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By Fr. John Adamski
A recent article with an awesome-sounding title points our some
very important things about the nature of a vocation to service in the Church.
In the June 1972 issue of the report form the seminary department
of the National Catholic Educational Association, Walter J. Coville, a clinical
psychologist in New York, writes concerning The Psychological Development
of Tentative Commitment to the Priesthood and the Religious Life.
Id like to share an important section of that article with you:
A vocation is a global activity to which an individual feels
that he is called because of his unique interests and talents and to which he
consecrates himself and dedicates his very existence. Few things in life are
more important than developing and choosing a vocation in which a person will
provide for those who may be dependent upon him, and will contribute his share
to church and society, and in which he hopes to achieve a high degree of
self-realization and self-fulfillment. The religious vocation, as any other
vocation that involves significant responsibility over others, is not extended
to just any person simply because he desires it. The aspirant must satisfy
certain basic requirements and it is important to identify these in our
considerations concerning the psychological development of commitment to a
vocation.
Thus the first and core characteristic of a religious vocation is
spirituality. This means that the priest or religious must himself be capable
of a profound involvement with God, must be dedicated to the ministry of the
Church and must be able to influence others with an enthusiasm and generosity
that will enable him to postpone or forego his own ambitions in order to insure
spiritual guidance and a Christian ministry of service for others.
A second and intimately related characteristic of a
religious vocation is an appropriate and genuine motivation that is rooted in a
strong and continuing desire to do Gods work. This is a basic and
essential characteristic that may be complicated and clouded, especially during
the early years of a developing vocation, by romantic, immature or even
neurotic features.
A third requirement is that the religious candidate have
adequate basic intelligence, characterized by good practical judgment and
qualities of mind that will enable him to function securely with a certain
degree of responsibility and in accordance with his value convictions.
Emotional stability, which tends to cut across all of the
other requirements and influences each in a unique way, is a fourth requisite
of a religious vocation. The life of the religious man or woman is not easy
since it makes extraordinary emotional demands and requires emotional resources
that enable the individual not only to endure the stresses of religious life
but also to maintain a continued and loyal commitment to the religious
vocation.
Finally, the religious vocation requires a certain degree of
human relations ability. This, of course, implies that the individual is at
ease with and accepts himself as well as others, is adequately social and
sympathetic, is capable of communicating his ideas and convictions to others,
and, if necessary, is capable of working in isolation.
All of this may sound like a tall order for any human person. The
point is not that each person thinking about service in the Church have all of
these qualities already put together in a faultless manner. Rather, these are
the goals and ideals of human personality which a person dedicating his life to
leadership in the Church should be working toward.
The men and women who seek to serve others in this way need not be
super person, but they certainly do need to be aware of their own
personal strengths and weaknesses, understanding themselves as well as
possible. This is important if they are going to be communicating something of
the life of faith through their own lives to other people.
That, of course, is the other side of the coin. It may be good to
reflect on Dr. Covilles psychological outline for a while in order to try
and appreciate some of its significance.
But we must also remember that the kind of life were
thinking about also demands a firm intention to listen to the Lords call
and his direction for ones life. It is that sort of openness to the God
we call Father which will be the final determination of our ability to serve
his people. |