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By Gretchen Keiser
With a tremendous amount of support from backers, a 25-year-old
registered nurse has started in Georgia a new branch of the pro-life movement
aimed at the needs of people who assist in performing abortions.
With every abortion, four people at minimum are
involved, says Melanie Kernekin, a former labor and delivery nurse at
Grady Hospital in Atlanta.
The mother and baby are two and there are many
pro-life agencies trying to assist the pregnant woman, Ms. Kernekin observed.
The other two are the doctor and nurse, and specifically the nurse.
The nurse is there to hold that womans hand and listen
to her cry. The nurse has to listen to the story of a 25-year-old in for her
fifth abortion, she said.
Ms. Kernekin, who quit her job last fall in order to work
full-time in pro-life education for medical professionals, said,
Weve got to have a resource group to reach out to them. Somebody
has got to start helping them.
Soft-spoken and admittedly new to the work she has undertaken, Ms.
Kernekin has already won significant support, particularly from backers who
have chosen to remain anonymous.
Having quit her job last September, she made it through the first
two months using her savings to tide her over, but quickly reached the
end financially. During one week when the survival of the new
organization, Georgia Nurses for Life, was in question, she received a grant
from an unspecified Christian foundation that paid her salary for
the first year. The same week, another individual provided the financial
backing for the organization to move into highly professional and attractive
offices on Holcomb Bridge Road in Norcross. Two other people provide funds to
buy a computer package at cost that enabled her to computerize their mailing
list of 2,500 names.
At the end of the week, I had my salary, I had my office and
I had my computer. Basically, we were set up, she said, adding that the
people involved want their names omitted because the story glorified God
so much more when you keep names out of it.
A member of Perimeter Presbyterian Church who acknowledges that
she felt a call to become involved in pro-life work for medical
professionals, Ms. Kernekin says that her own attitude developed during her
work as a nurse.
After graduating from Emory University with a bachelor of science
degree in nursing in 1985, she worked at two hospitals as a labor and delivery
nurse. One was a private hospital in which she was sheltered from the reality
of abortion, she said. In her second position, at Grady Hospital in Atlanta,
she worked in close proximity to the abortion section.
The physical location of the two units one for birth and
the other for abortions emphasized the irony and what she sees as the
conflicting position of medical ethics for doctors, nurses and other
professionals.
The training of a labor and delivery nurse emphasizes her
responsibility for the unseen patient the unborn child in
the womb whose well-being must be constantly monitored during labor. Any sign
of fetal distress brings immediate action to try and relive it and save the
life of the child, she said.
On the other side of the hall, a lowing heartbeat (of a
fetus), a deceleration was good, she observed. On my side of the
hall doctors were working so hard trying to save a premature babys
life.
While she never had to take part in an abortion. Ms. Kernekin
said, I witnessed people taking the life of the patient I was taught to
protect.
Doctors and nurses, because of their training and daily work, are
largely unaffected by the emotionalism and sensationalism of pro-life
groups, she says. While those who oppose abortion may continue to focus
on the reality that abortion is more than an operation to remove
tissue, to a practicing medical professional who has been
desensitized, the fetus can become tissue, she said.
Instead, Georgia Nurses for Life is attempting to emphasize
hard, cold facts about abortion and particularly that abortion is
very, very much a medical ethical issue.
The focus needs to be upon the fetus as, very much, human life in
the womb, she says, despite the controversy about whether or not the life of
the fetus is somehow potential rather than actual. The fetus
is not a potential human being, says Ms. Kernekin. It is a human
being with great potential.
In addition to mailing out a newsletter, the organization is
sponsoring workshops which examine the medical and legal aspects of abortion,
euthanasia, infanticide and other disputed areas. A Feb. 8 workshop focuses on
the legal questions surrounding those three topics.
A full-page advertisement will also appear in the Georgia edition
of TIME magazine this month encouraging readers to support or join the mailing
list of the organization. Designed by the Atlanta firm of Kent Puckett and
Associates, the ad appeals to young women facing pregnancy to make courageous
decisions and not to be frightened into having an abortion. The ad cites
examples of women living courageously, including Mother Teresa and Corrie ten
Boom, whose faith carried her through suffering in a Nazi concentration camp.
While the organizations mailing list includes people other
than nurses, approximately 80 have come to workshops that have been held so
far, Ms. Kernekin said. She has also received mail attacking the organization
and her work.
While she was in the midst of the interview, a nurse called twice
from a hospital to talk about the stress she was experiencing relating to
abortions.
In Georgia it is lawful for a nurse to refuse to take part in
abortions by placing a statement to that effect in her record, the director
said. However, many nurses are unaware of the fact, she said, and others find
it difficult to refuse to do certain work when everyone is busy and the refusal
is interpreted as an unwillingness to help. You get caught between your
peers and your moral standards, she observed.
For Ms. Kernekin, a decisive moment came on a Sunday when she went
into the closed abortion unit for some supplies and was suddenly struck by a
detail she had not noticed before. All of the operating room windows were
sealed and covered with paper. That barrier, which is not present in any other
unit, hit her forcefully as a closed door that needed to be opened. I
stood there and it was like God had a finger right on my heart and said,
Youre going to do something about this, she recalled.
But her emphasis is upon the need for medical professionals to
come to an awareness that so far has not hit home.
We want to create a very scientific approach, she
said. We want to talk their language, go to them on their ground and see
what we can do.
Thirteen years after the U.S. Supreme Courts landmark
abortion decisions of Jan. 22, 1973, one of which originated from a lawsuit
involving Atlantas Grady Hospital, the focus is again on the medical
community. If anything is going to change, its going to be from the
medical community, the nurse said, and thats my bias.
Weve tried everything else. |