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By Thea Jarvis
This past spring when Scott and Eric Dietz were chasing elusive
black and white balls across the soccer fields of Marietta, their father Paul
wasnt always up in the stands watching their games. And when their
brother Danny finally went for the coveted orange belt in karate this year, he
had to do it without his number one fan -- his dad.
Dad, you see, is studying to be a deacon, and every other Saturday
since September he has been heading out for classes at St. Pius X High School
or Holy Cross Church, hitting the theology books and learning about the Church
he is to serve.
Has it been worth it?
Very much so, Paul Dietz responds readily when the
question arises. The 41-year old electrical engineer, who works for a
non-profit organization which serves standards of excellence for nuclear power
operations, realized that his familys schedule has been somewhat
disrupted, but I think its helped us grow. While many of
Dietzs 59 classmates in the current crop of diaconal candidates have a
few years on him -- the group includes retirees, grandfathers, and fathers of
college age or married children -- he is convinced that the commitment he and
his wife Janice have given to the three year program has made an impact on
their three boys.
They just accepted it. It got to be the normal
routine, he explained. What is more, signals received from their
offspring, aged 15, 13 and 11, indicate that the family is not just paying lip
service to the notion of the diaconate. When Janice was hesitating about
attending a recent parish prayer meeting recently, Dietz related, their oldest
son chided her that if she didnt go she wasnt holding up her end of
the bargain.
I think its helped them all, Paul Dietz
observed. They see us being committed and they try to do the same.
On his part, the Minnesota native, who moved his family to Georgia
five years ago, tries to be with them at other times when his
Saturday classes come up, aiming for quality time that his children seem to
understand and accept.
Dick Johnson agrees with his classmate about the overall effect
the diaconate program is having on his family. The 58-year-old father of seven,
now proud grandfather of six, claimed, Its enhanced our family
life, from our spiritual life to our everyday activity. He and his wife
Shirley find they are much more caring with each other since
becoming involved in the program. Because the Johnsons and the Dietzes are at
different stages in their families development, both have had to deal
with time constraints in different ways. Shirley Johnson was able to join her
husband in all but two of his Saturday sessions, which included study of the
Old and New Testament, ecclesiology, moral theology, liturgy, catechetics,
preaching, church history and spirituality. Janice Dietz, who began fall
classes with her husband Paul, had to drop out when spring rolled around and
the childrens involvements were priorities.
The hardest part was on my wife, Paul Dietz admitted,
remembering one frenetic Saturday when Janice drove all the way to Gainesville
for a soccer game and then raced back home for another one in Marietta.
If we went for three years without the summer break, wed all be
nuts, he laughed.
Both men found the studies they undertook to be challenging and
interesting. Dick Johnson, a Ph.D. who worked in public education for most of
his professional life and now serves as Assistant Superintendent of Catholic
Schools for the Archdiocese of Atlanta, said it was hard trying to keep
up with the reading and the work of it all. But I operate under pressure and I
didnt let it bother me.
Formerly an associate professor of engineering at the University
of Notre Dame, Paul Dietz put in several hours of study twice a week to keep
current with his diaconal studies. He enjoyed learning more about my
faith and being involved with men doing the same thing.
All 60 of the men currently enrolled in the archdiocesan diaconate
program finished up their studies with a weekend retreat held at the Village of
St. Joseph last month. Father Tom Fidelis from the Monastery of the Holy Spirit
in Conyers directed the retreat, which was attended by many of the wives of the
candidates as well. The day-long event included conferences, spiritual
direction, the sacrament of reconciliation and a closing liturgy formalizing
the end of the first year of diaconal preparation.
Following the retreat, Dick Johnson was looking forward to a
relaxing summer. I dont remember when I had a weekend off, he
said with a good-natured chagrin. As for next year, both he and Paul Dietz can
expect much of the same format as this past year, with a few goal-oriented
changes that should enhance the program.
Next October, the men will be officially admitted as
candidates, the first step in their journey toward the permanent
diaconate. This is roughly what was done as tonsure before
the reforms, explained Father Bill Hoffman, director of the Archdiocesan
Office of the Permanent Diaconate. In May, the candidates will be installed as
lectors during a closing retreat scheduled for Forrest Hills near
Dahlongea. The remaining steps, acolyte and deacon, will be taken the following
year.
Father Hoffman pointed out that next year he hopes to provide
opportunities for the men and their wives to get to know each other outside the
classroom environment. Theres so many of them that its
difficult to get together during Saturday classes, he realized this year.
He also expects to give the men more time to fine-tune their preaching, a task
they will be expected to undertake in their role as deacon.
Another goal for the 1985-86 program will be a closer focus on the
marriage relationship and its importance to the candidates overall
approach to the diaconate. Father Hoffman stressed that while two-thirds of the
candidates wives attended the Saturday classes, it became apparent that
many felt they were on the fringe of the program. We have to deal with
that, he said, emphasizing that a greater effort will be made to involve
the women more closely in the process.
This summer, the screening committee which carried out initial
interviews with men who applied for admission to the diaconate program will
again be visiting with candidates and their families. The committee, composed
chiefly of laypersons who assist and advise the director, will, in the future,
be augmented by a greater representation of minority Catholics. The
diaconate program currently includes six black Catholics, five Hispanics and
one Korean, Father Hoffman said. Broadening the base of the screening
committee will mean fuller representation for minorities, he feels.
In the coming months, Father Hoffman hopes his flock of candidates
will concentrate on acquiring some hands-on experience in their local parishes.
He has encouraged them to expand the range of their ministry, try new avenues
of service and get a feel for what options are theirs for long-range service.
We suggested a broad experience with a number of different
ministries rather than have the men lock themselves into one thing for nine or
10 months, he said. The object would be to help candidates zero in on an
area of church ministry that would be suitable for them.
Deacon Walt Bedard, who serves as associate director of the
Archdiocesan Office of Permanent Diaconate, hopes that the candidates will not
become too preoccupied with finding their niche in church service.
Their seems to a concern among the candidates about having
something to do. Thats an area thats got to be addressed. They
worry too much about that, he feels, adding that theyre all
into something, and its all good.
A major stumbling block for diaconate programs in any diocese, he
said, is the fact that its really new.
You cant go back in history and say this is what a deacon
does because each time youll find something different. In another hundred
years or so well know the answer to that question. For now, he
insists, I think its blossoming.
Both Paul Dietz and Dick Johnson have a fairly good idea of what
they would like to do when they become deacons, although each has expressed a
willingness to be open to the needs of the Church at the time of their
ordination.
Since Dietz is the only diaconal candidate from his home parish of
Holy Family in Marietta, he expects to continue his work in adult education
there. Currently Church chairman of the parish board of education, he believes
that the diaconate lends more credibility to the service he renders
to the Church.
Johnson likewise plans to continue in his present work.
Im fully committed, he said of his link to Catholic education
in Georgia. This job is a ministry, not just a profession.
Without ordination to the diaconate, he reasoned, his work could
be open-ended not necessarily a commitment. There would always be the
back door you can slide out. I look forward to that commitment.
Johnson, who, like Paul Dietz and many of his classmates has
looked forward to entering the diaconate program for some time, is enthusiastic
about his candidacy thus far.
Its a great renew program, he reflected, and
a tremendous asset to the archdiocese. Theres an awful lot of
talent out there. We just need to spot it, train it and use it.
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