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By Msgr. Noel C. Burtenshaw
Over 40 years ago, before she took the sisters veil, Sister
Margaret Cooney had obtained a law degree. She joined the Grey Nuns of the
Sacred Heart and got herself a masters degree in literature from Catholic
University. She received a fellowship to Oxford University in England. The Wall
Street Journal gave her a journalism award. She became a professor of English
at DYouville College in Buffalo.
So what is this remarkable woman doing counseling alcoholics and
drug addicts in Atlanta?
I came to Atlanta in 1975 to teach at St. Judes
School, says this ever-youthful sister, but I made it known that I
was interested in helping victims of addiction. Well, word came pretty quickly
from a most unusual doctor who was organizing a most unusual center that he
wanted me to see. It began a new day in my career.
The unusual doctor was G. Douglas Talbot, an
addictionologist and psychiatrist who was organizing Ridgeview Institute in
Smyrna. Dr. Talbot persuaded me to obtain qualification as a Clinical
Pastoral Educator (CPE). I did and on Easter Sunday 1977, the work under this
great man began at Ridgeview.
Dr. Talbot is one of the nations foremost proponents of the
disease concept of addiction. According to Talbot, drug and alcohol dependency
is a three-fold disease, emotional, physical and spiritual. Sister Margaret
Cooney is a treatment specialist when it comes to the victims spiritual
recovery.
The patient is bankrupt spiritually when he comes to
us, says Sister Margaret. His disease told him to be dishonest, to
lie, to be sneaky. The drug became his god. He used anyone and anything to get
it. Faith-wise, he may have very little. Helping that side of recovery is most
rewarding.
Every morning Sister Margaret applies her skills as therapist when
she leads the patients in spiritual group. They organize it
and they love to do it, says Sister. But the medicinal hand of this
unusual nun is always there.
Sunday mornings from 10 to 11 the patients bring their families
and all participate in the spiritual medication of Sister Margaret. At
Ridgeview we say addiction is a family disease. We treat the family here and
then in aftercare we continue the treatment for two years after the patient
goes home. The entire family is touched by the disease; the entire family needs
repair.
But Sister Margarets ministry goes deeper. Addicts
have often lost contact with their church and also with the leaders of the
church. They have shunned contact with the clergy or have been looked down upon
by the clergy who sometimes consider them simply morally evil. So we try to
reach out to the ministers.
Boldly, Sister Margaret has reached out from the beginning. In
October 1977, as she began her work for addicts, Sister Margaret and Ridgeview
sponsored the first Clergy Day at the Smyrna center. That first year 27
attended, remembers Sister. Last year 109 were present. And the
attitudes have greatly changed. The disease concept of chemical dependency has
grown in everyones experience.
Sister tells the story of a prominent local minister who attended
a seminar at Ridgeview some years ago and when thanking the staff for the
enlightening experience of the day repeated his own belief that their patients
had to be helped to get rid of their bad habits.
But Sister is quick to withhold blaming the clergy. Dr.
Talbot has special concern for fellow doctors, says Sister Margaret.
The medical profession is still slow to treat addiction as a disease. But
he reaches out to them with the message and many of his patients here at
Ridgeview are impaired physicians from across the nation and Canada. It is
amazing. Acceptance can be slow.
Sister Margaret has those facts about addiction at the tips of her
fingers, facts that we all dread to hear. Doctors liberally prescribing Valium
and Librium and a host of other drugs to housewives and pressurized business
people until the line of addiction has been crossed.
Drugstores peddling non-prescription drugs, pills and remedies at
a lively rate to victims who eventually go under to the chemical.
Ridgeview Institute through its program and its aftercare, which often
includes supervised half-way houses, carries the message that these broken
lives are victims of a disease. The moralist and the medics are beginning to
see it.
Last year some of Sister Margarets former patients spoke to
the gathered clergy. That is always an experience, says Sister
Margaret. One of our recovering addicts really put it well last year when
he said that each time he looked for a pamphlet on addiction at his church, he
found it lined up with the books on immorality. It was on the rack with all the
shall nots. The addict is not evil, he is sick.
Sister Margaret knows that recovery can be the most courageous
path any human being can travel.
We understand that, says this well-adjusted
professional religious woman. If clergy also understand it, so will the
flock. Very often in the past as the patient left he would say I
dont want to go back to church, Sister. They just would not
understand. Well, that attitude is changing. We see it--its
changing.
Clergy Day at Ridgeview is being planned once more. Sister
Margaret is preparing to invite clergy from across the metro area to this
experience of education on Tuesday, Oct. 13. It has been a deepening
experience for us all in the past, says Sister. This year will be
beneficial too.
If attitudes among professionals, including clergy, are changing
concerning the disease aspect of addiction, then Ridgeview Institute and
centers like it can be thanked for this ministry.
And Margaret Cooney, a Catholic Sister for this time of growth, is
a vital part of that rich outreach.
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