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By Gretchen Keiser
Maria Picanso, a petite dark-haired student from the University of
Lowell, Massachusetts, was perched at the peak of the tin-roofed Georgia
mountain house. She had a long-handled mop in her hand and was using it like a
massive paint brush to swab a shiny aluminum paint on the rusting metal roof.
Below her, halfway down the slanted side, Bill Ward -- wearing a
Rolling Stones T-shirt -- had a large canister of paint and another mop. They
had just about finished repainting one side of Mrs. Viona Martins roof.
Looking up at them from her front yard, Mrs. Martin shaded her
eyes with her hands against the late morning sun. She wore a sunbonnet and an
apron over her print dress and as she walked about the yard, she gently reached
for a visitors arm to steady her gait. Her husband died about a year ago
at the age of 94 and Mrs. Martin, who is 83, was hospitalized last May, which
has slowed her down a bit.
The doctor said, Dont you go home and start
splitting wood and driving your garden plow, she recalled of her
release from the hospital.
Because she needed some help, Mrs. Martin, who has lived in this
house on a dirt road outside of Dahlonega, Ga. for over 50 years, got to meet
and talk to the Lowell students, who came to Georgia in January on a helping
project led by the Universitys Catholic chaplain.
Im enjoying them, Mrs. Martin said emphatically,
of her newfound friends and helpers.
I had to show them all about my stove, she said of the
wood-burning stove which heats her simple house and gives her a place to cook.
How I patch it up, keep it going, she continued. I dont
reckon theyve ever seen one before.
While the others painted, Jane Astle, another student, kept Mrs.
Martin company, working a puzzle with her and listening to her stories of her
husband and family and of how she managed with her garden and the wood neatly
stacked out back. The teams visit had also let Mrs. Martin know that she
could receive some help from the government to pay for the cost of heating her
home, even though she simply heats it with her wood stove.
This was a small part of a week-long visit to the Dahlonega and
Dawson county areas of Georgia by the students -- 13 in all -- who drove from
Massachusetts in vans with Father Fred Guthrie and Joe LaBelle, a lay minister
of the Boston archdiocese who assists Father Guthrie in campus ministry.
The visits to Georgia began five years ago through the friendship
between Father Guthrie and Glenmary Father Bob Poandl who was then pastor of
St. Lukes in Dahlonega. Over the five years nearly 100 Massachusetts
students have come to Georgia during this semester break, staying with
parishioners in Dahlonega and Dawson County, working with those in need in the
area, and -- in the process -- taking part in an unusual kind of working
retreat.
In the Dahlonega area, St. Lukes parishioner Roger Roy
coordinated the students projects finding families who needed help
through the Department of Family Services in Dahlonega and through the network
of the parish. Students split and chopped wood, delivering it to the homes of
elderly people, like Mrs. Martin, who use it to heat their homes. Another older
couple in the parish had a donated rug rolled up on their front porch for a
year, which some of the young men in the group were able to lay for them.
Meanwhile, in neighboring Dawson County, St. Lukes newly
formed mission of Christ the Redeemer in Dawsonville took about half the
visiting students under their wing. While eight students stayed at the home of
Jim and Rita Lowe, projects were lined up with the help of Dawsonvilles
energy conservation program, senior citizens center, the Dawson County
Health Department and Department of Family and Childrens Services.
In the Dawson County area, the students helped to winterize the
homes of the elderly, putting up plastic storm windows to seal out the cold.
They also cut and delivered firewood, worked as volunteers in a health clinic
and in the ambulance service and cleaned the houses of elderly people who
couldnt manage without help.
While some stayed in the dormitory at the Lowes
and others with the Porcelli family in Dahlonega, they gathered every night at
the home base Catholic Center next to St. Lukes for Mass, a
community meal, games and relaxation. They began the week staying one day and
night at the resort lodge at Forrest Hills, owned by St. Lukes
parishioners Frank and Darlene Kraft.
Basically, I see the whole experience in terms of a
retreat, said Father Guthrie, a sandy-haired, youthful priest who was out
each day with the students, talking to the Georgia Mountain people they were
meeting. You always get away from your own place for a retreat.
The Georgia experience brings the students, some of whom have
never left Massachusetts before, into a different culture, a different
value experience, he said.
Out of Lowells 9,300 student body, those who opt to come on
the Georgia trip are already risk takers who are interested in
helping other people, he observed. But on the trip they learn something
profoundly new about what it means to be the church, Father Guthrie said.
They bring back a wholly different attitude in terms of
Church, he said. They reach out to others. This sets a mentality
that permeates the whole Catholic community at Lowell.
While the group had started out from Massachusetts as virtual
strangers, knowing at most one or two of the other students, by the last night
in Georgia they were deeply at home, clustering in groups of twos and threes on
the floor and couches of the Lowes home for a final pot-luck dinner and
farewell. The jokes were circulating about who in the group had been voted
most weird, and second and third runner-up.
Weve all become so close, said Beth McCabe, a
junior who made the decision to join the group at the last minute. You
just couldnt imagine the trip without each person because theyve
each added so much.
Asked what the highlight of the week had been, she said,
emphatically, Meeting the people.
Earlier that afternoon, she had been sitting in animated
conversation with an 88 year-old Appalachian woman, after helping to deliver a
stack of firewood to the woman and her 92-year-old husband. A blackened pot on
the wood-burning stove held two squirrels cooking, the woman Melrose told her
visitors.
When Beth asked how to cook squirrel, Mrs. Lomax provided the
recipe, pausing at the end to say, You can fry them just like you do a
rabbit.
You know how to cook a rabbit, dont you? she
asked Beth.
Im from Boston! Beth replied. I dont
know how to cook a rabbit!
Lord have mercy, Mrs. Lomax replied. Leave her
here with me. Ill teach her how to cook!
With the wonder of that encounter and others shining on her face,
Beth said that she had seen it as a real challenge to come on the
trip to Georgia.
I think so often faith and love can be talked about, but
there arent enough chances to express it.
Two of the young men, Bill Provencher and Joe Bernier, were in
Georgia for the second time, veterans of last years trip. Maria Picanso,
who said that she had never been this far from her hometown before, described
in her joy in slowing down and focusing upon the people she was meeting. The
elderly people seemed to be surrounded by so much beauty and simplicity and yet
they were very lonely, she observed. The highlight was to listen to people, she
said, to be able to forget everything and enjoy who you were with at that
moment, to give them the time, to let them talk about who they are, to let them
express their sorrow, to laugh.
For their hosts in Dahlonega and Dawson County, the visit was also
very meaningful. The fledgling community of Christ the Redeemer in Dawsonville
-- twelve families strong -- took the students to breakfast on Sunday morning
and hosted the farewell dinner and Mass. Men in the community, including Jim
Lowe and Al Gardella, worked alongside the students at wood splitting and
chopping and coordinating the details of the days. After a week of fixing
coffee and sandwiches for her new family of eight, Rita Lowe was
unabashedly crying after the farewell Mass, while the students teased her.
Others at the Mass commented upon the high quality of the students work
and how much that meant to people in Dahlonega and Dawson County, especially
those who had been unfamiliar with the Catholic church.
You dont know it, said pastor Father John
Henley, but youve been preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
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