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By Gretchen Keiser
A little boy from South Korea will soon be flying home with a
strange collection of memories of Georgia and a heart that is working well for
the first time in his short life.
Scrambling around the Riverdale home of Ray and Pat McMahon,
little Kim seems the irrepressible two-year-old in every way. But only a few
weeks earlier, when he arrived in Georgia as part of a medical rescue mission,
his body was contorted and his skin color was bluish, the McMahons said.
The little boy had a severely damaged heart, with a misplaced
aorta and holes in the pulmonary artery and two of the ventricles, or heart
chambers, Mrs. McMahon said. He was brought to Georgia by an organization
called Heal the Children of Spokane, Wash., as a last and somewhat desperate
measure to save his life. Without surgery, Mrs. McMahon said, he was not
expected to live more than a few months.
Even with the open heart surgery available at Henrietta Egleston
Hospital in Atlanta, there was great danger that Kim would not survive the
operation, Mrs. McMahon said.
Knowing this, the McMahons opened their home to Kim in February,
becoming his family while he underwent the rigorous surgery and recovery period
and coping with the emotional needs of a little boy far from home and
everything, even the language, he knew.
Mrs. McMahon is president of a local organization called Ours of
Georgia, a collection of people interested in childrens
welfare, she explained. Their interest has extended over many years and
involves a deep personal commitment on the part of those working for Ours.
The McMahons, for example, brought their desire to be Kims
foster home to a family conference with their adopted son, Stephen, who is 17
years old, and their two adopted daughters, Kim Chi, 12, and Cathy, nine, who
came to the family in 1974 from a Vietnamese orphanage when they were 20 months
and four months old.
The family agreed, wholeheartedly, to be Kims home for a few
months, and their support proved critical in the days ahead. While little Kim
was in intensive care and Mrs. McMahon was staying at his bedside, Ray McMahon
came down with the flu at home, they said. The McMahon children rallied and
kept the household going until Pat was able to come home.
Under the organization of Dr. Moo Hee Lee, a pediatric
cardiologist who is Korean, a doctor at Henrietta Egleston hospital donated his
services for the open heart surgery for Kim and another boy, six-year-old Dong
Myong Kim, who stayed with another board member of Ours. The children were the
darlings and the worry of the Egleston staff, Mrs. McMahon said, especially as
Dong Myong Kim immediately showed an interest in packing his bag and finding
his way back to Korean.
In addition to the donated medical services, the families were
showered with concern and care by members of the Korean community in the
metropolitan area, who volunteered to be interpreters for the children at any
time of day or night and to bring Korean food to help fight the homesickness
that was inevitable. The first call to an interpreter came at three
oclock in the morning the first night when the six-year-old had a demand
no one could understand, Pat McMahon recalled. He wants to take a
bath, the interpreter said.
Three members of the Korean community spent nights at the hospital
with the children and several closed down their businesses for the day to be
available to help, Mrs. McMahon said. Happily, the surgery was successful for
both children. The older boy returned home to Korea in late March and Kim
Myong-Shin was expected to go home this week.
Mrs. McMahon reflected that it was going to be hard to let go, as
Kim raced around, looking the picture of health and energy. His English phrases
were punctuated with the one hes heard the most: Such a good boy,
Kim, such a good boy.
The experience has clearly been demanding as well as rewarding.
Its a big responsibility. You have somebody elses
child, Pat McMahon said, remembering how she looked at the paper the
little boys family had signed, giving the McMahons legal power should
anything happen to him while he was with them. The paper spelled out all they
should do if little Kim died, Mrs. McMahon said. I sat here and
cried.
Now the McMahons are wondering whether Kims parents and his
five-year-old brother will recognize the exuberant toddler whos coming
home to Korea. Its been very rewarding, Ray McMahon said.
Youve only got to look at him and its all worth it.
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