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Shortly before the turn of the century, Rose Hawthorne Lathrop,
youngest daughter of Nathaniel Hawthorne, the famous American novelist,
renounced her life of cultured ease and began one that was to be vastly
different. At 45 years of age this courageous woman started the work that was
to spread through six states and benefit countless thousands of cancer
sufferers. Because she wanted to be OF the poor as well as AMONG them, Rose
sold her comfortable home and rented three dingy rooms in a rundown tenement on
New York Citys Lower East Side. She was not warmly received, but her love
and perseverance broke down the distrust of her neighbors and soon the word
spread that help was available for hapless cancer victims. Very little was
understood about the disease at that time and many thought it to be contagious,
with the result that families often shunted these poor sufferers into cellars
and dark corners, thus adding disgrace to physical pain.
Rose met the needs as they appeared. At first she nursed the
patients in their own homes, and when this was no longer practical she moved
them into her apartment. Soon it became apparent that larger quarters would
have to be provided, so she moved to a 4-room apartment not too far away.
Before long she had seven patients squeezed in there and the need was
increasing daily.
She worked early and late, nursing, cooking, cleaning. There was
no time for play or even for relaxation. Night and day she toiled, dressing
wounds, cheering the sick, comforting the dying, praying in the meantime that
God would send someone to help here. She was carried aloft by the tremendous
need that confronted her. Who would refuse to respond to this heartbreaking
plea: Kind Friend: The baby is dead. Can you oblige me with some kind of
a little dress to put on it and an old sheet if you have one?
After a year and a half of almost uninterrupted work, God sent her
Alice Huber, an art teacher, and together they founded on December 8, 1900 the
Congregation of St. Rose of Lima, a branch of the Dominican Order. The work was
now rooted in fertile soil and quickly it spread.
Twice more, because of crowded conditions it became necessary to
move to larger quarters, and today on the site of her last purchase there
stands at 71 Jackson Street, New York City, a modern 100-bed, 6-story building
for the care of incurable cancer patients. It is in lower Manhattan, below the
United Nations Building.
Rose Hawthorne, now Mother Alphonsa, found that her Community was
growing apace with her work, and in 1901 she bought a large estate situated
atop a hill at Hawthorne, New York, in the beautiful Westchester countryside.
There she established the Motherhouse of the Hawthorne Dominicans, adjacent to
another 100-bed home for her guest-patients as she called her sick
friends.
Years later, Alice Huber, now Mother Rose, opposed the dire
predictions of friends, and during the great depression opened Homes in
Philadelphia, Penn.; Fall River, Mass.; Atlanta, Georgia; St. Paul, Minn.; and
Cleveland, Ohio.
Here in the lovely Southland Our Lady of Perpetual Help Home was
opened in 1939. March of this year will mark its thirtieth anniversary. It is a
beautiful old structure of Byzantine architecture, located at 760 Washington
Street, S.W., and set on four acres of ground. The corridors throughout the
building are of Georgian marble. It is a spacious, cheerful home with
accommodations for 75 patients. On pleasant days the patients may walk around
the grounds or sit on the porches at the rear of the building. The view there
is wonderful. Beside a large stone grotto of Our Lady Of Perpetual Help there
stands a mighty white oak with its sturdy branches fanning out protectively,
behind it a forest of fresh green Georgia pines. Beneath the oak peacocks
parade in a long wire enclosure. Plants, shrubs and flowers add year-round
beauty to the scene.
Every possible consideration is given the patients. Nursing care
and medication is supplied around the clock, and an excellent staff of doctors
provide medical care, visiting weekly and giving of their time freely. A sister
is on duty at all times. The specialized attention required to care for all
types of cancerous conditions makes the home literally a 75-bed intensive care
unit.
Televisions and radios are provided as far as the supply permits.
Frequently there are entertainments by groups, most recently a singing jamboree
by the Cathedral Club, led by Father Prendergast. Many distinguished visitors
have come to the home, among them His Excellency, Luigi Raimondi, apostolic
delegate to the United States, Archbishop Thomas A. Donnellan, former
Archbishop Paul J. Hallinan, Bishop Joseph Bernardin. Before the era of
concelebrated Mass, the home one day found itself host to thirty-one
Benedictine Monks prepared to say as many Masses. There was at least one swivel
head at the end of the day, owned by a Sister who was anxious to partake of
each Mass.
To give a homelike atmosphere there are birds, tropical fish, gold
fish, even dogs and peacocks. Visitors delight in playing with the beautiful
Akita dog, Lo-Jo, a gift from the health inspector. Most important, however, is
the manifest spirit of love and congeniality shown by patients, sisters,
volunteers, and visitors alike.
Many stirring dramas have taken place in this home and many
interesting histories are revealed in the lives of the patients. Nearly all
come to realize the mercy of God and the glorious destiny that awaits us all.
One patient, reunited with his son after a separation of eleven years, could
only weep and embrace him. Again, a family was brought together after a
near-lifetime separation around the bedside of a loved one. Family
breaches are healed, hearts gladdened, and faith is restored.
Almost any day one can witness a tremendous interplay of human
emotions sorrow, joy, love, neglect, contribution, resignation, peace,
humor. During the circling of the moon by the astronauts, one patient had a
rather sour looking expression on his face. Why? I cant even get to
South Carolina, he said disgustedly. Just recently a talented musician
joined the ranks of patients and now on his good days he charms
everyone with his lilting tunes and lovely singing voice.
The name of Mary Ann is a familiar one to most Atlantans, for she
was the little girl about whom the book MEMOIR OF MARY ANN was written. Nine
years of her short twelve-year life was spent in Our Lady of Perpetual Help
Home, and she left an indelible mark on whose lives she touched. At one time
during her stay, her little sister visited her. Childlike, she was anxious to
impress all with her pious fervor, and when she was missing one day Mary Ann
looked for her in chapel. Mary Ann was not at all impressed. Is all I say
is, (her famous method of beginning a pronouncement) if you want to
stay here you have got to work! Mary Ann was a very practical child and
was disturbed when one day she found herself returning a glass to the
refrigerator and a carton of milk to the shelf. Im getting too much
like the sisters, she was heard to mutter.
Prayer occupies a certain part of the day, of course. Once during
the recitation of the Angelus someone was trying to escape unnoticed, but
everywhere she stepped she came across a kneeling, praying nun. Good
grief! she exclaimed in desperation, theyre praying all over
the place!
Morale in the home is high and many patients have the ability to
laugh at themselves. One who had lost both legs was watching intently as Sister
bathed the feet of another. Casually he remarked I could use that water
for my feet, but Im afraid to catch his calluses. Or there was
Annie, who refused to obey Sister one day, and with a toss of the head
explained, I was eighty years old that day and I can do what I want
now.
From the very beginning, Rose Hawthorne refused to accept pay for
her services, and it remains to this day a strict rule that no money will be
accepted from a patient or a relative. All ages, all creeds, all colors, all
conditions, are welcome. Only two things are required for admission: incurable
cancer and inability to pay for proper care.
The history of Our Ladys Home, as it is often called,
includes pain and silent sorrow, uniquely joined with the sacrificial
sufferings of the Lord, continuing the merits of His supreme sacrifice to our
own day. It includes the festive celebrations of Christmas, Easter,
Thanksgiving, the dedication of the flag, recently held, citizens awards or
scout honors, birthday observances, name day remembrances, even a wedding day
visit from two friends who came directly from the Church to warm the
patients hearts with their newly found and very special love. It
includes, too, the free gift of doctors whose total dedication and
self-sacrifice are an inspiration to the sisters
..the wonderful support
of the Ladies Auxiliary and the Pharmaceutical Auxiliary; the faithful work of
Mrs. Cecilia McLauchlins Sewing Guild, and the many other circles and
groups who help in so many ways
and the exceptional goodness and charity
of Mr. and Mrs. Atlanta who have made possible these thirty years of service.
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