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By Chris Eckl
When Christmas comes to Our Lady of Perpetual Help Cancer Home it
stays for the rest of the year.
As in any other home decorations go up and are taken down, Santa
Claus assumes a place of honor and then is tucked away in a box, but the spirit
of Christmas - giving, receiving and dignity - remains with the patients and
nuns at the rambling brick building on Washington Street.
Christmas seems to creep into the home in mid-December. A star
appears in a window. A crib is put up in a ward.
And before you know it the place is ablaze with Christmas,
with a type of holiness and happiness which satisfies an eager child or stirs
the hardened cynic, said Father Pat Connell, chaplain at the home for the
past five years.
What makes Christmas such a happy time at the home? Father Connell
repeated the question and then replied, One would imagine that in a place
where people are sick unto death, Christmas would be toned down - not as joyful
for patients, staff and visitors.
But as in so many things involving attitude, it is a time of
a particular kind of joy and satisfaction that seems to sustain the sick and
the casual visitor alike, he said. The finality of the illness
identifies the purpose for which the Prince of Peace came - to restore goodness
to His world by embracing willingly an ennobling suffering. But Christmas
days routine wont be much different for the Dominican Sisters of
the Servants of Relief. The 16 nuns at the home will rise at 4:45 a.m. and do
their initial ward work before attending Mass at 6:30 a.m. A slight exception
to the normal day will be midnight Mass.
After the morning Mass Father Connell will take Holy Communion to
many of the 60 patients. I dont think I would know which patients
are Catholic (only one of 19 is,) until the sisters showed me, he said,
but all patients receive a blessing.
What will Sister M. Josephine, O.P., who has been at the home
since 1939, do? Ill do the same as I do everyday, the
superior said. Well, not quite. She will open her Christmas mail and gifts. It
will be the first mail she has received in four weeks because nuns are not
allowed to open their mail during Advent.
One thing that impressed Sister Josephine about the Christmas
season is the generosity of the many people and students who bring gifts to the
home and help decorate it. This year, the waitresses at the nearby Howard
Johnsons restaurant saved their money and purchased more than $60 in
items for the children and patients at the home.
But as long as she has been at the home, Sister Josephine cannot
fully explain the spirit that warms the home on Christmas Day. She said,
The home is so cheerful and if it happens to be raining you may not even
notice it. She did touch on the spirit when she said the nuns were
uninhibited.
On a tour of the home, any visitor will meet smiling nuns --
Sister Imelda in the nursery, Sister Benedict who breeds fish, Sister Loretta
in the pharmacy, Sister George who wants to know what happened at St.
Anthonys Parish Congress and Sisters Kevin and David on one of the
womens wards.
Their ward has the largest piece of mistletoe -- it looks more
like a bush -- in Atlanta.
Sister Kevin told one of her patients that if she sat under the
mistletoe she would be kissed. The woman replied, Oh no sister. I
dont want to get married again. |