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By Gretchen Keiser
In the middle of the kitchen table at the Slagles home in
Griffin sits a baby carrier. Johnathan, the newborn in fuzzy yellow baby
pajamas, rests quietly, a sweet smile on his face as he sleeps.
Two of his 10 brothers and sisters are coloring in the next room,
while the older ones are at school. A hallway near the kitchen is filled with
pegs for coats and hats, umbrellas, sweaters and parkas, and the sizes and
shapes and colors of all the childrens clothes fill an entire wall.
Snapshots of the family dot a corkboard bulletin near the refrigerator and
Laurie Slagle, mother of the family, has a pot of homemade soup on the stove in
the rambling old farmhouse which has been rearranged, added to and expanded as
the Slagle family grew.
Tom Slagle, her husband, sits at the wooden kitchen table, taking
a midday break from his hectic work at his own business, a combination
heating, air conditioning, plumbing and electric firm which serves
the rural homes and farms nearby.
A new baby for the Slagles would normally be good news that would
reach their immediate circle of family and friends. But in the case of
Johnathan, his birth, which is being called a miracle, is likely to provoke
much more attention.
Its strange that my wife and I, who always fought
abortion, were the ones that had to be put to the test, said Tom Slagle,
as he reflected upon the extraordinary events that had enveloped his family in
the last year. Of all the books in the Bible, Jobs been a big help
to me, he said.
Aside from the attention their big family draws, the Slagles
normally shun the limelight, even turning down requests in the past from
newspapers to do stories on how a family of 10 manages these days, said Tom,
who is a permanent deacon in the Catholic Church.
But in March 1985, Tom and Laurie found themselves in the midst of
a time they call being in the fire. During the course of routine
visits to her doctor for her eleventh pregnancy, Laurie, who is 37, was told
that she might have breast cancer and was advised to see a surgeon. She had
just lost her father in January to lung cancer and had other family members
afflicted with cancer. Abruptly shaken from the normal course of a pregnancy,
the Slagles found themselves at Emory University Hospital in Atlanta where
Laurie was scheduled to undergo a mastectomy, or removal of a breast. But even
that grim prognosis worsened.
After performing a biopsy on Laurie, the doctor emerged from the
operating room, Tom Slagle said, and told him, We cant do anything.
Your wife is going to die.
The biopsy had revealed that Mrs. Slagle had an inoperable form of
cancer, the Slagles said, which would only worsen with surgery. The couple was
told that she would live perhaps a year or two. Rather than surgery, a
treatment of radiation and chemotherapy was recommended, but the doctors were
not encouraging that it would succeed, the Slagles said. The particular cancer,
called ductal adenocarcinoma, is not that rare, but in a pregnant woman,
its very rare, Tom Slagle recalled. In addition, doctors said that
in pregnant women, its aggressive, or particularly fast
moving, Laurie Slagle added.
At that time, the Slagles learned that abortion was recommended
for pregnant women with this type of cancer. Several different doctors involved
in Mrs. Slagles treatment asked the couple whether they would have an
abortion, Tom Slagle said. The radiologist just assumed we were going to
have one, he recalled. Later it was brought up again. We said
no, Tom Slagle said, and went to the chemotherapist and said no
again.
Mrs. Slagle was already undergoing radiation treatment, but had
not yet begun chemotherapy, according to the couple. When they arrived at the
hospital for the first chemotherapy treatment, they were instead brought to an
office where they were met by an attorney for the hospital, they said. At issue
were the possible consequences of the radiation and chemotherapy treatment on
the unborn child, the Slagles said, and the criminal and civil liability that
the doctors and hospital would bear. While they offered to waive any rights to
sue the hospital for possible damage to the child, the lawyer said that they
could not waive the rights of their unborn child, the Slagles said. At the age
of 18, the child could independently sue, they were told.
I was mad, Tom Slagle said, not at the lawyer. I
was mad at society.
Facing a situation which would have permitted them to legally
abort the child, but not to obtain at Emory the treatment medically necessary
for Mrs. Slagle because of possible risk to the child, the family decided to
pursue the matter legally.
They found out it had never been done before. Do you mean to
say my wife is the first person to walk into this hospital and be refused
treatment because she was pregnant and would not abort the child, Tom
Slagle asked indignantly. On the other hand, the family would not go to another
hospital because they felt they would get the best care at Emory, they said.
So it came about that at 7 a.m. on May 3, 1985, in a locked
courtroom in Dekalb Superior Court, a hearing was held to determine the rights
of the five-month-old unborn child of the Slagles in the face of her grave
illness and the necessary treatments. Lawyers for Emory and the Slagles brought
the matter jointly to the court and a youthful Decatur attorney, John Manning,
was appointed by the court to stand in for the unborn baby and guard his or her
rights.
Manning recalls that he was assigned the case at 6 p.m. May 1 and
had 48 hours to prepare. Reviewing Mrs. Slagles medical history, reading
medical literature on the cancer involved and seeking other medical opinions,
he became very depressed. I had a feeling as I was doing the research
that while I could arrive at an independent decision, whatever decision I
arrive at wouldnt matter, Manning said, because I feared that
both the mother and the child would not survive based on the medical opinions I
had received.
On the morning of May 3, Manning, lawyers representing the Slagles
and Emory, the two key doctors involved, and the Slagles came before Dekalb
Judge Ed Wheeler, a juvenile Court judge who in this case was serving also as a
Superior Court judge.
The Slagles brought their three oldest children, Janet, Tom and
Aaron, in case the judge wanted to question them, but that proved unnecessary.
They wondered what John Manning would say when he took the stand to speak for
the unborn child. For all we knew, he could have said, I dont
want her (Mrs. Slagle) to have any treatments at all, Tom Slagle said.
Once the matter came to court, the Slagles were relinquishing their rights to
decide upon treatment and giving it over to the judge.
John Manning met the Slagles for the first time in court and
listened to Laurie Slagle as she took the stand to explain her viewpoint.
I found her to be a warm, sensitive woman of faith who had a sense of
hope about her, while at the same time realizing her condition medically,
he said. Even though she was frightened, Manning said he sensed a
peace about her and heard an affirmation of the importance of her life
and her relationship with God.
His own statement on behalf of the child, prepared beforehand,
asked that Mrs. Slagle be permitted to have radiation and chemotherapy, since
this would afford the child at least a chance of life. Without treatment
doctors did not expect Mrs. Slagle to live till her due date. Manning said he
left the courtroom in a different frame of mind from his earlier depression.
While I continued to be concerned about the future of both my youngest
client and his mother, Ive got to tell you I felt good about having an
opportunity to meet her and to meet Tom and to have a sense of their
spirit.
The court ruled that the treatments could take place, but set up a
system of reports that would alert the judge to any possible change in Mrs.
Slagle or the babys condition. Manning made monthly calls to the family
to check on their wellbeing.
Laurie Slagle, whose strength emerges in quiet, simple statements,
says, I always felt it would come out fine. Her husband
acknowledges, she was always more optimistic than I was, and that
he immediately began to try to figure out how he would manage the family alone.
A hospital chaplain, he had seen many people die and knew the risks.
His father moved up from Florida to bring Laurie to and from
radiation treatments Monday through Friday for several weeks. Every third
Thursday, Tom himself would accompany her to chemotherapy, which he feared
would make her terribly sick. He sought prayers from everyone he met. At the
same time, his business was failing and on the edge of collapse.
To say the least, we were all in great turmoil, Tom
said. My house was in turmoil, my kids were in turmoil, I was in
turmoil.
But, he said, I had made up my mind that our only chance was
to get everybody to pray...If I went and fixed up your house, Id ask you
to pray for my wife. I doubt there was one church in Griffin that wasnt
praying for her. At a Communion service for the new class of diaconate
candidates, some 60 men from the archdiocese, Tom Slagle got up and gave the
homily. I told them exactly where I was, how I felt and that I needed
everyones prayers. He also began bringing Laurie the Eucharist from
their parish church everyday.
The pastor from their parish, Sacred Heart in Griffin, brought a
relic of St. Gerard, the patron saint of pregnant mothers, to their home and
told them to keep it until the baby was born. Laurie recalls that her name was
registered on prayer lists internationally by friends and acquaintances. At
home even the check out girl at the grocery store was praying for her, as were
the monks in Conyers.
To Toms surprise, as they went to chemotherapy month after
month, Laurie never became sick. Each time he brought her home, she sent him
off to work and he clung to his beeper, expecting an emergency call that never
came. The summer passed and the treatments were stopped because her due date
approached, but the baby was three and a half weeks late. Gradually, Tom said
his attitude became one of total acceptance. Even his business fortunes
reversed and his company began to flourish.
Finally on the morning of September 21, Laurie said it was time to
go to the hospital. Expecting to have time to spare, they got her there around
11:30 a.m. and abruptly found themselves in the midst of a delivery nine
minutes later. Her own obstetrician didnt get there and instead a
resident, innocent of all the commotion surrounding this baby, delivered
Johnathan. Im there counting all the fingers and toes to make
sure the baby is okay, Tom recalls, and the resident has breezed through the
birth without a pause, announcing a healthy, normal child.
They called him Johnathan, which means gift from God.
Welcomed by his brothers and sisters as the 11th member of the
Slagle family, Johnathan was baptized on Oct. 26 by Archbishop Thomas A.
Donnellan at a ceremony to which the entire town of Griffin was invited by a
notice published in the local daily paper.
As part of the baptism, several of the Slagle children carried the
relic of St. Gerard up to the altar and returned it to the church. John Manning
came to the baptism of his youngest client and spent most of the
time arguing with the babys grandmother about whose turn it was to hold
him, he says. The family pediatrician has said that at six weeks, Johnathan
appears to be a completely normal, healthy baby. Judge Wheeler, who had sealed
the court proceedings until the birth of the child, has now permitted those
involved to talk about the case.
Judge Wheeler said balancing the rights of the mother and the
child was an awful position to be placed in, almost a catch-22.
Ordering treatment for Mrs. Slagle was necessary for her well-being and yet
could have injured the unborn child, he said. But thank God it turned out
like it did and they both were safe.
He said the case reminded him of two passages in the Bible. One
was judge not lest yourself be judged, he said. The other was
Jesus admonition to render unto Caesar that which is
Caesars and to God that which is Gods, he said. This case,
involved both government and faith, had to be decided according to the
laws of Georgia, he said.
Manning, who is a Sunday school teacher at Decatur First Baptist
Church, has talked about Johnathan during the class sections on miracles. His
first chance to meet the Slagle family was at the baptism. As difficult
and depressing a situation as the initial experience of being appointed to this
case was, he said, it was worth it to have the opportunity to feel
the joy and warmth in that family. I am convinced that Gods hand was at
work in protecting Johnathan and his Mom. Later he added, I do
consider it a miracle. Legally, he said, he hopes that the case
would be published so that other expectant mothers in this difficult
situation would at least know that in the Slagles case an abortion did
not take place and that the effect was to have a totally healthy baby.
The Slagles have the same hope. There were no enemies in
this whole thing. Everybody was doing their job, Tom Slagle says.
But I think it has made a dramatic effect on these doctors. The next time
a woman walks into the hospital and shes pregnant, they wont tell
her to have an abortion.
He emphasizes that their decision at the time not to have an
abortion was his wifes, not that of a husband who is also a permanent
deacon in the Catholic Church. It wasnt my decision, he says,
It was her decision. She had the faith to say, it cant be.
Laurie Slagle, who is still undergoing treatment herself, says,
I knew hed be fine and I knew hed be a boy. I just figured
God wouldnt let him be a mess because theyd never let another
pregnant woman who needed the medical treatment have it if the child
suffered.
Of her own health, she says she believes that eventually her
cancer will disappear. Of course, you have your bad days, she says,
but when you do, you just pray a lot.
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