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By Monsignor Noel C. Burtenshaw
So Joseph set out from the town of Nazareth in
Galilee and traveled up to Judea to the town called Bethlehem, since he was of
David's house and line. In order to be registered together with Mary, who was
with child. While they were there, the time came for her to have her child and
she gave birth to a son, her first-born. She wrapped him up in swaddling
clothes, and laid him in a manger because there was no room for them at the
inn.
There is room at the inn if you go to St.
Bartholomew's. It is a community out on LaVista Road. It's an Episcopal
community that, this year, is challenging itself to be very (pardon the
expression) non-Episcopalian.
That is how they put it to me, anyway.
Star-starter of the project, Martha Evans, said, with a bright twinkle.
"Episcopalians and Catholics are not into shelter programs very much. We wanted
to try this one."
Two weeks ago, just as winter came tumbling in,
St. Bartholomew's opened its night shelter project. There are others in the
city, most are for men, some are for women. There are none for families -- men,
women and children. That, decided St. Bartholomew's, was the project they would
attempt. It would be an inn -- closed perhaps everywhere else -- but not at St.
Bartholomew's.
It began with the involvement of Martha Evans down
in the Central Presbyterian night shelter. She helped last year and wanted to
do more this year. "We should be taking care of Christ when he comes to our
door," says this gentle lady.
Her words were not lost on Bob Bevis, long a
supporter of shelters in the city. "Open your own," he said. Ed Loring, head of
the Open Door shelter also encouraged her. Martha told him she would like to
help families. "Do it," he said. "It is our greatest need."
So too it is.
Men and women can somehow find shelter from the
cold. A little money will get a bed with the Salvation Army, the Union Mission
and other night shelters. But there is nowhere a family can go, to be sheltered
and be together.
What do they do? They find vacant shacks, old
cars, darkened doorways. They find friendly policemen who turn away to let them
use benches in the bus station, until the bus company complains. Then the
father goes to jail; the mother and children get temporary housing. The battle
for survival on the streets continues. At night, the battle can sometimes be
lost.
So, Martha asked her church. They agreed. "I told
Ed Loring that we were maybe too far out from the city," says Martha. "But he
said that would be no problem."
"Volunteers will be your problem," said Ed.
He was not altogether right. The support from the
church was good. The money was donated. Five little Sunday school classrooms
were cheerily converted and the project was ready. The classrooms are given
back to the school on Sundays.
"We put mattresses on the floor, sent word around,
but on the first night, nobody came." It was the only night they had vacancies.
"It breaks our heart," says Martha. "But we do turn families away." Genuinely,
sometimes there is no room at this inn.
The families are asked to be in St. Bartholomew's
by 7 p.m. A hot meal is served at that time. Martha had two volunteers helping
with the food. Angie Powell was busy welcoming the families and Anita
Montelione, who is leaving her job as a college math teacher to go into the
inner city work, was arranging the hot meal of chicken and vegetables.
We sat down to dinner together and talked about
our day. One man was delighted he had found a job. He was proud that now he had
some money for the family. Another, who is in construction, tells the horror
story of hurrying after a job only to find 300 in line for that one position.
"Sometimes there are 1,000 in line," he grins.
The women feed the children. An eight-month-old
infant sits in a high chair watching his mother's plate of steaming food.
Little Charles, about two years old, wanders into the kitchen and points to a
jar to tea. Martha Evans pours it for him, to his delight. "Say please," she
says. He mumbles it and is gone with eyes fixed on a donated cake. How family
it all is, you think.
It is a scene of home. That is what St.
Bartholomew's has become for those families. For this night, there will be no
worry about the long, uncertain hours that are ahead. They are at home.
After dinner, it is time for talk around a cup of
coffee. There is noise from the playing children, but it is happy, comfortable
noise. Soon, they are ordered to bed. Mothers then gather in corners. Sweaters
and clothes are admired. One washes her hair and then sits while the expert
hands of another shear off the locks. They fall in a black heap onto the floor.
Martha looks on. "I really like your hair cut like
that, pretty, it suits you." I take my camera to shoot the scene. One lady
objects. She would rather I not do so. It is a moment to remember. They are
here as guests of St. Bartholomew, but, at this moment, they are at home and I
am a guest among them. For now, I put the camera away.
Not all of St. Bartholomew's parishioners are
pleased with the project. "The poor are not always pleasant to deal with," says
Martha. "It is hard sometimes to accept them. But we look at Chapter 58 of the
prophet Isaiah and are reminded of the joy the Lord gives to those who house
the poor. We have prayed about that chapter. It keeps us going."
Angie and Anita are the volunteers who will stay
with the families until morning. In turn, one will sleep, the other will stay
awake, watching over the safety and the needs of the guest-families.
At 7 a.m., they must be out. "We give them a light
breakfast and two bus tokens each. One takes them into town and the other
brings them back again tonight."
Some will find a job. Others will not. The women
and children go to the public library and stay warm. Hopefully the children
will be on their best behavior. If they make noise or play loudly, they are
asked to leave.
Mostly, during the day, they will be unable to
eat. "There is a good meal over at St. Luke's," one father tells me. "But they
can't get over there. They have no many and it is too far to walk. They won't
eat 'till evening when the bus takes us back to St. Bartholomew's."
There are hundreds of families who melt into the
raw cold of the city each night. Many of them are abused. They are often the
helpless prey of the unscrupulous and the unmerciful. St. Bartholomew's can
only house five little family units. But they do it wholeheartedly, lovingly
and with unconditional welcome.
Those fortunate enough to experience that shelter
will long remember it. They will remember that this particular inn did indeed
have room.
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