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By Mary Beth Marino
There is a wonderful new teenage craze going on. It
has nothing to do with punk hairstyles, designer jeans or idols like Rod
Stewart and Boy George. It also has nothing to do with drugs, alcohol, runaways
or teen suicide.
Nor has it anything to do with the killer or
nerds people.
The craze addresses the large number of teenagers who are involved
in volunteer work through their parishes, schools and families.
The trend has grown over the last several years. Teens have
discovered the rewards of helping others while gaining positive feelings of
self-esteem for themselves.
Teen depression and suicides are a growing concern. But there are
several alternatives that can offer growth spiritually, intellectually and
physically, and give meaning to the turbulent life of teenagers.
Teen Volunteerism has surfaced in the Atlanta area in
growing proportions.
Some parishes have Fast-A-Thons that enable teens to fast for
several hours over a weekend and have their hours matched financially by
sponsors. The proceeds go to feed the poor. Another popular event is called
Run-For-Hunger where the teens again, compete to feed the poor.
Blood drives are always a huge success. While helping the parish
to staff the project, teens can draw satisfaction from knowing they are
contributing their time to a worthwhile cause.
Five parishes have formed one large group that ministers to
nursing homes, hospitals, schools and parties as clowns. This group called the
Heartlights are also teaching others the art of clown ministry.
Lets not forget all the commendable efforts of Cub Scouts,
Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts that have had pre-teens and teens involved in
service to the community for years!
There are also several hundred teenagers who are involved in the
formation of lock-ins or weekends. These projects
consist of planning spiritual retreats for other teenagers.
The hospitals account for a large number of teen volunteerism. St.
Josephs hospital alone fosters a program where the volunteers
are literally contributing hundreds of hours devoted to patient care, fund
raising, and planning socials for employees or patients.
The teens at St. Judes parish prominently stand out as a
group that has taken on the challenge of volunteerism full speed ahead!
Sixteen teenagers ranging from 15-18 years of age, volunteer their
time to work with the handicapped.
The SPRED (Special Religious Education and Ministry with
Handicapped persons) program involves teens teaching the handicapped about God
through study and personal sharing.
Under the supervised expertise of Toni Miralles, the co-ordinator
of the SPRED program, the teaching teens are growing spiritually and
emotionally and expressing personal appreciation for their own physical and
mental well-being.
I had a teen who felt he wanted to work with the
handicapped, Ms. Miralles said. However, once he learned he would
be working with a cerebral palsy victim, he became concerned with his
capabilities in handling the situation. Part of his help entailed changing
diapers. His older sister encouraged him to at least give it a try,
and offered her assistance. In just a couple of hours, the boy was not only
changing diapers, but was feeding the handicapped person as well. The teen and
the handicapped boy are now close friends and good for each other, Toni
Miralles explained.
There are 28 handicapped members at St. Judes. They come
from various areas around the archdiocese to participate in this special
program.
The teens are paired up in a one-on-one situation. They utilize
twelve different books to teach classes gearing the choice of material to the
personal need of the handicapped individual.
The teens also keep a weekly journal dialoguing the lesson they
taught, and how the student responded. They also send home an update of the
days lesson so the parents can reinforce the lesson at home.
The teenage teachers emphasize prayer and friendship with
God, Ms. Miralles said.
In addition to teaching on a weekly basis, the group plans a
liturgy every month, goes on a big retreat weekend once a year, and has a
Valentines dance every year.
The Catholic High Schools are also giving their students every
opportunity to learn service ministry at a young age.
Marist High Schools Campus Ministry Program,
under the associate directorship of Bro. Jack OBrien, works with the
seventh, eighth and ninth graders in a program called Damascus.
The Damascus program that I envision is a program that tries
to recognize students as they actually are, Bro. OBrien explained.
He further added that the key is to approach the student at the right time, in
the right way, and with the right dimension of the Christian message.
I believe faith is revealed primarily in the real world in
everyday circumstances. God tells us far more about himself in the little
things in life than in all the great sermons. Very simply stated, faith
involves us in a personal relationship with our God, Bro. OBrien
said.
The first phase of the Damacus group encourages students to know
themselves
then make them aware of the needs of others. The theme of the
group is appropriately addressed, out of service. The idea is to
reach out in service beyond the Marist High School community. They have worked
at the Georgia Retardation Center; St. Francis soup kitchen; Egleston Hospital
for children; they have had food and clothing drives and made valentines for
the Mental Retardation Center; they bag popcorn for some 300 sports enthusiasts
who attend a small get-together while waiting for the parking lot to clear
after a home game; they stay busy!
The students also attend movies together to foster values and
learn through the entertainment media. They attend Holy Thursday Chrism Mass
and annually plan a lenten prayer service.
A look at St. Pius X High Schools Pastoral Ministry program
finds a unique approach in their outreach of prompting teen volunteerism. The
Base Community Program under the direction of Paul Ennis, assistant
director of Pastoral Ministry, said approximately 310 students visit host
homes every other Sunday evening. Geographically, the base draws from the
metro Atlanta area and extends as far as Jonesboro, Marietta and Kennesaw.
After every third meeting, the entire base community meets to share together
and celebrate. A pot luck supper adds to their evening. The purpose of the base
community is to discuss faith, develop friendships, discuss social and moral
issues and attend home worship service. Often, the host homes invite a guest
speaker to attend.
There are two priorities on the agenda this year for the pastoral
ministry group at Marist. First, to minister in the local parishes and not just
the school; secondly, to develop a peer ministry program which involves teens
trained for thirty-six hours in the art of communication skills. These teen
ministers will then help the other teens who have problems with drug and
alcohol abuse, or peer pressure.
All of these proposed plans and projects do not account for the
ongoing work that the teens are doing, such as: working at the soup kitchens,
making sandwiches for shelters, working at the senior citizens homes and
childrens hospital. There are also four major projects they participate
in. They include: corresponding with the American soldiers in Lebanon, offering
child care to those who lack funds, and they run a food drive and do fund
raising for the crisis pregnancy program at the archdiocese.
Faith is more than praying, its action, stresses
Paul Ennis. Its important to keep the teens informed with social issues.
A spirit conference allows the opportunity to discuss hunger, abortion, and
aging
then we relate these issues to the metro Atlanta area and discuss
alternatives, Mr. Ennis explained.
This widespread craze of teenage volunteerism shows that
teens are doing some great things while growing spiritually, emotionally and
physically. They are to be commended for reaching out in an attempt to pave the
road for a richer, more compassionate future generation. |