referral from the unit's team.
Another service offered by St. Anthony's shelter
is a United Way booklet which lists a variety of useful resources. These
include limited job assistance, legal aid, dental and medical care, alcohol and
drug counseling services, limited housing assistance and free of charge
clothing outlets.
But the shelter's nightly hot meals and lodging
are the backbone of its ministry and it is in this service that hundreds of
Catholics participate.
The shelter is located in the hall beneath St.
Anthony's Church on the corner of Gordon and Ashby Streets in Atlanta's West
End. It is easily accessible from the parking lot at the back which is between
the church and the parish rectory. The large hall has a fully equipped kitchen
at one end and a closed off area where volunteers may sleep or watch
television. At the opposite end are the rest rooms and a shower. The open area
between has tables and chairs which are folded and stacked at the end of the
evening, clearing the area for the mats used for sleeping.
Volunteers are usually divided into two groups,
those responsible for preparing and serving dinner and those who stay
overnight. At least three persons are needed for the overnight team, so the
volunteers can stay awake in shifts and also get some sleep.
In addition to the hot meal, which volunteers can
prepare in the shelter's kitchen or bring in, the men also receive fruit and
sandwiches in the morning.
Joyce Smith, employed by the parish as shelter
manager, is on hand from 5:30 to 8:30 each weekday evening to orient the
volunteers. The shelter opens to the men looking for lodging at 7 p.m. It
closes at 8, allowing for time to settle in before lights out.
Rules, developed through experience, give
structure and protection to the volunteers and the guests. The first 30 persons
on the first night receive coupons for the next night. They retain the coupon
and are assured a place, losing it only through disorderly conduct. This
process establishes a degree of stability -- the same men returning night after
night.
"The regulars look after you and remind you if
things aren't going like they should," commented Don Nye. "They monitor each
other, too. They let you know who to watch."
For Billie and Don Nye and their family, working
as volunteers at the shelter has been a rewarding experience. All six of the
Nye children have participated; the youngest began when she was only two. After
spending a Christmas night at the shelter, the family assessment was: "The best
Christmas ever!"
"The children get to sit down and talk to the men
-- play cards with them. You only have to go in there one time to see that just
because someone has less than you doesn't mean they are less than you are,"
Billie Nye commented.
But it isn't easy, especially at first, according
to Don Nye. He recalls his own difficulty in responding to Phil.
Phil was a street person with only one eye and
because of this disfigurement, Nye found it hard to talk with him. It was a
really test of his commitment to serving Christ in the least of his brothers,
Nye admits. While he didn't want to get involved with Phil, "Phil had decided
he was going to talk to me all night long."
Phil made special efforts to help at the shelter,
volunteering to work in the kitchen and helping with the cleanup. Over time,
the Nyes noticed what seemed to be an improved sense of self-worth in Phil.
When he returned the following winter, he had a glass eye. He continued to
volunteer to work around the parish and eventually was hired to do odd jobs.
Phil went on to get counseling and, the last time the Nyes heard, he was
working at a steady job.
John, another street person, "was very upset with
'whitey' and gave us a hard time," Nye said. "You didn't want to get caught by
John. He once said to me, 'You do good work here, but would you let me come to
your house and take a shower?' It makes you think." Nye knew he was finally
accepted when John "gave me a big hug on his own."
Several young men who find lodging at the shelter
are going to school to try to better themselves, Billie Nye said, but can't
afford food and shelter, while they pay for school. One shelter person goes
regularly to local libraries and "reads everything he can get his hands on" in
order to educate himself, she added.
Don Nye makes up the yearly schedule of volunteers
and keeps it updated on a computer. Each parish that commits has a coordinator
who organizes persons at the parish level who want to help. These coordinators
are the Nyes' contact persons. Nye tries to spread assignments out; his goal is
to assign a group to only one night a month, four nights a year. Six nights are
the most any group is assigned in the present schedule.
The coming winter's schedule is complete but Nye
would like to add to what he calls his "bust list" -- a list of persons who
could be called at the last minute to replace overnight volunteers who can't
make it.
Other shelter needs, according to Billie Nye,
include new clothing: socks, stocking caps, underwear, gloves, jackets, flannel
shirts. These items, gift-wrapped, are given shelter persons each night of
Christmas week.
The cost of running the shelter has risen,
according to manager Joyce Smith, and she points out that St. Anthony's parish
is not a wealthy parish. With the recent installation of a shower, electricity
bills have increased. Furnishing soap, towels, razors and toothbrushes is an
additional cost. The city has raised the parish's fee for disposal because of
increased waste. A committee, composed of St. Anthony's pastor and
parishioners, decides how money donations are spent, Ms. Smith added.
In a letter expressing gratitude for the help of
volunteers, Billie Nye says she is reminded of lines from a poem by James
Russell Lowell in which Christ speaks:
"Who gives himself with his alms feeds three;
Himself, his hungering neighbor, and Me."
(Persons wishing to volunteer to help at St.
Anthony's shelter may contact their parish coordinator, or call Don Nye at
921-2252 or 633-4551. Donations to the shelter can be made to St. Anthony's
parish at 928 Gordon Street, SW, Atlanta 30311.)
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