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By Rita McInerney
Chrissie Eckles is an outgoing young woman who sees herself as
part of two different worlds, the world of the hearing and the world of the
deaf. Im lucky I can share with both worlds.
Luck has had very little to do with the fact that Chrissie, who
will be 21 next month, has just completed her sophomore year at Emory where she
is majoring in biology and maintains a B average. Her struggle to overcome the
handicap of silence is a day to day one. The Marietta coed has been profoundly
deaf since her birth.
Her mother, Barbara Eckle, elected not to have an abortion after
contracting German measles in her third month of pregnancy with Chrissie in
1963. Because of the danger of the rubella strain of measles to the unborn,
abortions were permitted for women exposed to them if two doctors consented.
The Eckles did not go for the abortion. The couple, natives of Jamaica, were
living in New York City at the time. They now live in Marietta where they are
parishioners at St. Anns Church.
When Chrissie was born the doctors gave her a clean bill of
health. It was not until months later that Barbara and Winston Eckle realized
that their baby girl was not responding to sounds.
After three months of testing, a medical team at St. Lukes
Hospital Center in New York diagnosed Chris as moderately deaf, a short time
later revising the hearing loss to profound. The Eckles began the awesome task
of motivating their daughter. Through auditory stimulation and training they
were determined that Chris would learn to use her 10 percent residual hearing
to develop speech.
Though saddened by the handicap their daughter had been born with,
they began, with the help of a young and enthusiastic audiologist, their long
and painstaking effort. At the time they did not know that only from five to 10
percent of all children born deaf develop intelligible speech.
The Eckles learned to be firm and patient when Chrissie rejected
her hearing aid and even tried to take it apart. The strange device had changed
their little girls silent world into a noisy one where none of the sounds
had meaning to her. Their concentration was on talking, every situation an
opportunity for Chrissie to see moving lips; dressing her, on the street, at
the zoo. Games helped her associate and put things together. Action pictures
were cut and pasted in her experience book. She began to learn that
lip movements go along with the sounds of voices. Then she would try to make
those sounds even though she would never hear some of them.
Her unused vocal muscles had to be strengthened and controlled.
She had to be taught to drink through a straw, to blow out candles, acts most
children learn as they learn to talk. Blowing with feathers, paper, dandelion
flowers combined the sense of touch and sight.
Auditory training was continuous. Sounds of airplanes, an
ambulance or a police car were always called to her attention. Living near a
hospital and fire station in New York City made loud sounds a part of everyday
experience.
Years later, after their move to Georgia, Barbara detailed their
long struggle as Chrissies first teachers in a paper she wrote for a
motivation class. She is a social worker in the Lassiter and Sprayberry high
schools in Cobb County.
Chrissie attended the Bank Street School, a non-traditional
training school for teachers in New York from her sixth through her twelfth
year when the Eckles moved to Marietta. Her mother considers the school an
excellent experience. Chrissie gained confidence during those years despite the
occasional cruelty of classmates, one who chided her for not learning sign
language or others who just kept their distance from the girl who couldnt
hear.
By the time the family moved south in 1976, Chrissie had decided
she was going to be aural and was teaching herself sign language with the help
of the encyclopedia. When the Cobb County school system offered for the first
time, a class in sign language the entire family enrolled, parents, Chrissie,
younger sister, Mimi, 19, and brother John, 16.
The children did much better than we did, says Barbara
Eckle. It was an opportunity, she adds, for them to meet other families who had
children with hearing problems.
While Chrissie was a student at Walton High School, she entered an
essay contest sponsored by the national pro-life magazine, March For
Life. Her essay was among the winners, the only one from the South, and
was printed in the magazine in 1980. Her contribution begins:
Im pro-life because I was one of the individuals whose
parents had the legal right to have an abortion because my mother was exposed
to German measles. Even though I was born profoundly deaf Ive enjoyed
life as a normal person would. Had I not been born I wouldnt have known
life or what it could offer me.
Enjoying life has included the distinction of graduating with
honors (fifth in the class) from Lassiter High School in 1983. She
couldnt hear her name called out, her mother says. They
worked out a sign so she would know when to come down. At graduation she
received a scholarship awarded by the Alexander Graham Bell Foundation to a
profoundly deaf student completing the regular high school course.
Enjoying life has meant being accepted at the University of
Georgia and Olgethorpe University and deciding on Emory after giving some
thought to enrolling at the renowned college for the deaf, Galludet in
Washington, D.C.
The lifetime awareness and acceptance of the fact that everything
is harder for her is her guide at college. In each of her classes she tries to
have notetakers who give her copies of their notes. But along with that I
try to keep up with the work before the lecture. Its just a matter of
being prepared, I just have to be extra prepared, I have to study more.
Concentration on study doesnt prevent her from enjoying dorm
life. she lives in a specially equipped dorm and shares a large room , kitchen
and bath with two other students. While she doesnt need the special
facilities for the handicapped, the kitchen gives her a chance to cook, one of
the several skills of her independent lifestyle.
Chrissie, considering herself an in-between person
knows the necessity of talking. She has found that signs alone cut you
off from speaking groups. There are other ways that her handicap shuts
her off so she constantly looks and finds strengths both from within and from
exterior sources to break down the barriers.
I try to set an example for others. People can do well if
they put their minds to it, Chrissie says of her achievements. She set an
example last summer tutoring children with learning disabilities at East Side
Elementary School in Marietta.
This summer she will be taking a physics class at Emory, a chance
to concentrate on a more difficult subject. She must always work to get the
hard courses out of the way, her mother says. Chrissie realizes this but
nevertheless is planning a career in dentistry. Motivation and determination,
her parents and her own, have brought success so far. There is nothing to
suggest that this goal will be out of reach for her. |