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By Marie Mulvenna
Fourteen years ago a young Cuban teenager arrived in Miami,
fleeing Castros Cuba with his two older brothers, leaving behind the rest
of his family and facing an entirely new environment and life.
Looking back now, Carlos Sans, recently named program director of
the Resettlement Services of the Archdiocese of Atlanta, says it was a
traumatic experience but one that opened a whole new and wonderful
world to him.
Carlos has been appointed by the archdiocese to fill the
resettlement post held for 12 years by Father Raphael McDonald, OFM, who is
currently serving his order in Peru. An intense and soft-spoken young man,
Carlos admits he is both excited and challenged at his new position which
combines his duties in resettlement and handling immigration cases as well as
his duties as a social caseworker to Spanish-speaking people of Atlanta. He has
served in the capacity of caseworker for three years.
Presently, he is working through the United States Catholic
Conferences Department of Refugee Services on several cases, one
involving some Ugandans, who are coming to join relatives in Atlanta who had
been processed a year or two ago by Father McDonald. Another case currently in
process concerns refugees from Hong Kong.
When Carlos arrived in Miami at age 13, he was under the auspices
of the Catholic Welfare Bureau there and attended a special school for Cuban
youngsters who had come to the United States without their parents. After four
years in Miami, Carlos went on to Milledgeville, Georgia, attending Georgia
College and receiving his BA degree in psychology and social work.
He first arrived in Atlanta when he heard there might be an
opening with Father McDonalds office for a Spanish-speaking caseworker.
Now he vows he would never leave Atlanta for any other city on
earth. He speaks of the city with warmth, explaining it has the flavor of
a big city but a certain something unique that puts it far above
all the other cities he has visited throughout the country.
He also views the influx of other nationalities to Atlanta as a
very strong indicator to its claim of hoping to become an international city.
All these new people will influence the city in some way, not just as
small ethnic pockets in different areas, but learning to get together, live
together and learn from each other. The future of Atlanta could be a very
exciting one indeed. He joked about having a Greek hamburger
for lunch, adding with a smile, What other city would give you that
choice?
Carlos duties will also include work with the Cuban St.
Vincent de Paul Society, aiding newcomers in finding basic needs for their new
lives here. He speaks enthusiastically of current dialogue with other agencies
in the city serving Spanish speaking people as well as those of other
nationalities. We have started meeting and talking to see the needs of
the new person to the Atlanta society and how we can meet those needs.
Part of his many duties as a caseworker have involved dealings
with emotional problems of the Spanish-speaking population, but he adds, it is
quite a bit more than that. In many cases, he serves as an interpreter, often
going to various schools to discuss pupil problems with teachers, then
explaining the situation to the concerned parents.
Very often, he says, it is simply that the parents do not
understand the school procedures and he provides that vital personal link.
Everyone knows about the generation gap in any family when
youngsters hit those teenage years. But, Carlos explains, add the
culture gap to that and you very often have a real problem.
He explained that families adapting to an entirely new culture often encounter
severe internal crises as a result of the change.
In most cases, he said, the child adjusts rapidly to the American
cultural scene while the parents find it extremely hard to release their
traditional outlooks and the culture of the mother country. Neither wants
to listen to the other, he said, stating that sometimes the parents view
the quick adjustment of their children as radical and hurtful to them.
Whats needed, he says quietly, is a middle ground, where the
parent can learn from the child about the new society and how to adjust to its
mores and culture while the child can learn from the parents about the society
of the parent country.
He related a humorous incident involving his own family, stating
that when the rest of his family came, his sister wanted to go to a school
party wearing a mini skirt, like all her new friends. My parents were
absolutely shocked and resisted it but when we explained that that was quite
appropriate and not something radical, they went along with it and we avoided a
crisis.
Today, he said, I spent three hours at Grady
Hospital serving as an interpreter, trying to convince an older
Spanish-speaking lady that she should have treatment prescribed. I suppose you
could say the job involves dealing with people, not only with emotional or
guidance problems, but with just adjusting and understanding their new
environment and how to cope with it.
Carlos still has many cases coming to his warmly furnished office
at the Catholic Center, both young people and entire families. He is also
presently working with the office of the marriage tribunal in dealing with
marriage cases involving Spanish-speaking persons. At present, he has a Spanish
brochure ready to go out to all the churches describing the varied services and
aids the office has to offer. It will be a mixture of casework, immigration,
job needs, St. Vincent de Paul needs, interpreting, etc.
When he looks back now on 1962 and his arrival in the U.S., Carlos
says it was indeed traumatic but adds quickly that it was a great experience.
It exposed me to a different culture and also made me responsible for my
actions at age 13. I learned a great deal from it.
Carlos parents, two more brothers and three sisters are now
in the U.S. His father is a psychiatrist on the staff of Central State Hospital
in Milledgeville and one brother also lives in Atlanta.
As far as returning to Cuba, Carlos says he would very much like
to go sometimes to see all his relatives but adds he wouldnt want to live
there the way the country is at present. In his personal opinion, he did not
foresee any drastic change in Cubas structure in the near future and said
even if Castro were overthrown there would still be a need for someone or
something to unite the many factions and people.
At present, however, Carlos Sans is more than happy to be in
Atlanta doing his work for the archdiocese and serving the foreign newcomer to
the city in multitudinous ways. |