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By Michael Motes
Father Daniel OConnor has completed his annual hunt for
RCRs -- Retired Roman Catholics -- and is so ecstatic with the
results that he is practically shouting from the rooftop of St. Thomas Aquinas
Church in Alpharetta.
For the second year, the parish sponsored Operation
Homecoming, a multi-faceted program of special homilies, parish seminars,
advertising and doorbell ringing with one goal in mind -- to return alienated
Catholics to their Church.
Using approximately 40 per cent of the manpower available in his
750 family parish, Father OConnor and the Homecoming committee reached
more than 400 alienated Catholics during the three months the project
flourished.
Following guidelines established for the first successful
Homecoming project, Father OConnor and his workers felt a little more at
ease the second time around and chose as their main theme do it better
this time. The original concept had been a first in the country and drew
more than 600 requests from throughout the nation and six foreign countries for
copies of guidelines used at St. Thomas Aquinas.
Father OConnor recalls the Homecoming Breakfast as a real
highlight of the final stages of the program.
We cancelled our religious education classes that morning to
use the parish hall for breakfast, he says. It made the Sunday what
we were trying to make it, a real Homecoming. More than 53 visitors
(we didnt count children) were welcomed by about 2,000 of our own
parishioners.
Many of those visitors, Im sure, had done nothing
about returning to the practice of their faith; but at least on that morning,
they knew they were wanted and welcomed, perhaps for the first time since they
dropped away. They also know that there is a parish for them to return to, when
they are ready. And that is a reason I feel I can call the program successful
and worth the effort. One of the negative features of the program, Father
OConnor said, is that very few young people responded.
I know only three who have returned to the Church from the
under age 30 bracket, he laments. This despite the fact that many
of our parents contacted sons and daughters who are no longer attending Mass.
It is obvious to me, after two years of experimenting, that the format we used
has little attraction for young people. Something else must be tried.
Following the Homecoming Breakfast, the parish sponsored a week of
evening seminars dealing with topics that it was felt might have been in some
way responsible for the alienated Catholics originally abandoning their faith.
Subjects included birth control, divorce and ways in which the Church has
changed.
The divorce and remarriage seminar was conducted by three priests
from the archdiocesan Marriage Tribunal and was much more explosive
than a similar seminar during the first Homecoming project, says Father
OConnor.
We were hard pressed to explain the reaction -- bitter in
some cases -- to this seminar, he says. The subject matter was the
same as the first year and in some cases the lecturers were the same. But the
feelings of the participants - both RCRs and parishioners - were noticeably
higher, and the inability or the unwillingness to accept the Churchs
teaching regarding the Eucharist in the case of remarriage without annulment
was very pronounced.
The only explanation I can suggest for the different
reaction this year is a widespread misunderstanding of the pronouncement
regarding the lifting of the penalty of excommunication for remarriage. This
must have raised hopes that all obstacles to the sacraments had been removed.
Or perhaps the wording of our advertisements regarding the seminars was at
fault. Whatever, the reaction was sufficient notice to us, and should be to all
others, that this is probably the most sensitive area in the Church today.
Great tact and understanding are required in any outreach to the divorced and
remarried. It is an issue that cannot be approached casually.
Although the number of RCRs who actually returned to the Church is
fewer this year, 15 to 20 as compared to 25 to 30 following Homecoming I,
Father OConnor feels that this years program was more successful.
It may sound strange to say that fewer numbers represent
greater success, he explained. But I measure what Homecoming II did
for our parish. It united us in a common effort to appreciate our own faith and
to share it with others. I am personally convinced that we are a better parish
now than we were and Homecoming II is the reason.
The success of the Homecoming concept is so great that it will be
featured during the First Annual National Catholic Lay Celebration of
Evangelization, which is being held in Washington, August 16 to 18. St. Thomas
Aquinas parishioner George Clements, a major worker during both local programs,
will conduct the seminar in Washington. |