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By Leonard Teel
Convinced that couples about to be married dont get enough
professional advice, one Atlanta Catholic church this week will begin offering
expert counseling on medical problems and some likely husband-wife conflicts
after the honeymoon.
The counseling is part of the new city-wide Marriage Catechumenate
offered at Sacred Heart Church, 335 Ivy Street, N.E.
In a day when family life has been so widely attacked, the
need for preparing our young people for Christian marriage is greater than
ever, the Rev. John J. Mulroy, pastor of Sacred Heart, explained.
For three years, priests in his parish have been relying upon
expert counselors. With the approval of the archbishop, the Saturday evening
sessions are being offered to any couples in the archdiocese, Fr. Mulroy said.
The first session runs from 7:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. Saturday. After
four meetings, the series begins again in November.
One counselor, Julia Hogan, director of Catholic Family Services,
will discuss some of the problems of couples whose marriages got into trouble.
Shell tell them, look, these are the problems I see in
my office and this is why theyre fighting and this is why theyre
breaking up, Fr. Mulroy said.
A married couple, Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Brieske, who have counseled
at pre-marriage conferences in South Carolina, will discuss their own marriage.
They have three children.
The physicians view of marriage will be discussed by Dr. Al
Krotoski who works with the malaria program of the U.S. Public Health
Department in Atlanta. Dr. Krotoski and his wife participated in pre-marriage
conferences in Panama.
Talking about medical problems, you do need a doctor,
Fr. Mulroy says. You can ask a doctor to sacrifice an evening for several
couples whereas you couldnt get him to do it for each one.
When else can you sit down for an hour and a half and talk
to a doctor free of charge?
In addition, one session conducted by Rev. Eusebius Beltran, head
of the matrimonial tribunal of the archdiocese, is concerned with
Christs View of Marriage -- one husband, one wife, one
divorce, and Christs various messages about the sacrament of marriage.
Fr. Mulroy himself will conduct the first of the four sessions,
Beginning Your Marriage, discussing the sacrament, and giving an
outline of the ceremony and the required documents.
Other cities have been offering this sort of professional
counseling for years, Fr. Mulroy said. Atlanta is about the only
city that hasnt had it. We never had that many people getting married. We
havent had that many Catholics.
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