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by Msgr. Noel C. Burtenshaw
They are beautiful. They are young. They love to be together. They
have had fun living with Karen and Fred Kloman and their family out in
Marietta. But when they go home, these two teenage girls will no longer have a
close friendship.
It sounds like a story of two youngsters from Northern Ireland on
a U.S. holiday. It is not. It is the story of two Lebanese girls participating
in the same kind of vacation. One is Moslem, the other is Christian. The
divisions in Lebanon are just as rigid, just as divisive as Northern Ireland.
And the resulting violence is just as tragic.
Oumaima Dakik is 14. She lives in Moslem West Beirut. Sabine Ged
is 15. She lives in Christian East Beirut. They have rocked and rolled in the
American teenage style for some weeks and have never thought of division. Both
like boys (how strange!), both like Phil Collins (he sings), Six Flags and
McDonalds. Oumaima likes books and the more rambunctious Sabine likes American
TV.
They are wonderful, happy kids but their background is dark and
even frightening.
Going to school, say Oumaima, can sometimes be
difficult. You hear the explosions in the background and always the bullets. On
one occasion last year a bullet came in the window of my classroom. But school
goes on.
However, both girls agree that sometimes school has to be
canceled. It is too dangerous at times to go on the streets.
They both tell you about the green line. That is the
border between East and West Beirut. Oumaima with her beautiful dark eyes,
touched with sadness, says that she cannot cross into the Christian East, while
the ever smiling Sabine says that going to the Moslem West is impossible for
her. Religion, politics, gunmen keep the division intact.
Both girls heard of the vacation program through their parents.
Vincent Lavery had been spearheading an Irish program for years. But just
Ireland was not enough for this great man of compassion for suffering children.
He wants to extend his American spirit of charity to the world. His first
choice for expansion was war-torn Lebanon.
Sixteen were picked. Two were sent to Marietta. There, the open
arms of Fred and Karen Kloman were ready to receive them.
The Klomans have been hosts to the Irish program for years.
Happily, on their spacious 3 acre home, they hosted the first Lebanese
experience. Karen would say these vivacious kids are an experience
but one she has enjoyed.
Why do people fight in Lebanon, a nation of 2 million Moslems and
1 million Christians? The girls sadly are puzzled. We were such a
beautiful country, says Oumaima, we were the Paris of the Middle
East. Our hotels and shops were glamorous and beautiful. But violence
came.
The French left Lebanon in 1946 when it became independent. But
the French were Christian and wanted Christian guarantees for the minority.
Always there was the feeling of discrimination by the majority Moslems. But
other ingredients were added. The Palestinian camps came, the Israelis came,
the Syrians came. The resulting chaos is almost impossible to sort out. Chaos
reigns and the native Lebanese suffer.
These youngsters have no answers, just questions like the rest of
the world. Their American vacation healed many wounds in them and they want the
experience for others. We will probably never stop talking about
it, says Sabine. Quickly Oumaima adds, We dont really want to
go back.
But back to Beirut they will go. Vincent Laverys program for
the divided children includes a stipulation that the children must meet at
Christmas for a reunion in their homeland. Even in difficult and dangerous
Belfast this has been possible. Will it now be possible in Beirut?
We dont know, say the girls together, forcing
themselves to reach into an uncertain future. We have the green
line and gunmen and the militia. It may not be possible.
Fred Kloman, eternally enthusiastic and optimistic, reminds his
guests that the militia okayed their passage through the city to the airport,
which is in the Moslem section of the city. Who knows, says Fred,
well plan and see.
The girls return next week. They lived with some Northern Irish
children whose families have known division for centuries. The Lebanese have
known it for only 10 years. Both girls are determined the line
should go.
They will do their part to see it gone. Somehow you know they
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