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By Gretchen Keiser
About a dozen priests from the archdiocese were among some 70
people from different denominations who met Oct. 24 to learn more about the
disease AIDS and to talk about the pastoral needs of AIDS patients and their
families.
Several of the priests interviewed later said that they have
already been asked to counsel AIDS patients in Atlanta hospitals or they had
encountered AIDS patients during regularly scheduled visits to Catholic
patients in the hospital.
In a little over a month...Ive had two deaths (from
AIDS), three patients and a fourth being readmitted to the hospital, said
Father Alan Dillman, who is pastor of Holy Spirit Church in northwest Atlanta
and a hospital chaplain at West Paces Ferry Hospital. Four of the six people
are Catholic, Father Dillman said, and the other two asked to see a priest
because they wanted to join the Catholic Church. For himself in a little over a
months time, Father Dillman said, awareness of AIDS and encounters with
it have moved from an academic question in the press to real flesh and
blood people.
The gap between publicity about AIDS and the reality of the
disease, whose initials stand for Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome, was one
of the focuses of the six-hour workshop called Pastoral Care and
AIDS. Speakers and members of the audience commented upon the fear
associated with AIDS in the public eye and the strong emotions generated by the
fact that the majority of AIDS victims are homosexual men, bisexual men or
intravenous drug users. However, the workshop also pointed out that AIDS has
infected hemophiliacs, who need constant blood transfusions, and others who
have contracted AIDS through contaminated blood products. It has also spread
into the heterosexual population through sexual contact with those who are
already infected, several speakers said. However, that is about one percent of
the reported cases, they said.
In Georgia, there have been 247 diagnosed cases of AIDS, and only
10 are women, according to Margaret Draganac, a registered nurse who has been
named AIDS Project Director for the state Department of Human Resources.
Fifty-two percent of those diagnosed have died.
The disease is spreading rapidly, speakers said. Ms. Draganac said
that 14,000 cases have been diagnosed in the United States at the present, but
that 40,000 cases are expected to be diagnosed by the end of 1986. The state of
Georgia is tenth in the nation of reported cases of AIDS, she said.
She emphasized that AIDS is a sexually transmissible disease or
one spread by contaminated blood, not an illness spread by casual contact.
Family studies where one person has contracted AIDS have not given any
indication that it is spread by casual contact, she said. In addition, she
acknowledged press reports that the virus believed to be involved in AIDS,
called HTLV-III, has been isolated in the saliva and tears of patients.
However, she said there have been no cases reported in Georgia or in the
U.S. transmitted this way. If the virus could be transmitted through
casual contact, we would be seeing a lot more heterosexual cases,
she said.
Another medical aspect of the disease emphasized by the speakers
is that AIDS is not a single illness, but a spectrum of illnesses and that a
person infected by the virus can become ill to a point anywhere along the
spectrum. At one end would be those who have been exposed to the virus and
exhibit no symptoms of illness and at the other end would be those dying from a
fully diagnosed case of AIDS.
Before reaching that extreme end of the spectrum, there are those
who are also dying from a variety of causes, but who may not be formally
diagnosed as having AIDS, the speakers said.
Social worker, Jody Wood, called the disease a roller
coaster for victims because they will swing from extreme sickness, near
death, to temporary recovery. Typically patients are in the hospital for long
periods of time and then discharged and readmitted, she said. Loneliness,
depression, isolation from friends and family, and severe financial problems
are common for those on the AIDS spectrum, she said. Often a family finds out
simultaneously that their son is dying and that he is homosexual, she said.
The basic need of AIDS patients for care was stressed by Father
Eric Carpine, O.F.M., who has visited patients at Grady Hospital in the last
six months. Father Carpine said the situation with the dying patients reminded
him of the needs of his mother when she was dying of cancer. In his eyes, she
was neglected until admitted to a special hospital in the area for the dying
where particular care and warmth was provided. The AIDS patients, he said, need
help eating their food, bathing and the need of visitors to listen to them.
Because of the size of Grady Hospital and the demands upon the staff, he said
that kind of close care from the staff is not possible and it has been the
family or friends of the patients who have ministered to them.
Father Carpine said he had visited about four AIDS patients in the
last six months who were either Catholic or had asked to see a priest. His
longest contact was with one young man who has since died, he said.
The dying man was most open. He talked about his past life,
what he used to do. He cried openly about the devastation of the disease,
Father Carpine said, but he never had any angry feelings toward God and
the church. He felt no anger or guilt, but he was totally devastated by the
disease. In addition to Father Carpine, the dying mans brother
regularly visited him and cared for him, the priest said. He also praised the
hospital staff at Grady and the chaplains staff who are ministering to
some nine or 10 people with AIDS at the moment. Although the needs of AIDS
patients are great, there is also confidentiality surrounding those who are ill
with AIDS and help is likely to come only through directed channels.
Asked what he thought the church could do, Father Carpine said,
I really dont know what we should do because it is a difficult
situation. I would hope the church and lay people would be most attuned to the
needs of the sick and dying persons.
He also said that he has attempted in his visits to allay
the feeling of the sick and dying that Im being
punished.
Instead, he said, as with all dying patients he has tried to
emphasize that suffering and sickness can be an offering to God.
Father Dillman said that his perception of the illness and of
those sick with AIDS has changed as he began to minister to the dying.
You have a person who is very sick and wants to talk to a
priest, he observed. The whole question of their sexuality, it was
a non-issue for me as soon as I went into the room, as soon as I got through to
talk to them.
Two of the people who asked to see him were baptized into the
Catholic Church, Father Dillman said.
He said that he saw part of the churchs ministry during the
AIDS crisis as being to destigmatize those who contract the
illness, not to treat people as if they are somehow beyond the
pale.
You are dealing with a person who needs ministry and love
and care, he said. They are there and they are suffering and the
Churchs ministry is going to be present to them.
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