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By Suzanne Jeffrey
The 83-year-old woman has arthritis and has had a stroke. Her
granddaughter hesitates to take a job, afraid to be away from the elderly lady,
but they need the money. The woman has no way to get to her doctor in Norcross.
Sound pretty hopeless? Hardly.
In a short time, she will be visited by a parish minister, a
miracle come alive who will set the right wheels in motion with the help of St.
Vincent de Paul Society, the Womens Guild, the church youth group. She
will get food stamps for the woman, set up telephone reassurance, in general
make her life more comfortable for her.
Who is this angel of mercy? She is not a member of
the religious community. She is not a Eucharistic minister. She is Patricia
Welch, the first lay parish minister to the elderly in the Atlanta area. She
has been hired by Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, 2855 Briarcliff Road N.E.
As of March 1, Ms. Welch has taken full responsibility for
coordinating the senior citizen outreach program. She will work with groups
both at the parish and at the community level to accomplish her goals.
My purpose is to determine elderly needs and to link up the
parish and community with those needs, she asserts.
The former teacher and member of a social work order completed a
four year stint with the DeKalb Council on Aging before coming to IHM. Her job
as a social work coordinator was abolished when the Council on Aging
reorganized and decentralized, she says.
What she has found most gratifying about working with senior
citizens is their openness and genuineness.
They have so much to offer. They need to give love and be
loved. The Church should open the way for them as individuals, she says.
Ms. Welch plans to utilize the Friendly Hearts elderly
group to make contacts and get her pilot project off the ground. I will
be experimenting on the parish level to see if the need is there, she
says. Initially, she intends to do all of the outreach work alone. Support will
come from the parish through such organizations as the Parish Council, Action
Youth Group, St. Vincent de Paul Society, Legion of Mary, and Womens
Guild. It will come from the community through such groups as Life Enrichment,
the American Association of Retired Persons, Catholic Social Services, and the
DeKalb County Division of Family Services.
Welch is grateful for the enthusiastic response from the parish
thus far. Im amazed at the amount of enthusiasm Ive found in
the parish. Its just beautiful, tremendously encouraging, declares
the lay minister.
The 49-year-old coordinator from Syracuse, N.Y. and Miami
justifies her efforts, one alternative among many for a social worker, by her
feeling that elderly individuals are a special group of people and
that she has a special call to serve them. When the secular world
complains that aging and old people are our biggest problem today, Catholics
must answer that the elderly are a God-given opportunity to bring Christ to
others, to put our faith into action. When we hear a materialistic world say,
At age 65 you must move out of our way, you are no longer of any use or
value to society, we must counter with, We see and serve Christ in
each of you. We need the treasures of your minds and hearts and the wisdom of
your years to enrich our lives, Ms. Welch commented.
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