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By Thea Jarvis
Those who trust in the Lord for help will find their
strength renewed. They will rise on wings like eagles; they will run and not
get weary; they will walk and not grow weak.
Isaiah 40:31.
The road to Eagle Ranch winds north on the interstate, past the
clutter and clamour of the Big Peach, up to Georgias hill country. When
you see the sign for Chestnut Mountain, youre almost there. A few turns
past the new winery, over Duncan Creek and the Mulberry River, and youre
face to face with a falling-down, red-roofed barn that seems at home being
nothing more than a travelers beacon in this land of horse pastures and
farms.
Beyond the barn, the ranch is well-hidden from the road. Driving
the home stretch, WFOXs radio tower is the only assurance that
youve got the right place. It reaches up to touch the sky behind the
ranch property -- all 180 acres of it -- and folks who live there call it a
guardian light.
Off the road, visitors get a taste of the space and scope of the
ranch. It is big and rolling and smells of pine trees and earth. When the
leaves fall, you can hear them hit the ground. Birdsong fills your ears and a
soft wind begins to cover the hard places in your heart.
When Eddie Staub came to Georgia three years ago, Eagle Boys
Ranch was a dream that had been dancing in his head since he left Auburn
University with a masters degree in Interdepartmental Physiology in 1981.
The oldest of three sons born in a stable upper middle-class Birmingham family,
Eddie knew he had been given more than his share of love and security.
It really bothered me that other children didnt have
the kind of chance I did, Staub recalled, sitting in one of the wood
paneled offices that serve as home and administrative headquarters for the
Eagle Ranch director. I saw how fortunate I was. When youre
six foot-five and single, with a Colgate smile and a pocketful of charm to
shield you from the ravages of rejection, you can do one of two things: become
a nighttime soap heartthrob or play David to the worlds Goliath. Staub
chose the latter.
He arrived on Atlantas doorstep with $20 and change and a
car packed with the few worldly possessions it was capable of holding. A little
over a year later, he and newly formed board of directors turned over $142,000
in cash for the 180 acres just one mile north of Gwinnett County.
I just begged, knocked on doors. Churches, individuals,
business groups gave donations. Seventy people gave us $1,000 a piece. The
largest gift was $10,000, recounted Staub, who admits he was one of the
poorest business risks in north Georgia.
Folks like Vince Dooley and Bill Curry jumped on board. Company
executives and political leaders lent support. Local Boys Scouts showed up to
help make signs. Singer Amy Grant volunteered to do public service
announcements. Much of what came in -- and is still coming -- was in the form
of personal endorsements as well as outright deliveries of everything from
kitchen tables to the ranch station wagon.
Looking back at the succession of minor miracles that surrounded
Eagle Ranch from its beginnings, Eddie Staub shrugs his shoulders and smiles
without a trace of ego. The Lord just provided. Less than a year
after closing on the land, Staub moved into the building he still calls home.
This spring, the first residence -- Faith Home -- was completed and filled with
the joyful noise of growing children and their two house parents, making sense
out of their lives that had somehow turned gray.
Were interested in boys who need a chance, said
Bruce Burch, Eagle Ranchs full-time counselor who shares the building
with Staub but works with the boys where theyre most comfortable --
walking the woods, fishing the ranchs 10-acre stocked lake, or just
rocking on the porch overlooking the athletic field. We see a broad range
of economic need, but theres a common need for a loving, secure
environment where these boys can pull their lives together.
Burch, who holds a masters degree in counseling psychology
and at 31 is just a year older than Staub, spent seven years working at the
Village of St. Joseph in Atlanta. At Eagle Ranch, his job is to share his
expertise with the boys who are abused, neglected, emotionally deprived,
orphaned, abandoned or otherwise in need of the security the ranch offers.
Counseling includes one individual and one group session each week
for every boy. Twice a month, parents are required to attend counseling
sessions with their child. The boys go home on a monthly visits and the
ultimate goal is to reunite the child with his family. While at the ranch, they
attend school in Hall County.
What I really enjoy is helping the kids feel better about
themselves, watching them become stronger from the inside out and seeing
families doing it too, Burch said. Because many of those who come to
Eagle Ranch have known only failure -- at school, at home, in friendships -- he
emphasized that We want to make sure we dont offer the boys another
failure. Boys who come to Eagle Ranch want to be there. After a
thorough interview with the staff, they get a first hand look at
the ranch, are introduced to the rules, and told what would be expected of them
during their stay. Parents are present at the interview, but in the end, it is
the child himself who makes the decision to live at Eagle Ranch.
How do they make their way to Chestnut Mountain? Burch estimates
that the staff receives some 20 calls a week from Departments of Family and
Childrens Services, the courts, parents, and young people themselves
seeking information about the program. Although calls come in from counties all
around Georgia and beyond -- the farthest south was Savannah, the farthest west
somewhere in Colorado -- most are from Atlanta north, according to
Burch.
In a system awash with institutions that make the headlines
because of the abuse they mete out to children who cant seem to make it
in the mainstream, professionals and families alike are finding hope and
encouragement in the Eagle Ranch approach.
Explaining the low keyed, good-humored sensitivity the staff
extends to residents and visitors alike, Bruce Burch breaks into a grin,
Its fun. Besides, martyrs arent attractive people for
children to model. So far, hes been pleased with the results.
Weve seen some pretty drastic improvements in some of the kids.
When they go home, the parents see it too, said Burch. Basically,
were trying to give the kids the security to reach out and try things
that maybe theyd been afraid to try before. This means living with
the rules, with chores, with discipline, as well as with love.
Currently, four young people ranging in age from 10 to 17 are
walking in the shadow of the Eagle. Four more are soon expected to fill the
halls of Faith Home. Construction has begun on the second residence, planned
for completion this year. It will likewise house eight boys.
A three-phase development plan that runs through 1991 calls for
two more homes, a gymnasium, a learning center, chapel and tennis courts.
Football-baseball fields and a picnic area/pavilion near the lake are recently
completed goals. No work begins unless materials have already been paid for or
donated.
We are debt-free, Eddie Staub confirms. We feel
its really important that we dont run ahead of the Lord.
Staub has done his homework. He is well organized and efficient
and knows when to ask others for help. For the livestock pastures, which the
boys tend each day, to the ranch shrubbery, donated by local nurserymen,
everything has been fine-tuned and carefully planned. Staubs preliminary
preparation for the Eagle undertaking included visiting Alabamas five top
boys homes, asking what they had done right and what they had done wrong.
He also served as assistant director of Alabamas Big Oak Ranch for a
year. His instincts told him only the best would do.
Our God demands excellence. He demands that things be done
right, said Staub. Mediocrity is not a part of it.
The search for excellence may be a factor in Staubs personal
makeup, but he lacks the overweening pride that would disrupt the vision. The
bottom line, he makes it clear, is following the Lords will and making a
proper home for some very special children.
Were really concerned with developing the whole
person, ministering to every part of that little boy, said Staub.
Our facility and surroundings are devoted to meeting those needs.
Invoking the passage from Isaiah 40:31, from which Eagle Ranch
derives its name, he gives form and substance to the dream he carries in his
heart. By developing these childrens lives in the proper
psychological, spiritual, mental, emotional and physical environment, they will
soar with the wings of eagles.
And, according to Eddie Staub, Theres no bird that
soars higher than that.
Families of boys who come to Eagle Ranch are asked to pay for
food and lodging, but no one is ever turned away because of an inability to
meet these costs. Sliding-scale payments are arranged when appropriate. For
more information about Eagle Ranch, contact Eddie Staub, P.O. box 7200,
Chestnut Mountain, GA 30502.
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