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By Father Bill Hoffman
(Father Bill Hoffman, director of the Hispanics Apostolate, grew
up in Gainesville, Georgia where Monsignor Manning served as pastor for many
years.)
The priests who have been stationed in Gainesville have, all of
them, had difficulties in leaving. Not one wanted to leave, and Monsignor
Michael Manning was no exception.
He spent 14 years there, beginning in 1945. Before that he was in
Thomasville, and afterward in Decatur.
My family moved to Gainesville from Tallahassee in 1950, and
remained there during the rest of Father Mannings tour. I would like to
share some memories of those years.
There were the Saturday night confessions that my family went to
every month or so. He was always there, listening, keeping up with us as
individuals and ever so gently encouraging us. He was there always
there.
My mother died in 1952 and he became a constant visitor,
especially after my father married a widow from the parish in 1953. He was the
one, I believe, who introduced them and saw things to a happy conclusion.
Those home visits occurred usually at the hour of the evening
meal. Meals at our home bordered on a circus. Someone was always getting ribbed
about something or the other, and he enjoyed it all. He had a quiet wit and
loved the banter that went on.
I still remember a pewter water pitcher that made frequent trips
around the table, and somehow Father Manning was always in the center of the
traffic. He could hardly eat for all of the passing of plates and the water
pitcher.
His favorite foods were, as I recall, limited to meat and
potatoes, but he accommodated himself easily to our fare.
Father Mannings brogue delighted the people of Gainesville.
Many of us were more fascinated by how he said it than by what he said.
While a co-op student at Tech, I worked for a quarter at the
Atlantic Steel Company, doing swing shift work in the lab. To help pass the
time on the midnight shift, Father Manning allowed me to borrow some of his
books. They got me thinking more about religion, and, with the help of two
seminarians who had just moved to Gainesville, the brothers Beltran, led to my
entering the seminary. The only priest I knew at that time was Father Manning
and I wanted to be a priest like him.
For six months after I decided to study for the priesthood, Father
Manning met with me a couple of times a week to work through Latin grammar. On
my vacations from St. Bernard, he would always ask how it was going.
Once I wanted to kid him a bit, and told him that some Jesuits had
been by the seminary trying to recruit members with the slogan, Join the
Jesuits and see the world. He believed me and became very agitated that
such a thing should be permitted, but relaxed when I told him that I was just
joking.
In those days, a priest had to fast until he had celebrated the
last of the days Masses. During the summer, he would begin in Gainesville
with an early Mass, then go to Toccoa and eventually to Lakemont. Once I drove
a visiting priest around on Sunday, and believe me, it is hard to maintain a
pleasant disposition under those circumstances. But he always seemed to manage
it. He was always a gentleman.
Father Manning was the only priest I have ever seen wearing a
white suit, and, even at that, I saw it only once. It was my high school
graduation, in the gymnasium, at 8 p.m. It was in the low 90s outside, closer
to 95 degrees inside. There he was, dressed in a white suit! Since I have not
seen another priest dressed that way, Father Manning will always occupy a
singular spot in my visual memory.
All of us who knew him have our favorite memories of him. We were
all blessed by his presence. May he rest in peace. |