|
By Msgr. Noel C. Burtenshaw
Her brother has just been named archbishop of the
largest archdiocese in the country. Is she surprised? "Well, yes. Of course, I
certainly am. But I know he's brilliant, a very hard worker. And he's very
humble. It's wonderful."
Sounds just like a little sister.
That's what Elaine Addison is. The little and only
sister of Archbishop Joseph L. Bernardin, the man chosen by Pope John Paul II
to succeed Cardinal John Cody in the Archdiocese of Chicago. From her home in
Columbia, SC, Elaine spoke to us as doorbells rang, neighbors called and
reporters from Chicago dailies sat in her front room. ("I think they are going
to Atlanta, do you want to speak with them?")
Elaine, who is married to James H. Addison, an
engineer, talked about growing up in Columbia along with her only brother. "My
father was a stone cutter," says Elaine, "who came from Italy along with my
mother and they settled here. Joe was four years older than I. He went to
Catholic grade school but to public high school in Columbia.
"He was a good student and, since my father died
when we were both young, Joe sort of took care of things around the home. He
really wanted to be a doctor and even went to pre-med at the University of
South Carolina. But, I believe, a job he took at the hospital one summer
changed all that."
The hospital mentioned by Elaine Addison is
Providence Catholic Hospital in Columbia. "After working there," continues
Elaine, "he decided that there was something else he should do. He just told my
mother and me that he would go to the seminary. That's how it happened."
There were other jobs for the young student in
those days, too. "He worked at a drycleaners one summer," remembers Elaine,
"but when he began his studies at the seminary he would come home and work in
the Catholic Summer Camp run by the Diocese of Charleston."
"He was not very athletic," says Elaine. "He was
just another young man growing up, a lot of fun at times and always a straight
A student."
Elaine and husband, James, who plan to be in
Chicago for the installation, have four children. "Joe baptized them all," says
Elaine. "There is Anna Maria, who is now married, James, 20 years old, Joe
(called after his uncle), 16 and Angela, who is 12."
Mrs. Maria Bernardin, mother of Elaine and the
archbishop, now lives in Cincinnati and is "very happy for her son's
appointment."
"However, she will miss her friends in
Cincinnati," says Elaine, "when she moves to Chicago. She has been with him in
Cincinnati for many years, maintaining her own home. So she will do likewise in
Chicago."
Elaine and her family would see the archbishop
when they paid a visit to Mrs. Bernardin. "He is on the go all the time," says
Elaine. "But it is good to have time together on those occasions. I'm looking
forward to seeing him again soon."
When her then-38-year-old brother was appointed as
auxiliary bishop to Atlanta in 1966, Elaine was at home resting with her
four-day-old son, Joseph. "I was not able to be with him on that occasion,"
says the happy sister of the archbishop, "but I am planning to be in Chicago. I
would not miss it."
|