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What does a parish do about their only at Easter or
Christmas Catholic members? Or worse yet, what does it do about people
living inside parish boundaries who stopped practicing their faith years ago?
In most cases, the answer is very little.
For St. Thomas Aquinas, its a unique program called
Operation Homecoming. Located in the middle of the rapidly growing
Roswell/Alpharetta area, St. Thomas Aquinas has seen the transfer in of many
families from the Northeast and Midwest, including a number who are, or should
be, active Catholics.
Too many persons coming into our area are what I call
Roman Catholics Retired or RCRs, reports the pastor, Father
Dan OConnor. Some of these people may come once or twice and even
register, but do not attend Mass regularly. Others have not even tried to visit
us. They obviously have been turned off by something even before they moved
here. Our job is to locate all these RCRs and urge them to give their Church
and their faith a second chance.
Im sure many parishes have looked at this problem, and
some may have tried in one way or another to actively recruit Catholics who are
no longer practicing their faith. But, if they did, nobody seems to know about
it because, as far as I can tell, were the only Atlanta-area parish to
try something as large as this.
The this is a parish-wide program involving nearly all
parishioners and encompassing everything from a special prayer card invoking
help from the Holy Spirit to ads in the Atlanta newspapers. Its all aimed
at a week-long homecoming from November 14 to 19 which, hopefully
will bring some of Father OConnors RCRs back to their faith.
The problem had been bothering the 45-year-old pastor ever
since a parish council meeting a couple of years ago when one parishioner asked
what we were doing about those people who were not coming to Mass regularly, or
had not even come once. Maybe because we were so new and growing so fast that
we didnt have time; whatever the reason, we didnt have a good
answer then.
Early last summer, Father OConnor approached leaders of
several parish organizations and sounded them out. After a couple of not
always fruitful, but always spirited meetings where ideas were tossed
around, a group was formed under the chairmanship of parishioner Joe Logue, and
a detailed program was put into place.
Parishioners are asked to fill out prospect cards,
giving the pastor as much information as they can about RCRs including why they
may no longer be coming to church.
But only if they know, Logue hastens to point out.
We are only asking for information that a parishioner knows for sure. If
its only a name, thats OK, too. The key thing is to get the name
and address and we will go from there. We dont even ask our parishioners
to sign their own names to the cards, if they dont want to be
identified.
After the cards are turned in, Logue explains, a special letter is
mailed by Father OConnor to each of the prospects. The letter outlines
the program and tells what the parish is trying to accomplish during this
special homecoming period. The recipient is then told that a St.
Thomas Aquinas parishioner will call them on the phone for an appointment.
Specially trained volunteers made the calls (Thank God our
parish is full of good salesmen, Father OConnor jokes), asking only
that the prospect give a parishioner some time to talk about the parish and
about the recent changes in the Church, and to invite the prospect to explain
what may have kept him or her from coming to Mass regularly.
Once the appointment is made, carefully chosen lay
apostles then call at the prospects home. The purpose
of this visit, Father OConnor says, is to show the person
that someone cares about them and about their problem and that we stand ready
to assist them in any way we can to return to the practice of their
faith.
The RCR is urged to talk about whatever has kept them from church,
and then is invited to attend special seminars designed to discuss in depth
what the priest and his homecoming team believe to be the four most important
issues: changes in the Mass, changes in the Church, birth control, and divorce
and remarriage.
The apostles and their prospects attend the seminars
together and, at the end of the week, a special celebration program is planned,
including time for the sacrament of reconciliation, special counseling
sessions, and a carefully prepared homecoming Mass of Thanksgiving,
followed by a covered dish supper.
For those parishioners who want to do more than just identify a
prospect, they are encouraged to hand-deliver Father OConnors
special invitation letter, and then to personally escort the prospect to the
seminars and other events.
And, for those who are not known to be RCRs, special efforts are
being made to reach them. Advertisements explaining the program are being
placed in both Atlanta and neighbor newspapers and a copy of the ad will be
distributed as a flyer throughout the parish.
The idea here is to reach everyone we can with our
homecoming message, Logue explains. It will also
heighten interest by those directly contacted by our apostles and
the overall effect will be to generate more interest in the seminars scheduled
for the week of November 14. This is real evangelization, Father
OConnor says. I cannot think of anything that we do as a parish
that is more important. If we can reach 10 people and bring them back to Jesus
Christ and His Church, all of our efforts will be worthwhile.
How many people can be contacted by St. Thomas Aquinas, with its
current roster of 549 families?
We really dont know how many RCRs are out there,
Logue answers. We think there may be somewhere between 150 and 250
families in the Roswell and Alpharetta area that, at one time or another,
practiced the Catholic faith, or at least either the husband or wife did. We
know we wont reach them all, but we are determined to get to as many as
we can with our homecoming message.
What is that message?
As practicing Catholics, Father OConnor answers,
we all share a belief in Jesus Christ that promises everlasting life. Our
faith is too precious to keep to ourselves.
Our message is that at Sunday Mass we find Jesus and His
peace. We hope that the people we reach in our program will find that peace,
too.
We believe Operation Homecoming will generate
many positive and lingering effects throughout our parish. It reminds all of us
of the need to keep our own faith strong, as we try to share it with others.
It gives us an unique opportunity to be evangelists for
Christ, and to bring His Gospel to our friends and neighbors. We are asking the
Holy Spirit to use us to bring these people home to Christ and to
His Church.
For most of us, it will be the first time weve dared
to be real evangelists. All of our parishioners will be better Catholics
because weve tried. |