|
By Teresa Garnazian
Pregnant And Need Help? Call Birthright: 688-4496
This ad, running daily in our local papers, provides a contact
with a trained volunteer who firmly believes It is the right of every
pregnant woman to give birth and the right of every child to be born.
A year ago in Atlanta there was no specific crisis center where a
distressed girl or woman could find immediate help with an unplanned pregnancy.
Today because of Birthright, its a different story. That story
unfolds itself in the following interview with Mrs. Terry Weaver, Director of
Birthright.
Q. How did Birthright get underway in Atlanta?
A. In 1968 when a liberalized abortion law was introduced in
Georgia those of us defending the babys right to life were frequently
posed the pertinent question: What are you doing to help the poor woman
or unwanted child? It was then I realized a positive step should be
taken. With the help and advice of Louise Summerhill, founder of Birthright in
Toronto, Canada and many professional people locally and nationally who shared
our concern, work was started toward opening a Birthright center in Atlanta.
Space was donated in the St. Vincent de Paul office, 316 Ivy St., N.E. where we
operate at present and after an intensive training program, we opened our
crises center.
Q. What is involved in a training session?
A. A training session includes talks by a doctor, minister, social
worker and an attorney. A volunteer is trained to present alternatives to the
client, letting her reach all decisions herself. Many people are unaware of the
alternatives that are available and the help that is available within the
community. All calls are strictly confidential. Problems which seem large
dwindle with sympathetic listening and understanding. Many women reach a crisis
during pregnancy where they feel things are unbearable. Birthright provides the
opportunity to get the woman through the crisis and panic period. The volunteer
considers each womens particular circumstances so there is no set pattern
in helping a client. The volunteer must be able to answer such questions as:
How can I tell if I am pregnant? Should I tell my family? Where can I obtain
good medical care? Where can I place my baby for adoption? Can I keep my baby?
How can I support another child? Where can I live until my baby is born? The
volunteer must be alert to the emotional, psychological, financial and social
problems that confront the caller and direct her to the proper agencies or
individuals, always, letting her feel free to come back for support and
encouragement. By establishing rapport on a one-to-one basis, Birthright hopes
to offer the pregnant woman a positive alternative to abortion. Birthright has
no official stand on whether or not an unmarried woman should keep her baby.
This decision is left strictly to the mother.
Q. What are the office hours?
A. Ten til two, Monday through Friday and on Monday evening
from six til 9. A recording is used at other hours. Girls are invited to come
by for coffee and a visit as well as to call.
Q. What are the most urgent needs of your group?
A. We depend entirely on donations for our existence, so naturally
contributions are always welcome. One church group sponsors a monthly bake sale
to pay for a second telephone. Two mothers collect glass for recycling to raise
money. We have an almost desperate need for diapers (usable used ones are
gratefully accepted), baby clothes, maternity clothes, gowns and dusters for
the mother to use while in the hospital, baby furniture of any kind, crib
sheets, pads, etc. We can use volunteers to drive, mend clothing, launder
clothing, and for housing. Our goal for early 72 is a center where the
girls can come and meet one another and talk over their problems in pleasant
surroundings. Last but not least, we could use more volunteers.
An ad in the paper, a friendly voice showing love and concern, a
pooling of community resources for a pregnant women in distress and an
unborn child receives the most basic of all his rights his right to life.
|