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By Rita McInerney
Maggie Wideman has a profound love of horses, in particular her
beautiful Arabians. They are, she says, the only purebred horse in the world
today and the oldest: Their ancestors watched the Wise Men go by in the
desert.
Maggie is in the business of teaching girls how to ride these
handsome horses at Little Hope Ranch in Conyers. She started the riding camp
for girls from 8 to 16 back in 1963 when the only traffic on Christian Circle
was the postman bringing mail to the few residents, and an occasional car. Now
the 60-acre horse ranch is surrounded by newly built homes and subdivisions in
the construction stage.
Little Hope is heaven for girls eager to become
horsewomen. For one or two summer weeks each has a horse of her own to ride,
feed and groom. Her world is centered in the large barn, in the stall where her
assigned horse is quartered, the trails and the show rings. Its total
immersion in the world of the horse -the ranch house is full of trophies,
books and framed pictures of well-remembered horses, even the hand towels in
the bathroom have a horse motif.
On a typical morning, the girls have eaten breakfast and are out
in the barn by 8, getting themselves and their mounts ready for the morning
lessons. Maggie is in the midst of 14 girls, moving from stall to stall to
introduce her beloved horses to a visitor. She pauses first at the stall of
Count Daytime, a handsome chestnut stallion and her special pride among the
ranchs 16 purebred Arabians. In all there are 38 horses in the stable,
many of them sired by Count. Because she is half horse myself, she
is their friend, sensitive to their needs and moods. And the horses?
Theyre all kissin cousins to one another.
Maggies horse wisdom gives her a wide-angel vision of the
barn, the stalls, the campers. Shes in mouth and muscle motion
constantly. Heres a horse with muddy flanks, heres a stall not
cleaned out, heres a horse not eating his oats. Good care of the horses
has top priority, it teaches the campers responsibility, a virtue required of
topnotch riders.
You have to work out your own salvation and establish a
rapport, Maggie tells the newcomers. Youre dealing with a
living creature, youre like two dancers. You have to be a team. Let your
horse know youd like to be a friend. Its in your voice, the
way you handle the reins, the way you use your legs to command your horse, she
tells them.
I was my daddys only rider, she says of her
introduction to the world of horses when she was 10 year old. She helped him on
the 1,000 acre horse range he leased in eastern Texas. Horses have been a major
part of her life ever since.
She teaches formal English riding style at Little Hope. When
I came to Georgia I learned the joy of forward seat (English hunting seat) and
said goodbye to Roy Rogerscowboy style. With the big old Western-style
you cant even feel your horse. And balance, she tells the girls,
is the foundation of riding. After that youre on your own.
Its like riding a bicycle.
Mindy Morris, a blonde, jockey-sized dynamo, directs the camp with
her mother. The two have no more kinship with those caricatures of angular
horsey set women than Annie Oakley has to the side-saddled Queen Elizabeth.
Theirs is a strong bond, an unbounded appreciation of the splendid creatures
who gaze upon the two women with mute love.
Maggie and Mindy scrutinize the single-file line of girls leading
horses out of the barn. As the young riders begin to mount their horses, they
are with the little girl who needs a let up, or tightening a loose buckle
around the belly of a large mare. Good seats are praised and improper handling
of reins corrected. Slowly, horses and riders move down the trail separating
bunkhouse and ranch house from the swimming pool and indoor ring. Horses
hooves send up clouds of dust from the parched ground. The friendly dogs that
have been part of the busy group in the barn race for shady spots under the
trees, horseflies in pursuit.
Riders are divided into classes according to their experience;
many return to the ranch summer after summer. The younger riders follow Molly
Murphy, 12, of Holy Cross parish, in a slow walk around the trail circling the
horse show ring. Molly, a camper-helper, is in her fourth summer at the ranch.
Shes a natural with horses and a great help, Maggie says. The tanned,
barelegged girl is riding Ben, the handsome chestnut brown gelding
belonging to Mindy.
Heres an example of the fine art of bareback
riding, Mindy calls out to the visitor as Molly and her group approach.
Its a rare privilege, very few people have ever ridden my
horse. Mindy has ridden the even-tempered gelding in many national
competitions. Although she is an accredited American Horse Show Association
judge, she still prefers hunter class competition with Ben. Now she
worries that Ben senses that she is training another horse for
competition. Both Maggie and Mindy know that horses understand these things.
Some of the girls Mindy is putting through their paces look tense,
other carry the poise of born horsewomen as they clear low jumps or round a
turn without faltering. No move escapes Mindys well-trained eye. She is
all over the ring, striding from one pair to another, calling out praise for a
good transition from a canter to a trot or encouraging a girl over a fence.
One girls horse heads for the gate each time around.
Take up your reins, nag her with your legs, Mindy urges her. The
horse obeys the signal. The rider looks pleased with herself.
Soon the class follows Angie Gray, 15, a camper-helper from
Tucker, in a cooling walk along the trail in the woods bordering the ring.
Angie, another of Maggies right-hand girls, has been coming to the ranch
for four summers. It shows in her easy handling of her horse.
Twins Lisa and Tasha Pascucci, of Westchester, N.Y., Chris Berman,
of Trumbull, Conn., and Jody Werrbach, of Marietta, are advanced riders next in
the ring with Mindy. Their jumping is more practiced and they respond smoothly
to her commands to clear the fences. Before they quit the ring, Mindy assigns
them jumps to practice for the next day and study of the rulebook on show
competition.
The rules will be followed at the Saturday morning horseshow when
the campers, formally dressed in their summer hunt coats, polished boots and
hard hats, exhibit their newly-acquired equestrian skills before parents and
brothers and sisters.
Usually there are two or three girls who stay over for another
week of camp. Often they choose to get up before dawn and go with Maggie to the
early Mass at the Monastery of Our Lady of the Holy Spirit. Before traffic
became heavy, Maggie and the girls used to cover the four or so miles on
horseback.
Maggie, a convert to Catholicism, took instructions at the
monastery 25 years ago, about the time the controversial idea that God is
dead was receiving heavy attention in the press. I wanted to go
where God isnt dead. Hes alive and well in the Catholic
Church, she found.
Shes been going to the monastery ever since, long before the
parish of St. Pius X was established in July, 1974. We were part of the
early family out there (monastery), there were only eight or 10 families.
And the monks were everybodys family.
The Widemans bought the property as a weekend place, somewhere to
keep a horse, Maggie says. The ground was strewn with so much old junk and
debris that there was Little hope, she recalls, of ever getting it
cleaned up. Hence the name. The first stallion acquired, a gray Arabian, was
named Elachar after the initials, LHR, of the ranch.
In 1966, catastrophe struck. The barn burned to the ground.
Before the ashes had cooled, she says, the monks were over
here bulldozing and leveling off the ground so a new barn could be
raised. At the time Father Damian salvaged two horseshoes from the barn and
later, Brother Leo Francis, an artist with an acetylene torch, created a black
wrought iron sculpture much treasured by Maggie, incorporating the salvaged
horseshoes into a whimsical abstraction of squares, rectangles and
dream prints of horses.
Brother Leo, who used to sell his welded sculptures to a gallery
in New Hope, Pa., before entering the monastery, has created several iron works
for the abbey church including a Paschal candle, tabernacle and Advent Vigil
lights.
His gift to Little Hope, delivered for Christmas, 1968, was
brought over on a flatbed truck, tied with a big red bow. Today it hangs in the
dining room for all to admire.
Maggie says she likes to think of the ranch as giving continuity
to life for former campers who bring their own daughters to the place where
they spent happy summer weeks. They delight, she says, in recognizing the horse
they used to ride or the tree they used to swing from. Its strengthening,
she believes, to have such a place to come to and find things unchanged amid
the transient quality of life today.
Little Hope is one of 75 facilities in the U.S. recognized as a
certified riding establishment by the American Horse Show Association and the
ranch purebreds are registered with the Arabian Horse Registry of America based
in Denver. But, Maggie says, we never aspired to being large. At one time
we took 28 girls, but you didnt get the feel of these kids. I want to
enjoy them. Now the camp limit is 20 girls each week. Year-round
activities include a Pony Club which meets one weekend each month, family
riding lessons, horse shows the third Saturday of each month from fall through
spring and an annual show in May.
One could say Maggie has a dare to live outlook.
Although her life, she claims, is limited to the ranch, church, Krogers
and the dumpster, and has had a share of ups and downs, the therapy of
being needed is marvelous. With all these little animals around I didnt
have time to feel sorry for myself, she tells a visitor. It helped to
have faith. All things work together for those who love the Lord,
she likes to quote from St. Pauls letter to the Romans.
Each time Maggie takes a few of her girls to the nearby Saturday
night horse sales she is appalled by the pitiable condition of some of the
horses. So many people, she claims, starve their horses and then sell them off
to a dealer wholl bring them to the sale. She doesnt waste time
arguing with the dealer, just lets the Humane Society know about the mistreated
beasts.
Angel, one of the favorites in her barn, was purchased
a few months ago at a sale. Shes older than the hills and has never
been ridden, Maggie says of the big gray horse. It was an act of
charity buying her but I do feel I was taken. Shes been somebodys
old brood mare. Now Angel has a good home at Little Hope and Maggie can
speculate to a visitor that she might be entertaining an angel
unaware as it says in Scripture.
One sale Maggie can only enjoy through the marvel of video is the
well-publicized yearling sale at the Keeneland stables in Kentucky. Viewing a
tape shared by a friend which focused more on millionaire celebrities than the
horses being sold for millions of dollars, she could say with happy conviction
that they may have more money, but they dont have more fun than we
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